it has become a tradition here in africa for the guy 2 always make the 1st move towards starting a relationship and even during sex.should this trend continue?

Over the years, One of the important things I've learnt is "I make the first move" (If and when I want to). I don't necessarily wait for the guy to do his thing! 

P.S, Relationship-wise, not sex-wise!

omo darlin:

it has become a tradition here in africa for the guy 2 always make the 1st move towards starting a relationship and even during sex.should this trend continue?

Bro, women nevar approach u?

Its crazy but, for me. i make the first move, i beg in if there is a scuffle. hmmm, but now, i ve made up my mind not to look back. and forge ahead wit other relationships if she is waitin for a plea. guys, lets make it, like it used to be in our grand father's days.

You mean men have gotten so lazy nowadays they don't even want to approach a woman??

Sad!

Its time for some changes in the dating world. In this age, girls should be asking guys out more frequently. Guys don try naa.

OP.
Girls make the first move towards me . . . .It happens all the time . . .Don't know why

Yes.

more girls make first move than me on them.

In today's world, a man don't choose a woman. A woman chooses a man , LL cool j is of the same opinion.

I never make d first move but d best i normally do is send u d signal im interested & wait 4 d guy 2 make d move

@op , it means you dont understand their moves, because they do make moves.

i have always made the first move and its always worked for me,infact i dont give listen ears to any guy i am not attracted to first.

i dont think its wrong

SexyDuby:

I never make d first move but d best i normally do is send u d signal im interested & wait 4 d guy 2 make d move

Trash. Instead of sending signals, why dont you just walk up to him and talk!

i dont know how 2 toast a man Not all ladies do dat. K?

SexyDuby:

i dont know how 2 toast a man Not all ladies do dat. K?

vice visa .

@Sexyduby
Pls send me signal and let me make d move.

LWKMD

I give signals and then wait for his moves,its not as if i can't walk up to him and say something but like we all know,no one is a fan of rejection though i don't know if any guy would reject a girl outrightly,he may end up acepting her out of pity and that's fukced up,so that's why i won't make the move.

freecocoa:

I give signals and then wait for his moves,its not as if i can't walk up to him and say something but like we all know,no one is a fan of rejection though i don't know if any guy would reject a girl outrightly,he may end up acepting her out of pity and that's fukced up,so that's why i won't make the move.

You bet they do.

depends on what MOVE means women make moves all the time but many guys cant decode them with experience you know