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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by walyx(m): 11:15pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE:Correct guy 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Lucrativress(f): 11:18pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Gang90:Do you know that to solve this issue calmly you could have simply conversed it with your brother in an understanding way,it's his House you know,trust me I know how it feels when you expect a sibling to be sensible Try not to act irrational Either that option or just burning the bedsheet quietly, do you know silent acts sends stronger messages and allowing hurts in and fuming inside? You only create discomfort for yourself alone and later you'll know you're all alone in this World. Splitting inheritance is not the thing, your brother seems like a real nice person,why not communicate with him or even send him texts if you can't look at him while saying it? These things are normal things that happen,as disgusting as it is,it can be handled peacefully while you work on leaving the House 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by stupidmod5: 11:18pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Gang90: 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by general111(m): 11:24pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Bro you are the problem, not your brothers wife or your brother. For saying that your brothers wife disgust you even before the sex thing is a pointer to the fact that you have issues 8 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Beholdjoan: 11:28pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Gang90: Sorry about that. Just change the bedspread ND take it to dry cleaner tomorrow that's all. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 11:29pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Lucrativress: My brother is a nice guy, but It not easy to be the only one they talk about, I'm like this kind of person that does not talk much but really loud, I don't want to bring issues to the family cause to my brother a wife is already a part of him, but to me the wife remains a stranger, my brother after that went out coming back this night, it a merry go round day and currently sleeping. So how would I say or so, don't you know your wife or you should wash the sheets after doing like, lol that's the most ridiculous thing ever, I got pretend like honestly I don't even know you guys did something like this, I don't have to know that why a mature woman should make the bed and wash the sheets. I don't tell her to wash my sheets, in fact most times I cook my food I love cooking, at home my mum do help me with washing and my mum is about the only woman I allow to wash my bedsheet, if it were at home my mum could have washed it, like once I quarrel with my mum sef I stop her from washing my football kits which she love doing, to me I don't naturally like just anybody washing my personal effects. I don't ask her to wash the bedsheet on a good day, I wash my stuff myself I enjoy doing it and watch my fingers look clean but this is different, even in my room in my personal house, they can have sex there they are married, but after that, restore my room to earlier state. That's all I'm asking. And I don't have to tell them becuase somethings are not what you say, we can all send a silent message. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Lucrativress(f): 11:35pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Gang90:Your problem is that you expect people to behave in a certain way which is right Stop expecting much from people Expect the worst and work on how you'll handle situations when people act disgusting cause the truth is,expect your disgust to be ignited again later in the future. And the only reason is cause we're humans and not gods and we're not the same. Sorry okay,don't feel bad again Just be happy you have options to choose from that's all,don't get worked up over this issue 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Luizkid(m): 11:36pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
wait, so you stay in your brother's house and u dey complain say dem contaminate your room?? I don't understand all these spoilt kids nowadays aswear. 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 11:41pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
GerogeI: My case with women are quite complicated, I didn't go to seek advice on women but after telling me other things they told me the major problem I should be careful with is women, they are not referring to my brothers wife or some random women, some married women are over my head and I know from that moment that if I make mistake it could be costly, it not simple, even yesterday I spoke with my mum, I told her there are enough kids in the world that needs love, why do people care to bring more kids, she asked me what about these number of women that came to see you during Xmas what if one of them comes back and say they are pregnant for you, would you reject the kids, so if I even get a decent girl pregnant, my family especially my mum would be more than happy, even my brother knows my girlfriend here and he only advised me, to try as much as possible to find a good woman that marriage is not something you wish to go with the wrong woman. The problem I could sense is not on regular women, it is from married women who seems easily in love which I don't know why but I had learnt to see that as not as a result of whatever potential, I see it as a plot by some forces to bring me down, that's why I avoid women, they easily fall in love with me then give the excuse that I'm Ogbanje and that's why women easily fall for me and find it hard to let go. