Olayetan:


That's why they said cut your coat according to your size, no task is too much if you stay within your capacity unless you go born born and rent expensive apartment...

Peacefullove:


Interesting. But be aware that domestic chores and cooking, taking care of the kids is 100% your responsibility too. No cheating, nobody should help one another .

helinues:


According to black man, it is the sole responsibility of the man while according to white man, it should be shared between the husband and wife

RisenPhoenix1:
That depends. Do you expect your wife to respect and defer to you as the head of the family? Or do you want her to be dragging decisions with you as full partner and co-head of the family? With authority comes responsibility. Also prepare to cook, wash plates, breastfeed, carry pregnancy and wash baby shit.

Btw, in case you think to play a fast one and make her minority shareholder (by making her pay less) in order to retain control, know that women don't calculate share value. If she puts one naira one time into the home expenses upon your request, in her mind she's as equal a partner as if she put ten million for twenty years. Be warned.

Also don't believe if she says she's giving it freely.

chii8:
In as much as a man should pay the bills,a woman should assist financially too.Make una no go kill person pikin all in the name of the head of the house.

Men...if the task is too much, speak up Biko, don't die in silence....


Modified: please all of una wey dey quote me, don't worry,frustrate the man and send him to an early grave,then you will know that being a man is not easy!

pocohantas:


The only place I see this happen is on Nairaland. Those women selling under hot sun are definitely not going through all that to do “my money is my money”. Even in my office, majority of the married women have taken loans, either to buy land or cars. We don’t ever see them with these cars because the head of the home drives it.

I dare say very few Nigerian men can shoulder the bills alone. How? With how much?

Damseldammie:
It’s your duty to pay your bills, but your wife can only support you if she wants

SSpeter:
you are correct but I have seen some exceptions. There is this guy that his wife refuses to work. The guy wanted to open a supermarket she declined. The guy Opened a driving school, put her in charge and after a while she stopped. The guy pays for everything! seriously and he grumbles a lot. If he had his way perhaps he would file for divorce

LutanFyah:



Paying bills is not gender specific, therefore it's not compulsory for a man to pay the bills in the house.

Damseldammie:
It’s your duty to pay your bills, but your wife can only support you if she wants

JovialJune:



Does the bolded include equally sharing of house chores, cooking, bathing, changing diapers for the kids, running little errands round the neighborhood and going to the market?

BRATISLAVA:


Giving respect is not gender specific, therefore it is not compulsory for a woman to respect or submit to anyone else in the house.

LutanFyah:
Yes, I agree. It's not compulsory for the woman to cook too.

It's not compulsory for a man's to defend the homefront against inlaws or any intruder, the woman should develop basic self defence skills.

vickydevoka:

My wife receives over 400k. She does nothing with it aside buying her personal stuff n sending money to her family. Now I'm tired of the marriage because we always quarrel of bills, she said she won't pay for any thing, her money is hers n my money is ours.
I think if we divorce she will spend wisely. She will pay her rent and provide food for herself. ( My neighbors story)

sfinkzslot:
Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever
1 Tim. 5:8

BRATISLAVA:


Exactly.

It's not compulsory for a woman to take care of a home or children. In fact, it is absurd to expect a woman to protect a relationship or family in any way. The men should develop nurturing skills and learn to build rather than destroy.

LutanFyah:
Yes

LutanFyah:
Yes, it's not compulsory at all.

It's not compulsory too for men to keep dying in the war front too. It's not compulsory for men to keep setting up neighbourhood watch (vigilantes) or police. It's not compulsory for men to be innovative and create internet, Facebook, cryptocurrencies, Twitter, electricity, electronics, phones, Covid 19 vaccines, cars, concept of money, judicial system, systems of government etc.

Women should use their brains and develop their own thing and stay away from men's products.

Klass99:


You too get yeye for body, but when I see your moniker I know the comment will be an enjoyable read.

This whole post had me smiling I am very single and the sole income source for myself, but I don't hesitate to quit one job for another when faced with bad bosses. People don't leave good jobs, they walk away from bad bosses.

I work just so I can pay the bills, be self sufficient and independent. Marriage won't change that for me because if or when that man drops dead, he refuses to handle his responsibilities or calamity happens, na sorry go be my case.

E dey do me like sey I get fever when I no get money. By the way, I like that last paragraph about what you see in a relationship, is what you get in marriage - so true!

Klass99:


Lol, me I have a job and not a career. I am not overly ambitious either, I work to live and I like clocking out at 5pm, then getting to other aspects of my life like time with family/friends, a good movie or really good novel.

Please what awaits them (married women) if they resign? That part had me lol so bad including alfa male ass. I no dey waste time to find work when resignation is at the back of my mind, like you said nobody is doing free giveaway for single babes, you go pay with your body las las if you take a certain route.

chii8:
In as much as a man should pay the bills,a woman should assist financially too.Make una no go kill person pikin all in the name of the head of the house.

Men...if the task is too much, speak up Biko, don't die in silence....


Modified: please all of una wey dey quote me, don't worry,frustrate the man and send him to an early grave,then you will know that being a man is not easy!

pocohantas:


Some people indeed want to pay their bills, that is about the major reason- then also because they want to make a mark in that field/sector. I believe that differentiates a career from a job.

However, I have noticed that trend in some married women at work. They are always the first to threaten you with their resignation. I know they won’t resign, because they know what awaits them, but they are the major culprits of that threat. Single ladies and men (irrespective of marital status) hardly make such threats.

My former boss was such a thorn in my flesh. Very demonic and angry. Less than 1 month into the job, I wanted to leave. I told everyone that cared to listen that I will resign and I meant it. I come remember say nobody dey do giveaway for me, so I gats tread carefully. I went back and found a way to handle his alfa ass.

BRATISLAVA:




I was going to give you return fire, but I discovered you are terribly ignorant and have lost the plot.

Your above points highlight chauvinism without an atom of knowledge, intellect or focus.

Your bloodthirsty kind created wars, so they must fight them to their last drop of blood. And you know the best part about it? Your kind deemed women too weak. So, you know what that means? They must continue to die for your kind to feel good about their war decisions, and continue to die alone in wars of their own invention, while women will continue to thrive. Kudos to all the wars men invented. Kudos to all they've destroyed, too.


Apatheticme, please educate another one of these about women in science. It appears the lower IQ creatures are uninformed and back again with their usual delusional assumptions about women.

Men should use their brains and stop sounding stupider than testosterone always makes them sound.

truthsayer009:


Hmm see experience oh, i didn't even know the reason you went back but now I know.

It's more interesting to look back and compare it to where you are now & the way you are currently swimming inside ocean of enjoyment in that your office lol.

Imagine If you had actually given up then, God saw the future for you lol.

Klass99:


The new role is going very well I bless God for it all.

I like nice things when I can afford them and my regular day job helps me afford them, so I am not looking to become the next Okonjo Iweala or Ibukun Awosika abeg

illicit:
Put your money where your mouth is....

It means that if you don't drop money no food for u

Foot your bills, a wife is part of your bill because she is your liability already


A galfriend is a different thing tho because she is actually a friend, I don't buy things for my 'boyfriends' all the time