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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by lequama10: 2:16pm On Jan 25, 2021
notok:

The ability to afford one's basic needs is no longer a gender role , it's a basic survival skill . I don't blame her , I blame the men who play fatherly roles all in the name of relationship.
una 2 ur head go correct las las, so asking my girl to cook is a fatherly role, Issorite eku ise...
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Derastina(f): 2:17pm On Jan 25, 2021
This is hilarious
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by orisunmibare01(m): 2:17pm On Jan 25, 2021
JovialJune:



Did your friend specifically tell her what to cook?


BAD MARKET!!

ABORT MISSION!!

NA THEM!!

I REPEAT, NA THEM!!


OVER AND OUT!!!

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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Olaideolayemi(m): 2:19pm On Jan 25, 2021
JovialJune:



Did your friend specifically tell her what to cook?
Even thus he didn't tell her to Cook so so?With that kind of money meant for snack?You too,think about it now...just be sincere...
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:19pm On Jan 25, 2021
I know those snapshots aren't real. Just some bored dude seeking attention and looking for waggling tongues. But if it is true, then this is an apparent case of "when kids date".

Marriage and relationships nowadays lack substance and tolerance.

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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Nobody: 2:19pm On Jan 25, 2021
JovialJune:



Did your friend specifically tell her what to cook?
PRAY NOT TO MARRY YOUR DADDY BECAUSE PEOPLE LIKE YOU ALWAYS END UP IN THEIR DADDY. HOUSE_ _____AS NIGERIA WOMEN BECOME STEERING THAT YOUR MUST TURN AROUND TO KNOW THE RIGHT WAY TO FOLLOW
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Olaideolayemi(m): 2:20pm On Jan 25, 2021
JovialJune:



So what is bad in what she bought?
So didn't see bad in what she bought? Nawaa for you..It means you're the same..
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by okrikaboi: 2:22pm On Jan 25, 2021
Leshurr:
Reminds me of what my own mother did to me and my elder sis.

Unknown to us, a fly died inside a pot of stew we jointly prepared. My mother saw it, removed the dead fly then served it to me and sis with rice.

Then she cooked fresh yam porridge for herself to eat.

After we finished clearing our plate, she told us that food we ate had a dead fly in it.. and it serves us right since we refused to cover the pot of soup.

I'm saying this to say, op is right in dumping that girl, she doesn't love him and is comfortable in exposing him to harm.
AWALT cool
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by tunapawizzy: 2:22pm On Jan 25, 2021
CAN SOMEONE HELP ME FIND THIS GUY...i want to pay my respect

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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 2:22pm On Jan 25, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

You assumed it is a guy. What if it's the woman who was fed the rotten tomatoes? Or why will a guy have to state that he's never asked her for money, since money is an obvious issue to men?
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Godoverevery: 2:23pm On Jan 25, 2021
Druss:


Don't worry. Y'all should go marry a mind reader. He wanted to break up with her already. This excuse is rubbish. I can't even imagine someone doing this to my sister. I can't even imagine the conversation

Me: What happened?
Sis: Boyfriend broke up with me because I didn't cook the food he wanted
Me: Why didn't you cook the food he wanted?
Sis: He gave me 4k and said I should use to buy what we would eat
Me: Then?
Sis: I used it to buy some food items
Me: Did he tell you what he wanted to eat?
Sis: No
Me: Let me understand this. He gave you 4 thousand naira, didn't tell you what he wants to eat and said you should cook food. He then broke up because it wasn't his type of food?
Sis: Yes, now that you put it that way. There is something wrong
Me: Yes he was looking for any excuse. Imagine if y'all married. Ordinary 4k is reason to break up. 4k!! Let him go marry a slave.
lol no need for the long sermon....... so of all food in this world is just indomie bread and egg
bro is just basic common sense only girls who don't no how to cook make this fast meal....