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Lucrativress(f): 11:42pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Gang90:You talked about feeling bad cause you're the center of discussion Welcome to life You'll just have to grow a thick skin that's all and not worry about it Cause these things are normal recurrences at times,you'll just have to live around it to be able to live peacefully with yourself. Work on leaving though but keep your mind and heart open,don't hold grudges. This is life,it is shitty and hurting and annoying but we're lucky to still be in it |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Sixfeetbelle: 11:45pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Gang90: Why her though? You keep going back to this and it makes me wonder, would the bed sheets even be 'clean' to you if your brother had washed it? 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Lucrativress(f): 11:48pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Gang90:Why are you seeking people's validations? A Spiritualist said.... You've gotta man up man Cause I'll tell you something What you've heard and make yourself believe is part of the problem of today Be less spiritual abeg and use your logical reasoning Part of our major problem in Nigeria is we get to be too religious What happened to benefits of doubts and learning to accommodate people 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Lucrativress(f): 11:55pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Gang90:Which forces want to bring you down Iwo Oloun I'm just reading this well sef Why not think logically na You seem receptive which seems to be making people interested in you Cause there's an air of class and receptiveness then probably "omo olowo" A bit of nonchalance and sexy arrogance,can't you just see the logical reasoning in this You remind me of a relative,I tell you if you continue like this,you'll be lost in yourself,you really don't want that, it's the loneliest thing to ever happen to anyone Don't be boring bikonu Live and live and keep living Don't talk about forces,just think and next time think of a good solution,don't tell me you're the everytime Church and Bible type o 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Lucrativress(f): 11:57pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
Who will agree with me that over religious people are the most unaccommodating humans in the World? 10 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 12:00am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Lucrativress:I will just stay up to night which in few minutes time it will be tomorrow, options available to me is 1, get the bedsheet washed with hot water, 2. Go home and spend some good time with my mum, laugh and get angry over any small thing and get treated like a king, at home they also cook what I like and I have two boys and a 17 years old girl staying with my mum they are my minions, they feel so happy to obey my commands, lol, but here I don't expect anything but I'm okay, like I don't eat Abacha, I don't eat vegetable soup for swallow, most times if my brothers wife cook those, she don't even care that I don't eat them but I can honestly take care of myself. Lol, what most people don't get is that everybody is not the same, happiness is free, success will come if you are happy, I can also visit my two sisters living in other cities they had been begging me to visit or visit my second brother, but that's not my main issue, the truth is that work is about to get really hectic in this house and me, I no too like stress, cause me I can't come and kill myself lol. I will just give them space for some weeks, then show up again when it feels right that's maybe rainy season lol, that's if it turns out a wrong decision but honestly, I got spend more time with people like my mum. That's why me I can't even tell anyone why I'm saying making any move lol, I will just say, I'm going to this place so tomorrow, I just pack some few things I need tell my brother I got this call I got be in so and so place, cause if you register your displeasure, that means you don start matter them go start reason am make them settle am, if I so strong head commot on top issue and in case I chock up for where I dey enter na my bros I go still call make he send Tfair, so I go visit. So that's it, tomorrow or next I will just be like let me go see so and so's office, not sure of coming back today. |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:01am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Gang90: On the contrary, you do hate her though. You may think you don't, you may even have convinced yourself that you don't, but the more I read your replies, the more it becomes evident that the hatred is a mutual feeling between you too. You keep saying she disgusts you in the same vein you talk about how she likes picking quarrels with you. If you didn't loathe her, you wouldn't use disgust in the same sentence when you talk about her. Perhaps, the only reason you haven't noticed your hatred towards her is because you're a 'peaceful' person per se but I suppose that, too, like many facets of your life is a facade 9 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by realtalk19: 12:08am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Gang90: Are you her father? What generation are you? How will u feel if your wife is being referred to in your own words? You sound so entitled and bitter. If you don't feel comfortable overlooking this or possibly using a stick to remove the bedsheet into their laundry basket ,move your proud ass to the living room or more still stay awake all night. 