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Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by kingsley38162: 7:10am On Feb 12, 2021 |
:They do hate me, they hate what I stand forThere are no genuine friends anywhere, the ones I think are my friends will stand by or participate in ridiculing me @bold: what do you stand for? |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Odoogu(m): 7:35am On Feb 12, 2021 |
thatthickgurl:this is a good loud voice. but your last two post .... really? like for real? |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by IhateMyDad: 7:40am On Feb 12, 2021 |
thatthickgurl: lol I perfectly understand you dear cos about a couple of years ago I was in the exact same condition can just be Happy but in a minute mood gets totally soured even by mere imagination of what people think about you there was a time I didn't know what been happy meant like I could go days or weeks just been gloomy and sad it affected literally all my relationship with people even with family seemed as if no one wanted anything to do with me it was a pain that resides in the head A pain that's always in that subconscious a pain.. no more like a prison created by you, through years of neglect and inferiority complex at the time it's worst than physical pain I remember a time I used to hit my hand or self on the wall just to send out some of the pain to my body which was sort of much better it's depression my dear it too bad cos you literally have no control over it more like makes you feel it's always you against the world I had. a jotter then where I wrote all my experiences, feelings and all since I always had difficulty opening up to people could share with you if you want maybe you can relate with some about the movies I think it's a loop hole we all have mine was taking a walk like I'd walk and sightsee till I feel better most times I'd always pay my way BK cos of the much distance I've gone.. without even knowing,lol maybe you can checkout another thing that could take your mind off a bit mine was also music like I'd block my ears so I can hear nothing and I had a penchant for sad songs well I've been free for a couple of years now tho,.. thanks to God and some people in all, what I'd urge you to do is know your worth others don't fking matter yes,no one gives a Bleep about you or anything u do that's why you gotta live the way you want to and try as much as possible to get rid of that fear trust me,it's just a matter of time you'd be fine 2 Likes |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Regex: 7:42am On Feb 12, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf: The word that should be there is Depressed and not Sadist Below are pictures defining what the above bolded is. 1 Like
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Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by toluine56(m): 7:50am On Feb 12, 2021 |
thatthickgurl:Dm me lets talk. I can relate to all you've mentioned |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by thatthickgurl(f): 8:12am On Feb 12, 2021 |
It did not help. I'm dying inside |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by DaInferno(m): 8:12am On Feb 12, 2021 |
thatthickgurl:reminds me of Temmie ovwasa |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Klass99(f): 8:25am On Feb 12, 2021 |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Stevenbright(m): 8:30am On Feb 12, 2021 |
Klass99:OK. your mail. I some few more because of ur passion. |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Klass99(f): 8:32am On Feb 12, 2021 |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Stevenbright(m): 8:33am On Feb 12, 2021 |
Klass99:ok |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by pointblank247(m): 9:54am On Feb 12, 2021 |
I think you will be OK if you take this matter to God in prayer 1 Like |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Nobody: 10:00am On Feb 12, 2021 |
thatthickgurl:sometimes I feel that way |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by LordPherule(m): 10:49am On Feb 12, 2021 |
introvert2: It's normal to encounter such phenomena in life. You don't just let it get to you. |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by KidDarkness(m): 10:54am On Feb 12, 2021 |
Please someone that knows thatthickgurl personally should check on her. She might not really be thinking straight now 2 Likes |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by BigDawsNet: 12:10pm On Feb 12, 2021 |
thatthickgurl: You need to trace the root of your problem That is the first step of healing Did you lost someone close to you You lost something precious? Or breakup You could suffering from bipolar disorder Actually something triggered it. Find the root then you can identify why you sad and depressed God be with you Stay bless 1 Like |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by KingAlayinde(m): 5:35pm On Feb 12, 2021 |
thatthickgurl: humbleness attract people , are you kind and good to everyone around you ? cos ya attitudes might be the cause which you won't observe yaseelf |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Resurgent2016: 6:32pm On Feb 12, 2021 |
thatthickgurl: I guess you are probable just idle, so you are overthinking trivial things that others will otherwise ignore. You need to deliberately get busy even if its just an unpaid social activity that keeps your mind engage. The way you keep lamenting over nothing can lead to severe depression that can destroy your future |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Elmaaq: 8:09pm On Feb 12, 2021 |
thatthickgurl: Let me see if I can help.... How do I reach you? |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by thatthickgurl(f): 12:24am On Feb 13, 2021 |
Resurgent2016: Au contraire Not idle, I'm gainfully employed |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by thatthickgurl(f): 12:37am On Feb 13, 2021 |
Elmaaq: Email? |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Resurgent2016: 3:13am On Feb 13, 2021 |
thatthickgurl: Being idle does not mean not being in employment, it means what you do doesnt properly occupy your thoughts and action. But if you say that's not the issue, what can I say.... |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by thatthickgurl(f): 8:44am On Feb 13, 2021 |
Resurgent2016: Ok That's true, I have too much time to get lost in thoughts |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by thatthickgurl(f): 4:48pm On Feb 13, 2021 |
I haven't been able to get the word "nuisance" from my head. It keeps echoing in my mind, why would you call me a nuisance just because I expressed my feelings. I think if it had been a random stranger on the internet, I might not be so pained but coming from someone who knows me for four years, and in the presence of 85 others. I can't help but wonder, if the others mirror his thoughts. I am of a mind to commit suicide and write a letter stating him as the sole reason, that way my ghost gets to haunt him for eternity Sounds like a nice idea. 1 Like |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by mariahAngel(f): 5:34pm On Feb 13, 2021 |
thatthickgurl: If you do that, believe me, nothing would happen to him! He'll go on living life, while you would've committed suicide for nothing! 3 Likes |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by KidDarkness(m): 7:49pm On Feb 13, 2021 |
Why don't you want to let us in? |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Elmaaq: 6:40pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
thatthickgurl:okay |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by qtguru(m): 9:30pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
thatthickgurl: You're tying your self worth to an anonymous forum, maybe you are the one that has self esteem issues. What helps to boost confidence is to assert dominance in something else. Find a hobby or project worth your time. And from there you will find your confidence. So what if no one understands you or you do things wrong, grow up and take charge of your life, fix the issues. Everybody makes mistakes that's how we learn. Peace 1 Like |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by thatthickgurl(f): 10:51pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
qtguru: Thank you |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Ishilove: 12:11am On Feb 15, 2021 |
thatthickgurl:You have serious self esteem issues. If he called you a nuisance in front of others, you sef call him a nuisance back. If he cusses you, cuss him back. Is it that hard? There women in war torn regions like Somalia's Dar Fur region struggling to survive in the midst of very heart wrenching conditions. Those women have real problems. Do you think they will even bat an eyelid if anyone cusses them? So you want to commit suicide because of this? Grow the fück up and stop living in self pity. There are people out there living in a constant state of fear of an enemy more powerful than they are because these enemies have the state backing. Those ones have real problems. Let me stop here before I say something really harsh. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by culf: 9:38am On Feb 22, 2021 |
thatthickgurl: you should be happier... why bother about what people think or say about you. we have a lot in common but I only see it from the positive part. people including my family don't understand me but I'm not bother, I see it as been unique and I won't change for anything. The fact that you're different and don't follow crowd makes you unique. Love yourself my dear, don't allow what people think or do to affect you. you're special and unique. People's acceptance of you don't really matter. just make good friends that value you(your time and presence) and your uniqueness. be good dear and stay positive #if you're in my shoes, you will know that yours is a small issue. 1 Like |
Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by Nobody: 10:16am On Feb 26, 2021 |
thatthickgurl:Can I mail you? |
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