i'm 27 and a 20yrs old boy is in love with me. our path crossed last year(for the first time) thru his elder brother, he was jovial n friendly so i liked him as a funny boy so we exchanged numbers and he added me on facebook. we talked a few times last year like when i wanted to get info on something he is into/does and he also called one time to tell me his birthday was the next day. last month he put his bb pin on fb so i added him,that was how we started chatting,just gist on normal stuffs like music, my work, his school then suddenly he told me he has feelings for me. i laughed cos it was funny and i was shocked, so i told him to quickly get that off his head, i asked him when he started feeling that way and why?, he said two weeks back and it's cos of my pix on fb. that the first time we met, he liked my eyes but could not tell me cos he was shy. i told him ''boy u r just 20 and i'm 27, how could dat work'' he said he didn't care what anyone says as long as he is happy. so i said no problem let's see how it goes cos honestly i kinda like him. it's been three weeks now and it's fun chatting with him. yesterday i told him it can't work cos i have thought of how it will be, sneaking around so we won't get to be seen together and he started crying. so i told him we are cool at-least to make him stop. Right now i don't know what to do.

You've done what you need to do, no need to second guess yourself. Leaving him is the best you can do for yourself and him too.

Aren't you interested in dating? I mean there must be some other guys "toasting" you right?

Of course i have guys asking me out, in fact, i'm considering one already. thanks

we want a change.