MeghaneMorgane:


It won't be difficult for me. I have a good job.

OlawaleBammie:


The future is female looto , dont mind that teenager.


Na my gf i pity because me bn dey wait for wen bible talk say seven women go dey drag one man , even we wey no fine, we go still get like eleven women maybe na dat tym the females wil be the future we never know

favour32:

My man we dey vibrate the same frequency.
The time wey bible talk na now.
Just hold ya side,you go dey see how females dey rush you as flies dey rush wetin sweet .
Na only males fit help dem now na to dey marry dem in multiples or many nor go ever marry.
If each man marry three wives now,the females wey go remain go boku.
E get why.
Nor mind those wey say the future na female....na females train dem.

Alexxien:

Ok. I too am quite in your position , anyway,I wish you good luck.

cho25bc:


Hope this is not saphiere or Zzor? The future is female crooner? If so, no need to hide your identity.

Since both of you are mature adults,and you both like each other,i dont see any reason why you should restrain yourself from showing your affections to him. If he takes you for granted,then it's his loss. All you need do is to be careful with him and dont give him your all. Dont pretend or conceal your feelings for him because you are scared of being taken for granted. In the end,it doesnt pay. You will just keep suffering in silence. Just take your time to know him better and dont let him in all the way. If he asks for a relationship and you want him badly too,give him a try while finding out more about him before committing yourself fully into his hands. Cheers.

DedeNkem:


When you meet him, be yourself and don't pretend. If you feel he's your type, I don't see anything wrong in showing him you like him in a mature way. As long as you don't jump into bed with him immediately, you would be fine.

Men love to meet a woman who likes them. So don't worry.

123huawei:
With all this ,either or not the guy might have known you really love because not until you see him to try hide the feeling but your conversation,chatting and the way you quickly rush to reply him might have shown him 90% of your feelings..... Advice just pray he should be Godsend to your hearts]

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

MeghaneMorgane:


He wants something serious. By the way, I'm a decent lady. I will not allow him have sex with me at least until he has paid my brideprice and that's if it works.

mariahAngel:


You're welcome dear.

Just enjoy the excitement and get to know him more.
Most importantly, ask God to guide you so that you don't make a mistake that you'd regret for the rest of your life.

MeghaneMorgane:


It is his line to say not mine. After he says it, I'll say it too. I'm ready to make it very easy for him. But at least he has to play his part as the man. I won't take his lines or take his roles.

MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks for the advice. I have already planned places we can go and have fun and see around my city. But I need to do things that will not allow the guy know that I like him too much .

Amanee:


Someone that has time to be going through people's display pictures on a group chat, is a fuckboy

He will sleep with you and dump you, shine your eyes and don't be deceived by sweet nothings

Zzor:
I'm not the one,besides I can never show a man I love him no matter the feelings, they will mess you up if they noticed you've got such feelings for them, I don't give clue at all in fact I usually make it very hard for any man I like to approach me.

deni2002:

I like your reply

Davesaves:
u really need to change this ur mentality.. a lot of people has met their spouses through social media. there are still good people out there.


let me shock u.. most of the good and decent guys don't really have the morale to approach women physically, so they would rather chat wit u on social media until they are comfortable enough to meet u in person. and once they finally have u, they will be stuck with u cos they know how difficult it is for them to approach women

Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control

Davesaves:
Pray u don't end up with the one u don't like

MeghaneMorgane:


Back to sender

Zzor:
If he has plenty money that will never finish no problem

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

OlawaleBammie:


Zzor

Fati2001

Saphire

Onyi22

Chi59

It can not be bukatyne

Prettyprincess

It can not be fatymore

I dont tink its Bola ibadan

Talotunku oooo

Davesaves:
this ur advice is somehow o. what if she ends up not letting him have sex with her as u have adviced and after the wedding she finds out that he has a small dick and can barely last 2 mins in bed. what would she do?

MeghaneMorgane:


He will come in the morning and go in the evening. Our cities is about 4 hours distance.

Zzor:
I'm not the one,besides I can never show a man I love him no matter the feelings, they will mess you up if they noticed you've got such feelings for them, I don't give clue at all in fact I usually make it very hard for any man I like to approach me.

mariahAngel:


You're right.

She should go about testing dykes like the picture below...until she finds the perfect one

MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks I appreciate. This is not Zzor or the "the future is female." I'm also not a feminist but I appreciate when guys respect me.