hi people,
i have this extremely hot girl friend here in school, same level.
Our relationship's been fun and all but there is an issue that really bugs me out, she enjoys all the attentions she gets from guys, and damn she gets them attentions all the time, I mean she is hot.
And sadly most of these guys are older, richer than I, and she always endeavours to give me details of every encounter.
A week ago, a friend of her met me in a salon and said to me " kasie ur girl firend is cheating on you big time," i didn't take that serious.
Then one night i was in her room and she got a call but rejected it and texted the caller, he called back, she did the same and so the caller resolved to texts.
Later, she was walking me to my place and i took her phone and for the first time i went through her messages and her texts to the caller was to text her that she cant take calls then.
When she noticed i've seen the messages she snatched the phone and ran back to her hostel so i went back in and called her.
She said I was wrong to go through her messages, I never did that before and I apologised for that and she tired to explain whats up, the guy was someone she already told me of, nothing was going on and all that stuff.
to cut it short she said the guy hasn't really asked her out yet and she was waiting for him to before she can turn him down, that i shouldnt worry she'd never cheat on me and then she said somthing that stuck on my mind " kay, dont break up with me coz you think I'm cheating on you, if do now you'll realize later that i never did.
Truth is I dont know what to believe anymore, she acts like she loves me but she keeps all these guys and goes out with them on dates and shopping here in Accra but any time something comes up she tells me she knows what she's doing and where her heart truly lies.
Should I continue with the relationship or call it quits?
I really love my pringles (thats wat i call her) and i promised myself I'd never cheat on her but she's trying to wake the demons within, I need everyone's takes on this pls.

The woman is weighing her options. Trying to decide who's a better fit for her.

Perhaps you should do this as well because I have a feeling once she finds

someone who she feels is more appropriate, you will be history. All the signs

are right there in your face. And you know this as well or you would not have

created this thread. No offense intended.

Bro you sound like a nice G. I will advice you to keep the love flowing. I have few baby Cousins and Nieces that keep much of male friends than they keep female friends n that doesn't mean they sleep with every dude that comes em way. Stop listening to those lousy jealous friend (s) of yours and focus on your relationship. The only thing you need to do is talk to her to limit the crowed. But you got to take it easy if shes is really that hot as you said NOTE no be only you sabi better thing bru. For instance when your dating a celebrity or a star you gotta know better.

Unless you have plans of marrying her if not don't worry your head just enjoy the ride

I go for the best myself.

Dont worry about 'pringles, she wont cheat on you ,

@ thirst
thanks

@ reality (dude she hot, no girl in my level can compete.)
i brought her a couple of girls from school to hang otu with but a few days later she ditched them all saying she hates the fusses. me guess she likes male companies better.

@ bhusayor u think?

OP.
It's really hard to cast any advises on this matter . . . .It's not clear enough!

But what i noticed via your msg is that,Your girl is in love with some1 else,Though she might not plan to date the person but in love with him .
So i would suggest you set her tests in various ways to check her out,Might be through most of her close friends''not one'' or via any other way seems perfect for the test.But don't rely on what she tells you ''That she will never cheat on you'' what do you really expect her to say?
Just carry out some tests and everything will be clear to you!

OP
the problem is that you are not focusing on your studies so you too can be a big boy someday. Stop worrying about all these chicken heads and make a career for yourself so you too can go back to oppress the small boys

desholah:

OP.
It's really hard to cast any advises on this matter . . . .It's not clear enough!

But what i noticed via your msg is that,Your girl is in love with some1 else,Though she might not plan to date the person but in love with him .
So i would suggest you set her tests  in various ways to check her out,Might be through most of her close friends''not one'' or via any other way seems perfect for the test.But don't rely on what she tells you ''That she will never cheat on you'' what do you really expect her to say?
Just carry out some tests and everything will be clear to you!

@OP DON'T LISTEN TO THIS CRACK HEAD. HE IS ONE OF EM FRIENDS YOU COMPLAINED ABOUT HERE HE IS IN DISGUISE.

Methinks your girl’s playing you, big time.

