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Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by SaAyomikun(m): 11:28am On Feb 10, 2021 |
Great people of this forum, The reason I'm posting this here is cause I've discovered this section gets a lot of engagements. I need your wise counsel on a pressing issue. You know the frustration that comes with staying at home after schooling after so many months? That's my position right now. In fact, I am sucidal already. Family and community frustration is killing me. I stay in a very secluded city in Nigeria, where there are only a few job opportunities and that has been constraining me a lot. I have tried to work a lot of things out here, they've not just been working. The best I've gotten here is a school that pays 10k a month. But I must say, I have been applying for jobs and Lagos and Abuja and God so good, I've been getting interview invitations but I have been declining them. Reasons: I have not been to these states before and have no relatives there. Please Note: I am an extreme introvert and have lived all my life in this city. Last week, I applied to an organization in Ibadan and luckily, I got their message to come for an interview on Friday. Fact is, I am broke and really stranded, that I have vowed to take anything that comes my way right now. On a second thought, it'd be a disaster if I go for the interview. What if I spend money down to Ibadan for the interview, get the job and get called to resume soon? How would I start in a place I have been to and have nobody or know anyone? I am really confused right now. What do you suggest I do please? |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by Shelumiel: 11:31am On Feb 10, 2021 |
OP, it seems you do not like a change of environment. And this is your biggest problem. 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by anochuko01(m): 11:42am On Feb 10, 2021 |
SaAyomikun: do you want your life to change or to remain the way it is? Take that bold step and just damn the consequences. My most loved part of the bible is Psalms 27:10 "When my father and my mother forsake me, Then the LORD will take care of me" Just put your trust in God and be courageous like Joshua and Caleb. 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by Sammmyyyy(m): 11:45am On Feb 10, 2021 |
Shelumiel: You are right sir, but can one change an environment to where they have nobody? |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by Sammmyyyy(m): 11:49am On Feb 10, 2021 |
anochuko01: Thanks sir. I appreciate your advice. I have not just been elsewhere and feel it'd be extremely difficult settling in a foreign land. |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by Shelumiel: 11:53am On Feb 10, 2021 |
Sammmyyyy:Of course you can...it just depends on whether it would be worth your while in the long run. Which bring me to the question : the opportunity in this new place, is it worth your while? If it is, take the risk and relocate. Peace 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by Dreyton36: 12:19pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
You dey fear to relocate to ibadan when people they relocate to Antarctica on top snow That which you fear most , is your breakthrough , so go for that fear and conquer it Lights up my kpoli in peace son 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by anochuko01(m): 12:43pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Sammmyyyy:I have lived in lagos all my life but last year i lived in calabar and kano for a while. it might be tough at the start but one needs to leave the comfort zone to see life differently. I wish all the best 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by zealousayo(m): 1:02pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Get out of your comfort zone, bro. See it as a new challenge. I'm sure you would be happy about the decision later in the future. You have to conquer your fear! 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by prince2pac(m): 1:10pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
OP you are not more Introvert than me, but one thing I love doing is traveling, most especially where no one knows me. it brings new experience. I will advice you take the risk, for the greater future bro. I bet you will enjoy it. leave your comfort zone 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by ProveThemWrong: 1:25pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Dreyton36:senior good afternoon, I still never get reply |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by Dreyton36: 1:38pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
ProveThemWrong: On what matter? |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by Kobicove(m): 1:40pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Sammmyyyy: What do you mean foreign land? You're talking as if you're moving to another country 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by ProveThemWrong: 3:13pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Dreyton36:via email |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by Dreyton36: 4:07pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
ProveThemWrong: Then I've replied and if I didn't maybe you weren't making sense |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by SaAyomikun(m): 4:37pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Shelumiel: Thanks sir, I appreciate you for this. |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by SaAyomikun(m): 4:39pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Dreyton36: This means a lot sir, thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by SaAyomikun(m): 4:41pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
anochuko01: Thanks sir. Thank you a lot for this. |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by SaAyomikun(m): 4:44pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
zealousayo: I appreciate you a lot for this sir. Thank you. |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by SaAyomikun(m): 4:45pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
prince2pac: This is exactly what I will do sir, thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by SaAyomikun(m): 4:46pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Kobicove:I understand your point clearly now. Thanks sir. |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by OGWILLS123: 5:27pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
OP to start with, can you even afford house in where you wanna go to, can you feed your self .... if your answer is no, dear fvck*n son kindly stay back. Don't let all these motivational speakers whine you ..... Because by the time hunger, cold,mosquitoes catch you under that bridge ehh ... your brain go reset . I light up my kpoli in peace ... #weedsdomwillnotkillme |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by ProveThemWrong: 12:10am On Feb 11, 2021 |
Dreyton36:chief I'm making sense, just that I'm confused.. new to these
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Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by Dreyton36: 12:12am On Feb 11, 2021 |
ProveThemWrong: Ok chat me on Whatsapp and explain better |
Re: Nairaladers, I Need Your Advice. by ProveThemWrong: 12:22am On Feb 11, 2021 |
Dreyton36:delete |
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