notok:

The ability to afford one's basic needs is no longer a gender role , it's a basic survival skill . I don't blame her , I blame the men who play fatherly roles all in the name of relationship.

JovialJune:



Did your friend specifically tell her what to cook?

JovialJune:



Did your friend specifically tell her what to cook?

JovialJune:



Did your friend specifically tell her what to cook?

JovialJune:



So what is bad in what she bought?

Leshurr:
Reminds me of what my own mother did to me and my elder sis.

Unknown to us, a fly died inside a pot of stew we jointly prepared. My mother saw it, removed the dead fly then served it to me and sis with rice.

Then she cooked fresh yam porridge for herself to eat.

After we finished clearing our plate, she told us that food we ate had a dead fly in it.. and it serves us right since we refused to cover the pot of soup.

I'm saying this to say, op is right in dumping that girl, she doesn't love him and is comfortable in exposing him to harm.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Druss:


Don't worry. Y'all should go marry a mind reader. He wanted to break up with her already. This excuse is rubbish. I can't even imagine someone doing this to my sister. I can't even imagine the conversation

Me: What happened?
Sis: Boyfriend broke up with me because I didn't cook the food he wanted
Me: Why didn't you cook the food he wanted?
Sis: He gave me 4k and said I should use to buy what we would eat
Me: Then?
Sis: I used it to buy some food items
Me: Did he tell you what he wanted to eat?
Sis: No
Me: Let me understand this. He gave you 4 thousand naira, didn't tell you what he wants to eat and said you should cook food. He then broke up because it wasn't his type of food?
Sis: Yes, now that you put it that way. There is something wrong
Me: Yes he was looking for any excuse. Imagine if y'all married. Ordinary 4k is reason to break up. 4k!! Let him go marry a slave.

JovialJune:




Read and comprehend before bleating, indomie and egg is PART of what she bought, not what she cooked.

TheStakeHolder:

When you have two phones and you start chatting with yourself out of boredom...

Anyway let's pretend these are two people.
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Sharp guy.

It's good to be very observant when dealing with people in general, not just women.

Some people wouldn't have noticed these red flags.

Some will notice and just ignore all in the name of "letting go".

In the long run it will end in premium tears.

JovialJune:



I don't understand, if it was a Saturday morning, all she bought was ideal cos it's a weekend, some peeps grew up or are used to eating bread, egg and tea in the morning even if it is Saturday or Sunday, so I see no wrong in what she did, if he had told her what to prepare, that would have been a different case entirely.

JohnspeakU:
Below is a chat between a lady and her fiancé and how a 3years relationship ended.

Who should be blamed?

JovialJune:



Lol don't be a sexist, try to be logical, don't just support your friend cos he's a man, he was looking for an excuse to ditch her so he used that flimsy excuse.

Druss:


Don't worry. Y'all should go marry a mind reader. He wanted to break up with her already. This excuse is rubbish. I can't even imagine someone doing this to my sister. I can't even imagine the conversation

Me: What happened?
Sis: Boyfriend broke up with me because I didn't cook the food he wanted
Me: Why didn't you cook the food he wanted?
Sis: He gave me 4k and said I should use to buy what we would eat
Me: Then?
Sis: I used it to buy some food items
Me: Did he tell you what he wanted to eat?
Sis: No
Me: Let me understand this. He gave you 4 thousand naira, didn't tell you what he wants to eat and said you should cook food. He then broke up because it wasn't his type of food?
Sis: Yes, now that you put it that way. There is something wrong
Me: Yes he was looking for any excuse. Imagine if y'all married. Ordinary 4k is reason to break up. 4k!! Let him go marry a slave.

TheStakeHolder:

When you have two phones and you start chatting with yourself out of boredom...

Anyway let's pretend these are two people.
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Sharp guy.

It's good to be very observant when dealing with people in general, not just women.

Some people wouldn't have noticed these red flags.

Some will notice and just ignore all in the name of "letting go".

In the long run it will end in premium tears.

JovialJune:


You are the daft one here, if the guy cannot open his mouth to tell his gf what he'd like her to cook, how is she at fault here?


You have an everlasting fish brain, who told you tea, egg and bread isn't also a proper meal? All of you hippos be carrying pot belle about eating heavily like hungry dogs all in the name of "proper food", the girl was trying to Behind up his eating habit with light breakfast in the morning, but no, y'all must show how daft you are

dominique:


What is his own usefulness if he cannot prepare a meal by himself? He knows exactly what he wants to eat, why can't he go and source for it and make it. Cooking is no longer a gender role, it's a basic survival skill. I don't blame him though, it's the stupid girls that turn themselves into maids in the name of relationship that I blame

JovialJune:



So what is bad in what she bought?

Sixfeetbelle:


What makes you think the indomie and egg wasn't what she suggested?

dominique:


What is his own usefulness if he cannot prepare a meal by himself? He knows exactly what he wants to eat, why can't he go and source for it and make it. Cooking is no longer a gender role, it's a basic survival skill. I don't blame him though, it's the stupid girls that turn themselves into maids in the name of relationship that I blame

Godoverevery:

lol....only foolish ladies who can't cook complain about cooking.......if you good at it you will want to show it.....am very sure if that what your mum was feeding your dad when they met he won't have married her.

let me ask you fish brain
so he will eat bread for breakfast
Noodles for lunch
eggs for dinner through out the weekend??

Ds why most you are used and dumped...... because most of you have refused to use your brain.

Sixfeetbelle:


I hardly taste what I cook.

In general, I'm not immediately hungry after making any meal. I will serve others first and then serve mine like thirty minutes later.