Only foolish people see cooking as slavery...is only ladies that can cook that see it as slavery...I guess you have a mother (maybe it was your dad that did the cooking).lol
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Olaideolayemi(m): 2:23pm On Jan 25, 2021
JovialJune:




Read and comprehend before bleating, indomie and egg is PART of what she bought, not what she cooked.
This isn't the issue of bleating as you have said?indomie and egg for what?Keep it up..
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Saao(m): 2:24pm On Jan 25, 2021
TheStakeHolder:

When you have two phones and you start chatting with yourself out of boredom...

Anyway let's pretend these are two people.
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Sharp guy.

It's good to be very observant when dealing with people in general, not just women.

Some people wouldn't have noticed these red flags.

Some will notice and just ignore all in the name of "letting go".

In the long run it will end in premium tears.
you don't need two phones, just one phone with two WhatsApp app, business WhatsApp and the main WhatsApp will do.

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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by jonneljonn(m): 2:24pm On Jan 25, 2021
this is the right thing to do bro
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Yaba4sure: 2:24pm On Jan 25, 2021
Bad tomatoes be like Nigerian army day peageon, eno dey gri fry and with bad teste
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Olaideolayemi(m): 2:26pm On Jan 25, 2021
JovialJune:



I don't understand, if it was a Saturday morning, all she bought was ideal cos it's a weekend, some peeps grew up or are used to eating bread, egg and tea in the morning even if it is Saturday or Sunday, so I see no wrong in what she did, if he had told her what to prepare, that would have been a different case entirely.
No No....A matured lady and home training knows what to do with that cash..how much bread,egg,and tea cost?All cost #4000...its OK..
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by jaxxy(m): 2:27pm On Jan 25, 2021
JohnspeakU:
Below is a chat between a lady and her fiancé and how a 3years relationship ended.

Who should be blamed?

The Truth is some gals are just stupid and self centered. Why cook for for more than one when u know u won’t eat??

What’s more annoying and ridiculous is she can’t confidently say the reason she wouldn’t eat then rushes home to go eat after lying. It’s a bad trait. It’s better to come clean than going round in a circle of lies. undecided
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Olaideolayemi(m): 2:27pm On Jan 25, 2021
JovialJune:



Lol don't be a sexist, try to be logical, don't just support your friend cos he's a man, he was looking for an excuse to ditch her so he used that flimsy excuse.
The man is rational sister.. Please understand him..
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Omobola121(f): 2:28pm On Jan 25, 2021
The guy is perfectly right. He needs to be very far from the girl. Her heart is not pure.
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by JovialJune(f): 2:28pm On Jan 25, 2021
Druss:


Don't worry. Y'all should go marry a mind reader. He wanted to break up with her already. This excuse is rubbish. I can't even imagine someone doing this to my sister. I can't even imagine the conversation

Me: What happened?
Sis: Boyfriend broke up with me because I didn't cook the food he wanted
Me: Why didn't you cook the food he wanted?
Sis: He gave me 4k and said I should use to buy what we would eat
Me: Then?
Sis: I used it to buy some food items
Me: Did he tell you what he wanted to eat?
Sis: No
Me: Let me understand this. He gave you 4 thousand naira, didn't tell you what he wants to eat and said you should cook food. He then broke up because it wasn't his type of food?
Sis: Yes, now that you put it that way. There is something wrong
Me: Yes he was looking for any excuse. Imagine if y'all married. Ordinary 4k is reason to break up. 4k!! Let him go marry a slave.


Thank you o, fools already insulting their mother as if the girl is at fault.


Cc Jessepaid.

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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by 1030(m): 2:30pm On Jan 25, 2021
I love his courage
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Pickieox(m): 2:30pm On Jan 25, 2021
TheStakeHolder:

When you have two phones and you start chatting with yourself out of boredom...

Anyway let's pretend these are two people.
###======


Sharp guy.

It's good to be very observant when dealing with people in general, not just women.

Some people wouldn't have noticed these red flags.

Some will notice and just ignore all in the name of "letting go".

In the long run it will end in premium tears.


I like you jare, you sabi those games but aswearugod, you don kolo ooo grin grin grin

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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Godoverevery: 2:30pm On Jan 25, 2021
JovialJune:


You are the daft one here, if the guy cannot open his mouth to tell his gf what he'd like her to cook, how is she at fault here?


