She is a 100level student in the polytechnic and also an orphan
i met her through my cousin who happens to be her coursemate
she gave in for me and also allow me to pass the nite at her place
although she informed me about a guy she is going out with back home
but she always want me to be around her even disturb me from going to
work but she is very disciplined as in she only give me a peck and anything
like a real kiss and romance is out of it although i love her so much maybe thats
because she is an orphan. But am a bit worried about the guy and the so called love
she said she had for cos i have reasons to believe she truly love me,

WHAT SHOULD I DO,

Love her back.

There's nothing wrong in sharing.

am only scared not to be used and dump cos am very emotional and she is already aware am in love with her and i dont want my fragile heart to be broken.

its optional you can still hate her.

azeerellaz:

am only scared not to be used and dump cos am very emotional and she is already aware am in love with her and i dont want my fragile heart to be broken.

In that case, start falling out of love.

its optional you can still hate her.

shine your eye now!!! wait for her to sort her issues if you love her that much, this gal needs time to sort herself out and u arent helping be patient or forget her cos she is not ready. be a man and stop asking this kind of questions my friend

Ur story reminds me of wen i went 4 my NYSC. Most corp members were in a r/ship b4 coming 2 serve & along d line, dey end up wit newly found lovers

She myt love u but dats only because her boyfriend's not nearby so she's using u as a replacement(so she's not emotionally bored) but tins myt eventually work out well sha. JUST BE CAREFUL!

am not really complaining and am not rushing her,i really do appreciate her the more even the confidence she took in telling me and the little way she has showed how much she loves me.am only seeking for peoples view and i really do appreciate everybody that took time to view this topic and GOD bless those that comment and advice.i take a bow here thank you, xie xie, messi,

rokiatu:

Love her back.

There's nothing wrong in sharing.

Abi o! The babe is generous jare. If she has enough to give both of you, then take your own fair share and stop griping. 

But on second thoughts, if all you get is a peck and the other bobo dey get the full monty, I suggest that you apply for equal distribution of her "allocation".

@op, love is two-faced. Dont believe it when they tell you its impossible to love two people at the same time,

although she is not that of babe,you know she is a kind of babe that is very strict and i think she is really trying to satisfy and please me because she claims she love me so much, anyway am very grateful cos after my research which i dont let my own personal philosophy block my way and after my random sampling i fink am able to come up with a final decision and here i take a bow and say thank you my love oluwaseun and thanks to everybody that took his or her own time to come over and help a brother thank you so much.