These are issues you have to discuss with her but in a semi joking way. For example lets assume she doesn't even clean the house, or she has one form of bad habit, you tell her jokingly and am sure the next day she will adjust. Don't press the matter too much. Just talk it lightly. For example you can say " Babe you know you are not nice o, you knew I have little paste and you can't give me from yours" Am sure she will be the one to even apologise to you.
In nutshell that issue is not too serious after all it is not as if you asked and she didn't give you.

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