To cut the story short:

I came across a facebook post by my girlfriend in a group where she clearly posted her picture and wrote: Female besties add me!

I have been suspecting her until i came across this post.

She claims she loves me and usually comes to spend days with me.

She does not like me to take her out and spend.

She does not bill me!

She does not bother to check my phone or accuse me of cheating or planning to cheat. (Though i have never gone through her phone before that’s just not my kind of person)


Now the confusion here is: Does she really love me or just passing time with me?

Because i do love her so much,

*Is it possible for me to discuss this lesbian issue with her?
*Can she change?
*What could have made her join lesbianism?
*Did she join when she was a boarding student at girl secondary school out of influence from friends and regretting it but difficult to stop because she hasn’t open up to someone she trust that could help her out?

If i bring up this lesbian issue to discover with her, will it end the relationship? I Love her so much and it’s hard to walk away because I’m confuse!

What does 'female besties' mean?

Looking for female "besties" doesn't really make her a lesbian. She might be looking for female friends to hang out with.

If you're still felling somehow, then monitor her closely.

If she loves you she won't engage lesbianism in the first place cos It's lack of love, environment, peers and empitness that drives most girls into lesbianism.

I'll advice you to talk to her about it in a calm manner to see if she'll open up to you. She obviously didn't wake up one day and became a lesbian. Something or an experience, incident...etc, made her choose that path.

how is this our problem, when you were asking her out, did you tell us? there are many wahala confronting Nigeria. we thereby adjourn your case to unknown date

Oga the truth is that most girls are low-key lesbians

Hehehe..... So them don dey plenty?

Plenty fishes in the river...if catfish no sweet find Titus or kote. No kill yourself. Girls yapa

How did u know she is a lesbian??, have u caught her in the act??.. or u are just assuming things because of the fb post. i'll advice u to talk to her about her sexual orientation.

so how do u want us to help u
u dont want to end the relationship, then marry a lesbian na

I dont just understand people sometimes