9 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 12:09am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Lucrativress:I'm not religious oo, far from that, I'm just sailing in my own strange ship, lol, first of all I believe there are lots of forces in the universe that it becomes unwise to doubt or completely accept anything. I had not gone to church for over two years willingly unless sometimes when my brother almost force me, and I keep telling everyone you guys are some bunch of people emotionally blackmailing God. So you pray so God gives you money, well God gives you money then you stop praying what do you think God will do, I believe God himself is up with a lot of problem and God is not the way we had all been told, those spiritualist I do tell them straight out there, I know what you saying is crazy but it even more crazy to live in a world this complicated and not see reasons in everything. I believe Religious people are the most unbelieving in the most part, how can you look at the sun and the stars, and the oxygen that abounds on earth and still needs miracle to believe in God, in the most part, even believing in God shows how much how we don't believe in God, religious people is not the problem, the problem is God whatsoever who always wish to let people believe he exists that's by the way if all these are not lies. If you live in my world you will realise how sweet lonely peace could be, no conversation is ever better than speaking to your inner self 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 12:18am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Hate is a very strong word my dear, if I declare hate, you will understand the implication, I feel nothing. Disgusting is in the aspect of this whole sexual escapade, not in the whole contest, if shes totally disgusting, I won't even eat her food, if I hate her, i won't even stay in the same house with her, disgusting is irritating, which is the whole mental picture of sleeping in such unhealthy and non hygienic environments, disgusting does not equals hates, disgusting is about conception hate is a state of perception. Disgusting will fade out over time, hate grows stronger that's the disparity, I can't say I hate her, I can say her actions especially the one of this evening disgusts me 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 12:27am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Gang90:it's simple. Remove it and replace it with another if there is another of sleep on the naked bed and go for another bedsheet tomorrow. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 12:31am On Feb 15, 2021 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:I'm already staying up through the night, I'm kinda enjoying it, got some things to do, later today, I sleep a little in my chair to avoid me sleeping in the bus and I take another step in my adventure of life, I know for sure that life never ends, today we have bodies tomorrow's we will be some piece of energy hovering around, while i lived this is the man I am. That's what matter to me, may still change my mind tomorrow though. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 12:40am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:Till then, but I had told you what i expected them to do, if they washed it, why won't it be clean, this is what I will do if I ever used another persons room for such, just wash its, them that had sex, didn't they certainly take their baths, so why would I be the one to sleep in whatever, I'm I the one that had sex, is it my sex obviously it looks funny to me now, how majority of the people think, so imagine me sleeping on a sex stained bed, just to please some class of people who thinks becuase you stay in your brothers house then everything and anything can go, |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 12:44am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Gang90:So what do you intend to do now that you can't wash the bedsheets? You have alot of options. Sleep on the floor, sleep on the naked bed, go to a hotel, or sleep on the kitchen cabinet. You are not more strict than most of us here even without ever thinking of becoming a priest or whatever. I don't share my person things with anyone in my house. If my sister's wears my clothes, I won't ever wear it again. My only sister for that matter. We ear the same size of shoes but I don't wear her shoes and she doesn't wear my shoes without me giving it out to her. Most times we buy identical items and then each person puts a mark on hers. But we are very close. You are disgusted that your brother bleeped his wife on the same sheets you sleep on, what do you intend to do about it? 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 12:48am On Feb 15, 2021 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:I'm staying up through the night, look up some computer software models, then tomorrow morning, I, take a short nap to avoid sleeping in the bus and then a new location somewhere in the map in my heart awaits me, I can go to a lot more learnt to keep my peace of mind and self love and respect, it understandable if people don't respect you but if you fail to respect yourself that's the very terrible part |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by realtalk19: 12:57am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Gang90: Entitled bitch 8 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 12:57am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Gang90:As you set out on your journey to discover self love, remember you need to understand that everyone must not be you..this is a simple issue. As you can't wash of the sheets the best would have been to replace it tomorrow.. except you already had plans of moving out before the incident. I hope you are not just looking for an excuse to be free..maybe with your brother you aren't as free as you would have loved to |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by cdm4live: 12:58am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Gang90: My senior called me yesterday and I knew he was coming with a girl. I left the house telling where I kept the keys. When he was done, he called and told me he left the bed sheet outside. I got home saw it outside and left it there. I have wanted to tell him to stop carrying women to my house but I remembered when I was still living with my dad and mom. I have a friend I run to when a woman comes around. One day, I knack this babe and the whole bed was wet. I turned the bed the other side and spread the bedsheet still wet with our sweat. I left and till today, he hasn't said a word about wet bedsheet and bed, I still take girls to his place. Today morning, I have washed my bedsheet. Could it be you are fancing your brother's girl or you are just jealous. You kissed a girl and you no knack her and you never kiss again hmmmmmm Go try dey rassle woman o. Make sex starve no come kill you. If no get money get sense n if you no get sense get money. No dey like boys wey get money and no get joy. Nothing pass joy and happiness. Weytin I talk sef, no mind me o 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Nobody: 1:03am On Feb 15, 2021 |
why would they have sex in ur room? even if its your brothers house dont they have a master bedroom? or is it that its only a single room apartment and u sharing the room with your brother and his wife? Its kinder weird u washing the bedsheet that both ur brother and his wife had sex in a normal lady would object to such and pick up the used bedsheet after sex if u can afford renting ur own place i would advice u get ur own place cos i believe both of them shagging in ur room is giving you a hint to pack out of the house No normal couple does that 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 1:11am On Feb 15, 2021 |
cdm4live:You don't know what happiness is, have you read the complete works of Shakespeare, or taken a look at some of Tesla's models, have you read the republic by pluto, or seen anything about pearl harbour attack that changed the direction of the world war two, do you know about the Manhattan project, how much do you know about marry Slessor, oh I I shouldn't tell you where lord Lugard was born, for some of us the beauties of life does not always lie in sex, sex is great no doubt but it was not designed for some random kids. I definitely know more about sex than you will ever know even if you sleep with a thousand woman, do you know why you or most people moan during sex, your sex experience brings you closer to goats and dogs, be human why not study and understand sex When you don't enjoy some peaceful mental time but glorifies sex, tell me how you are different from donkeys, even 2 months old rats have sex tell me how are you different from them, perhaps your brother or you is not disciplined if he sees your room worthy of being a sex brothel, he should have washed the sheet becuase he wont have had sex there if it were hanging outside when he came. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 1:19am On Feb 15, 2021 |
lefulefu:They have their own room, though I understand my room is where the Children don't frequent, so I say I understood that part, but why can't they keep the room tidy as they met it, why won't the woman at least wash the bed spread, thats I asked, definitely sex can happen anywhere including in an elevator but responsible people shouldn't be selfish enough to only care about their own satisfaction 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Nobody: 1:21am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Gang90:i believe they want u out of their house.If u can afford it then try and get ur own space and pack out as soon as possible.Dont exchange any words with the wife ooo or else they might blame u for any crack in the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 1:35am On Feb 15, 2021 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: I had long realised that a perfect world does not exist and I had also learnt when I'm being a freak, I know that sometimes you just got to go out there and face your fears, some days I was going to leave home be a Man, maybe fall in love, have beautiful sons and daughters that may or may not technically be mine, I don't care so much about so many things in life, the life we live is not ours, even the houses we live in today is not ours, the roads we walk, some day we will all disappear and given enough time the roads too and so many more things will go. The universe is so fascinating, it is not beautiful in the sense of the smell of the rose flowers nor the looks of a butterfly, but honestly it is beautiful, sometimes I feel like I got to talk a walk around the world when I can, I stay in this little space, just needing a room and some food everyday and I got compassion I try to give as much as I take. But if you are not seen, if your plights doesn't matter, only the momentary urge of extreme canals of some people, when you try to see people's reason for hurting you but they don't even see the slightest of their errors, you got to set out in a classically strange world, where there is a fit for everything only if you search well enough, that yes, we don't live in the waters but the fishes does, then I believe somewhere in the world, an ideal space for me abounds and it is definitely not this house. I'm going to set out and search for it, either I find such place, or I promise myself I will never give up, a fish out of water will die faster, but a place for me exists, the universe never made anything that got no place, if after my adventure and I have no place. Then until then but for now I got to set out. 1 Like |
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