Suresoniaabia:
am just 31 I have a fiancé I can’t start training 2 kids now when there dad is financially okay and they family hates me because am from another state which they don’t like. My mum is there I wanted to get them to stay with my mum while he drop something for them at least every month while I do they remained ones that’s all am asking for but he refuse

Well, this is not good enough.

You can't just take them away from their father, just to drop them off with your mum.
You can't just destabilize their lives for nothing.

Here I was thinking you were finally ready to be a mother to your own children...