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Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Peacefullove: 8:28pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
CalliDora1: She dey speak from Experience |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Powerfly(f): 8:32pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
johnsmhelia15: Ok. What's you and your partner's birth day and month? |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by BobbieZion(m): 8:38pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
You Loved her with all your heart?Hmm!!! And he answering said,Thou shall Love the Lord thy God,with all the thy heart,and with all thy soul,and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind;and thy neighbour as thyself. Luke 10:27 Love only God with all your heart Not a woman. It will always be broken |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by muhdolamilekan(m): 8:41pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Delete the photos, messages, number and move on.. you don't have to forget them You just have to accept that they aren't that person again. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Edipet(m): 8:42pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Powerfly:teach me how to analyze this zodiac sign |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Edipet(m): 8:43pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Powerfly:teach me how to analyze this zodiac sign in relationship |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by UKBobo(m): 8:45pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Lesson 201 b in How to be a Man : you think say wide chest and deep voice na man, lie/lie. It is overcoming every obstacle that hits you and moving on...relentlessly. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by zoomman(m): 8:48pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Look at the brighter side of life. Thank GOD for the experience, and move on. |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by IamCookie(f): 8:57pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Op ,Killertune20 should listen to this song by Mariah Carey and Las Las you will be fine.
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Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by RRodwave(m): 8:58pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Saintmary: Cruise no b small
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Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by femifemi1(m): 9:03pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Love is not enough when it comes to dating a lady that time is ticking over her head. We all have dreams, seeing her dream turning to mirage is what we all can hardly bear. If you love her, you take her to the alter. Bit if you claim that you are learning a woman, you can never learn all about a woman in 1000 years. It takes a bold step to take her to the alter, but the boldness has to come from deep within, not instinct, but divine revelation. What if she waits for the next 5 years and you eventually said you are no more interested, what would she do? Dating a woman for more than a year without that sign of going to the alter is dangerous for all ladies. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by jonaifame22(m): 9:03pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
airsaylongcome:go ahead |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by emmanuelpopson(m): 9:04pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
NaijaBoy213: If d women population is 7billion. How many are. Men? Ṣe u no do mathematics ni.. There are approximately 9 billion people in the world.. Of women are 7b So the men are now 2bi..that is an average of 1man to 200 women.. Just say u dey play |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by jonaifame22(m): 9:04pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
KingUg:i cant read nessages cos i cant remember my email password so jus ask me here or check my number on my profile |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by jonaifame22(m): 9:05pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Crunchyg3:check my number on my profile |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:12pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
mariahAngel: As simple as ABC for few people like me. |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Goodnigga: 9:27pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Take heart it does happen. When a woman has made up her mind, trying to change it is delaying your suffering. Thank God my then woman left. When she was with I couldn't cross a million, don't know why. But after I summoned courage to let her go, I rediscovered my purpose in life, I can categorically say that I am a multi millionaire. I am discovering myself, I still like her but can NEVER go back. My taste are higher now. Go work on yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by jaxxy(m): 9:27pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: What if I tell tell u u can’t find a gal like her cos she’s unique in her own person bt u can find 1000 gals just like her and even better than her Sounds crazy bt it’s possible. Lol Now what is for u is for u, and what u miss is probably not for u or u weren’t ready or mature for it. “Don’t Sweat it” If she ticked all ur boxes as u claim which I doubt why did u have an unnecessary altercation that lead to the point of her considering sm1 else?? Something isn’t right here and the story is incomplete. A gal doesn’t just leave a 3 year relationship just like that. If u want to move on u can by temporarily choosing to forget this person and the memories shared. It’s abit tough bt very doable. Cheers mate. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by ifyy07(m): 9:28pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
surebona: Cry because of a woman lol I laugh in spanish....do you know how many women dey out there never cry because of a woman it's not worth it |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by naijadrivablog: 9:29pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
jonaifame22:I can relate but the heart is deceitful. |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by maxinvile(m): 9:35pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
[quote][/quote][quote author=Killertune20 post=99182246]Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state. Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor. Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me. Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much. I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't. Now my question, how do people get over people so easily? Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended? Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on? The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare. Try to engage in any activity to gives you joy, with time you will get over her. I had a similar experience but in my case I paid her fees in the university and fix her in federal govt job because I don't like a full time house wife. We agreed to get marry after 3 years because the job does not permit a woman to marry-until she spent 3 years. As the third year approaches, she said she is no longer interested in the relationship again and she left to marry a uniform person like her. I have no choice but to move on. Pls dust yourself and move on for you will meet someone better than her. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by govomotors: 9:38pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
She close the door on you why do you want to remain indoor and starve. She is gone, open the door to a new world without her. I Since it's easier for her to walk away, what stop you from creating your happening by going for what will make you happen. Stop thinking upside down, move on with your life.
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Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by agabaI23(m): 9:38pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Hi NobleDeSage001:Deep |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Yippeedaniel(m): 9:39pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Guy, e no easy but we move.. No spoil that girl dream of marrying this Yr oo |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by victorVIC1(m): 9:40pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Some guys self no dey try. You've been dating someone for 3 years yet no proposal and you expect her to remain in the relationship knowing fully well that she's fastly approaching "evening newspaper status". If a lady satisfies your key requirements in a partner, do the needful. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by VillageHead: 9:42pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Your words struck me here son! My dear it is never the end of the world. You love her so dearly but she doesn't; if she does, she wouldn't have left you no matter the pressure. My prayer to you now is that you find a lady that would reciprocate this love by loving you more. Two people can't have love for each other equally. That was what played out in your case here. I will advise you man up and face the reality on the ground. You have lost her, the earlier you accept this fact, the quicker your healing starts. Don't rush to forge a new relationship now, should you, it won't last. You are heartbroken and need healing. Avoid loneliness now, stay with friends or loved ones more. Go out more than staying inside. You will surely get over this phase, I did by His grace - you too will. Stay safe and remain blessed 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:42pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: The truth of the matter is that in as much as I admit there are some women that come into ur life and u feel like u can't leave without them if they decide to move on, it still a shameful condescending experience to try to hold onto someone that has clearly moved on with his/her life, is like dragging a ship's anchor on ur leg and trying to live this life we are grateful to have, u need to understand that u can live without anybody, and don't degrade ur humanity for anyone 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:45pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
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Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by jonaifame22(m): 9:46pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
naijadrivablog:how is the heart deceitful |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:47pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Boxer007: Only simps pay for sex 1 Like |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by Babaken(m): 9:47pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Since you can't move on make you move follow her you are a MUMU man. |
Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by alshalz(m): 9:52pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
see my dear somethings in life are like Lagos bus, when you miss the first, you get (next)the best,I know how painful it could be because it happened to me last year but now I'm thanking her for saying NO.It is a very terrible experience, everybody (family members)knew I was coming,she woke up one morning and text me'I no do again"I asked what she meant by I no do again... long story short, God gave me someone who is far better than her in all areas.So bros ,no matter how painful it may be just move on you will see a better lady who is ready for you not one who is using as a second opinion.the beautiful ones are yet to be born |
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