Finding a Husband

The problem with men since Adam till date is irresponsibility. You need to be seeking a husband material, and not a man or a boyfriend. They call a person who takes care of things or who takes care of plants “the science of husband dream.” He takes care of things.

1. Have a few conversation to see where the man’s head is at. See if he is able to keep his words. If a man says something and does not bear fruit, then you will experience that throughout the relationship. He says one thing and does the other, just know that you are setting yourself up for frustration. It starts with little things. He says he will call you at a certain time, and he doesn’t, it’s a red flag. This is what you are in for if you choose to be with him on that level. He says he will be somewhere at a certain time, and fails to, and there will always be an excuse; just turn around. Don’t be intimate with a man who you are not married to. Sex bounds one to another.

2. Look for a godly man. A godly man is a man who is constantly bettering himself in the Lord. He is constantly growing in spirit and in other life endeavors, and this is good for you. If he is growing, you will be growing. Does he keeps making excuses about what he is supposed to have as a man? You should not be with a man that sits up and watch sports all day and drink beer. Nothing spiritual about him except that he looks good and rich to you and in the morning when all that fades away, you find yourself with children and all types of other things you have to deal with because you are caught up in the flesh. It’s always good to cut things off soon. Be with a man who is right with the Lord.

3. Self-discipline: Is he self-disciplined? Is he self-disciplined with his money or does he spend his money on foolishness that demonstrates he has no planning ability for the future? Does he have the ability to see proper value? Is he going to be a good leader? A good leader puts other’s needs first before his. Get an idea of his relationship with his family. Your family needs to check out his family to know if both families are compatible.

4. Is he a good provider? If he is not a good provider, then he needs to grow up.

5. Is he proud of his people/ethnicity and family? Does he take care of his family? He shouldn’t be self-centered.

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