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| How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 3:31pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
My senior bro wedding was schedule for the 30th day of October 2021, his wife and her fams were on his heads, telling him to make sure the wedding is the talk of the town, that, he should rent a big hall and make sure food; drinks; meats; kola etc. are available. So last night he told me, I asked if his wife contributed anything, he said "Monetary" No....that she said she'll bring ppl to cook food and handle things women are meant to handle. I told my him: Snr bro, make marriage simple. Don't take loans for wedding, don't use all your savings on wedding just to please people. People come to eat, drink and leave you in povery. Manage what you have. If your wife can't help you to think straight, then she ain't wife worthy. This afternoon, in my presence he called his in-laws and called off the wedding....thank God he has not complete the dowry. Hope I was right? 452 Likes 46 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Righteousness2(m): 3:32pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Thats a very Bold move from your Brother ! You did a Great Job by Pouring out the raw bitter truth to him. That was a Good one. Your GOD Designed Partner will not be a burden to you Your GOD Designed Partner will not run you into Debts for an event of Few hrs, when you have Forever ahead. A Virtous Woman Knows that a Wedding is Just a day thing and would not throw her husband into unnecessary debts in the Name of impressing People. 511 Likes 32 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by lilvicky68(m): 3:35pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
No be by force to do big wedding..thank God he realized earlier 77 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by osamz007: 3:35pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
MAKE THE WEDDING THE TALK OF THE TOWN something HERDSMEN cannot do 452 Likes 23 Shares
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| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 3:38pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
osamz007:The matter tire me 15 Likes |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Freestainworld(m): 3:39pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
The wedding is finally the talk of the town now that he has called off the wedding. 522 Likes 30 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by mariahAngel(f): 3:46pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
100trillion: Na so! Your brother never see the woman wey him wan marry! 92 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by ogub(m): 3:49pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Calling off the wedding shouldn't have been the first thing to do he could have met with his prospective in-laws and tell them what he can afford to spend for the wedding and hear what they have to say 216 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 4:15pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
ogub:He told them. But they said if he ain't get no money, that he should not bother taking their daughter home.... 453 Likes 33 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by mariahAngel(f): 4:20pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
100trillion: Why you no add this part to the op? 232 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 4:22pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
mariahAngel:because I was typing in a haste and I use a feature phone! 20 Likes |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Michelle55: 4:27pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
You did the right thing bro.. Anyone expecting a plate of rice on my wedding day will wait till eternity because I ain't doing that shit. If you want to celebrate with me, wait until after I've fought and conquered the stress, phases and struggles of my marriage with my husband by my side, then I will throw a big party for y'all( just come, eat and celebrate with us) I don't need anything from you  Celebrate your post marriage and not your pre-wedding!! If he ends up using his life savings to please the wife and her family, what will he use to feed her after the wedding? No be only talk of the town, na talk of the nation e go be Some people with unrealistic expectations sef yet they won't add a dime to make that dream a reality.. Mtcheew! 284 Likes 21 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 5:16pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Good write-up bro......you have a great imagination. 26 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Richy4(m): 5:51pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
The title of the movie ...." Is This Love" Actors Oge Okoye Nonso Diobi Onyii Michael Chinwetalu Agu Ebere Okaro Village Extra 13 People Waka Pass 6 Female 2 male... Please Make this project grand OP  73 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by faithfull18(f): 5:57pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Saved* 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by armyofone(m): 6:05pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
ogub: Don't you see he is happy now as he and the rest have the atm to themselves -  till he finds his woman, continue doing your job of eye opening jare.Next lady! 32 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by veave(f): 6:29pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Who does elaborate wedding these days? Oh I remember, instagram people do. If everything you typed up there is true then the woman in question isn't ready and shouldnt be seeking for a husband. 44 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by decatalyst(m): 6:39pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Righteousness2: Well said 17 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Amanee(f): 6:52pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Super story 7 Likes |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by pocohantas(f): 7:09pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
I don’t believe your story is a real one, but I agree with you that no normal human should take loans or exhaust their savings to have a wedding. No sensible woman should endorse such expenditure either. Having that in mind, I support you. 43 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by bukatyne(f): 7:10pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
100trillion: Iyawo buruku se fe, ana buruku o se ni. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by ImaIma1(f): 7:44pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Your brother has probably been reasoning the matter before you spoke. You just echoed what he knew. Obviously, there are some other signs he has seen. 141 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Liposure: 7:49pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Bold move but he ain't out of the woods yet. More are still out there. He just has to be willing and ready to negotiate 6 Likes |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by mrgbenga1: 8:20pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
When has a marriage become a poverty alleviation programme  34 Likes |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nicepoker(m): 9:03pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
[s] mariahAngel:[/s] 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by macnino399: 9:14pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Bro, you deserve a chilled bottle of red wine. You did well 19 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Angelacruz: 9:42pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
100trillion:very good 5 Likes |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Angelacruz: 9:43pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
100trillion:imagine!on top person money 13 Likes |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by OnlyLife: 9:51pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Ok 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by BRATISLAVA: 9:52pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Another woman bashing thread. How much are you people paid to create these stories? Do you really think women don't have terrible stories to tell about men on a daily basis? The technique is old. 26 Likes 6 Shares |
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