She's really confusing yield, she does all this stuffs but never dulled on me, her kisses are still that fierce and passionate. Last night she said she'd tell me 'bout a guy, he aint a student, she likes him but not in love, And i'm like what the hell but kept my kool. And these days she shows more love than ever like she sorta noticed i'm gettin a lil cold. For reals she's not doing anything to make feel she wants out, and though i got proof she's doubling up she always drops these lines that kills the doubts. Like last night we were stroling and out of the blues she held my arms, laid her head on my shoulder and said baby maybe we were distracted but we'll always find our way back. It murdered me,

Still reading and translating.

REALITY101:

@OP DON'T LISTEN TO THIS CRACK HEAD. HE IS ONE OF EM FRIENDS YOU COMPLAINED ABOUT HERE HE IS IN DISGUISE.

Go and meet your colleagues for Gay club

Try doing the same thing she is doing and watch if she would make a fuss my bet is that she would then explain that that is what she makes u feel

@oP: I don't want to call you a MUGU but you sound like one. Have you phocked her obo ? You better phock her well before she dumps you. Stop looking like a MUGU, so what if she's pretty ? Doesn't give her the right to cheat on you with money bags and RICH men. Once they infect her with HIV you will be the waiting MUGU and true love. Accept my sympathies.

Nice guys don't have to finish last, only if they choose to.

Those fierce kisses are seriously clouding your judgement.

Men are taking her shopping and you believe they r doing it out of the goodness of their heart or according to you, because shes pretty ?! Ha!

Dobo dobo

Thanks for ur comments people, and pls dont think i'm a mugu Obowunmi, i feel u but sometumes we are not all strong and sharp like u, that's why this forum exists rit?
Whoever told u nice guys finish last.

Seems to me that kazeem has fallen in love and is in denial about his babe cheating and oh nice guys carry last most times

25omega:

OP
the problem is that you are not focusing on your studies so you too can be a big boy someday. Stop worrying about all these chicken heads and make a career for yourself so you too can go back to oppress the small boys

This answer to your problem,kindly concentrate on that first. or u try this idea down

obowunmi:

@oP: I don't want to call you a MUGU but you sound like one. Have you phocked her obo ? You better phock her well before she dumps you. Stop looking like a MUGU, so what if she's pretty ? Doesn't give her the right to cheat on you with money bags and RICH men. Once they infect her with HIV you will be the waiting MUGU and true love. Accept my sympathies.

Nice guys don't have to finish last, only if they choose to.

Don't forget this the best way to date a beautifully lady is never u fall in love with her even if fall in that trap please don't show it.U know why it ill prevent u from making use of your eyes instead of your senses

ok thanks to everyone who suggested i should focus on my studies, i dig that but students date nah?
lol @ chike

Kasiem, u obviously dnt wanna hear d truth as dose fake unending Kisses r clowding ur brains.

As it is, d gal's really playing so smart wit u by telling u bout all d guys & how she likes dem(but wont cheat on u) but i must tell u, sooner or later, she'll eventually fall(dats if she hasnt fallen sef) & wen she gets 2 a stage,she begins 2 notice ur inferior 2 dose new guys & DUMPS U OFF

That's a hard truth Sexy duby, but what should I do; end it all or just play my own games (i got a few believe me)

Life is full of ups &downs!

You seemed 2 have so be-littled urself 2 not being able 2 get oda babes or move forward without her.

As it is now, d both of u are still in skool & u'll still keep on meeting people everday even after skool so uve gat options
I wont advise u 2 break-up but MAN- U GOTTA BE SMART! I mean shine ur EYEZ!

SexyDuby:

Life is full of ups &downs!

You seemed 2 have so be-littled urself 2 not being able 2 get oda babes or move forward without her.

As it is now, d both of u are still in skool & u'll still keep on meeting people everday even after skool so uve gat options
I wont advise u 2 break-up but MAN- U GOTTA BE SMART! I mean shine your EYEZ!

Wise words!

@Nekai, Tnx sis! Ow's u?

SexyDuby:


You seemed 2 have so be-littled urself 2 not being able 2 get oda babes or move forward without her.

Na Na Na, I keep other girls on my radar but not made any moves on 'em though. I could double date but You know what happens when your girl is amongst the hottests around, other girls just seem a lil dull.
Besides relationships come with loads of drama and I didnt want more than one, just wanted to keep it strictly me and pringles for the first time.