ive heard this before now im seeing it happening. what do you all feel about it?

Life is complicated.

Very true Adams, i am talking from experience,

dats very true oh gosh and y is it like dat wit all d love and at d end either they girl or the dude is gone, !!!!! the word love is too complicated, !!! oh no i hate it when it is like dat really, !!!

I've always said that the person one marries is not the onlt person one could[i][/i] have married. I've had serious relationships with about 4 women before I eventually got married and in the right circumstances, i could have got married to anyone of them. The level of happiness I would be having with each of them after a few years of marriage is however subject to debate!!

True. It's one in twenty.

youre right poster. . thats why its advisable to go incommunicado with your ex when married . .cause old firewood burns faster.

So freaking true

Dats how dis life is oooo.

Just a few marry d ones dey love d most cuz its either dere's a religious, tribe, financial e.t.c imbalance so dey jus part ways

@Topic,
It almost impossible to find anyfin dat works a certain way always when it coms to life.Annoyingly!

It's a complicated issue but nobody knows what would happen if you do marry the one you Love the most. If they change, then it hurts more. Nobody forces anybody to marry (with exception to some families), but when you eventually marry someone is it not on the prelude that you love that person enough to marry them. The only time you'll realise if you've made the right decision is when you've started to have Grand-children.

you dont have to, imo.

seems like its true but i hope mine will be an exception.

Very very True

That's life!You don't get what you want always.It is as true as the existence of God.A lot of guys are with heavy heart because the lady they love doesn't care a hoot about them.The next thing is to take life as it is,learn from your mistake and reflect on it.The downfall of a man is not the end of his life!

So so true. Life could be so unfair.
When you thought you had that perfect thing, you won't see that sucker punch that knocks you out flat and cold.
Though some people are very much lucky. To this kind of people, they would never understand.