You have an everlasting fish brain, who told you tea, egg and bread isn't also a proper meal? All of you hippos be carrying pot belle about eating heavily like hungry dogs all in the name of "proper food", the girl was trying to Behind up his eating habit with light breakfast in the morning, but no, y'all must show how daft you are
lol....only foolish ladies who can't cook complain about cooking.......if you good at it you will want to show it.....am very sure if that what your mum was feeding your dad when they met he won't have married her.

let me ask you fish brain
so he will eat bread for breakfast
Noodles for lunch
eggs for dinner through out the weekend??

Ds why most you are used and dumped...... because most of you have refused to use your brain.

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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Olaideolayemi(m): 2:31pm On Jan 25, 2021
dominique:


What is his own usefulness if he cannot prepare a meal by himself? He knows exactly what he wants to eat, why can't he go and source for it and make it. Cooking is no longer a gender role, it's a basic survival skill. I don't blame him though, it's the stupid girls that turn themselves into maids in the name of relationship that I blame
hmmmm..You know better.keep it up!!!

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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Odidigboigbo(m): 2:33pm On Jan 25, 2021
This was a similar experience I had with one of my ex.
We were attacked by hoodlums on our way home one faithful Friday night. My wallet containing some cash with my ATM and my phone were taken away from me, while they spare her.

When we got home, he complained of hunger, I told her to prepare Garri or boil rice because I have some soup and stew in the fridge, but she refused insisting of eating nodules.

I tried to let her see reason with me since I don't have any penny with me that night but she insisted. She managed to sleep that night. The following Saturday morning trouble started. She still insist of not eating any available thing I had at home, that she want to cook fresh food.

I want to my sister's place on her advice borrowed some money from her and gave to her to cook what she want.

Lol and behold, it was when she was arranging her things that I saw that she was with some money but don't want to use it to buy what she want to eat since she can't eat what I have at home and not being considerate of what happened to me.

That was how I quit the relationship.

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Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by makeherscream(m): 2:33pm On Jan 25, 2021
JovialJune:



So what is bad in what she bought?

Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Olaideolayemi(m): 2:36pm On Jan 25, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


What makes you think the indomie and egg wasn't what she suggested?
Y you Ladies aren't just sincere for once,tomorrow now,you will say men are scum..imagine,what you just said?A matured man will drop #4000 for indomie and egg?if yes..Y did the guy discontinued with the relationship?
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Godoverevery: 2:37pm On Jan 25, 2021
dominique:


What is his own usefulness if he cannot prepare a meal by himself? He knows exactly what he wants to eat, why can't he go and source for it and make it. Cooking is no longer a gender role, it's a basic survival skill. I don't blame him though, it's the stupid girls that turn themselves into maids in the name of relationship that I blame
oooo......then who drop the money if he is too cook because am don't want to believe you are foolishly telling me to use my money to buy food and still cook it for both us while she around.

Well is foolish ladies who can't cook that complain about cooking.....hope is your dad that is cooking for himself.
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by noble2faith(m): 2:37pm On Jan 25, 2021
Godoverevery:

lol....only foolish ladies who can't cook complain about cooking.......if you good at it you will want to show it.....am very sure if that what your mum was feeding your dad when they met he won't have married her.

let me ask you fish brain
so he will eat bread for breakfast
Noodles for lunch
eggs for dinner through out the weekend??

Ds why most you are used and dumped...... because most of you have refused to use your brain.

The most annoying thing is those guys supporting her. Getting married is becoming scarier these days.
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Funkybabee(f): 2:38pm On Jan 25, 2021
that character is bad haba
if it's real, she should be careful
Re: The Chat That Ended A 3-Year-Old Relationship (Photos) by Olaideolayemi(m): 2:39pm On Jan 25, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


I hardly taste what I cook.

In general, I'm not immediately hungry after making any meal. I will serve others first and then serve mine like thirty minutes later.
Your man was aware now?Is different from this situation..

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