Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,197,214 members, 7,963,982 topics. Date: Wednesday, 02 October 2024 at 02:27 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? (26056 Views)
Wife Of Ex-akwa Ibom Military Governor Evicts Step-children From Family House / Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? / She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Elxandre(m): 12:12pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx:You live in Nigeria? Just wondering why you have to be up by 3.30am. Once lived in Accra. Didn't think there was so much traffic. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 12:18pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Elxandre: No I live in Ghana, Kasoa to be precise. Everyone knows about kasoa traffic, lol. And I have to be at work by 7:30 am 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 12:19pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Malaymoney: Amen |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Commanderinpips: 12:20pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
nextBIGthing: Bros I can relate. Somebody even blocked me on his phone because I could not give him money, he never knew he was an answered prayer. African are funny. 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Deeghost007(m): 12:22pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
shapman: |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Commanderinpips: 12:26pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Antoeni: My brother you are indeed a genius. You captured everything a typical Nigerian man goes through. 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by LadyJasper: 12:43pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx:You honestly don't have to tell them you plan on moving out until you've found a place which should be closer to your workplace, paid the rent and ready to move in. That way they can't talk you out of it anymore and you'd have been too committed to move out and can't be talked out of it. It wouldn't stop you from helping out whenever you can, but just take care of yourself first mentally and physically. 3 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by descarado: 12:45pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:Hahaaaaa Majority of us are already towing that route. Habits formed over multiple generations don't just die. 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by mmsen: 12:52pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Ayo2004: You talk of 100k. There are people that I know making almost half that with 5 children who think nothing of adding more. It is evil. 4 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 12:54pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
LadyJasper: I will. Medaase( thank you) 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Mom007(f): 12:57pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:Poster, oil dey your head walahi! 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by calcal: 1:02pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Don't give your money to anyone besides freedom fighters. Stop aiding the bad government. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by TorinoGadgets(m): 1:30pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
shapman:Done done |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by roldet804(m): 1:35pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
[quote author=HappyNigerian post=99443125] My brother, I don use that strategy but dem call me stingy[/quote bro if beacuse of too much spend on them your plan fail, na still dem wey go tok say you no get brain |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zecomoney(m): 1:40pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by roldet804(m): 1:41pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Dozie32: man I love you 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by roldet804(m): 1:47pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
BarrElChapo: iga na copy and paste this post is allover facebook 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
This looks like a small advert for Palmpay It's a good app only that my bank sometime take 72 hours or more before acknowledging the receipt of my transactions and sometimes leading to a imbalance account |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by millyajay(f): 2:00pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
shapman:amen |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by authority2006(m): 2:14pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx: I have been there, trust me. When I wanted to move out, I didn't tell some people. By the time they knew, it was too late because I had already paid a year rent. No emotional blackmail could work again. You're not abandoning them, but just trying to employ new approach. Life is too short to carry the responsibility of the entire extended family on a single head most especially when one doesn't have enough 3 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by divinelypruned(f): 3:02pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx:Do you know that the sister of one lady secretly crashed her sisters relationship becus she felt that she is feeling too big, due to the fact that she makes money, if anything happens to you now, those people calling you will still be abusing you, get and furnish an apartment without their notice, inform them when you are about to pack out, they can't do much about it, help from far, I have to move away to, to get my self back, was always depressed due to family wahala, and am really OK and happy, I have come to know that when you give them ears, they can say anything they like, but when you close it, and mistakenly opens it, they choose their words rightly 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by babzlim(m): 3:17pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Pray ur not in position when u need help and if u have am sure u won't be asking from anyone... Bro manage funds but don't ever joke with family... authority2006: |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by authority2006(m): 3:42pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
babzlim: We all have been there, no need to pray, we experienced it all. I'm doing the little I could do for my extended family members but they don't come first with the little resources that I have with the exception of the parents. If you kill yourself with stress today, they will continue their life. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by miclordz(m): 3:48pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
shapman: |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Eagba(m): 3:51pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
captainamiedi1:same here, I open a plumbing material shop for ma and chilled off. atimes she calls me and tell me that she have made a profit of about 60k for the month and she will thinking of where to invest it in. I usually have ideas. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 3:52pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
divinelypruned: I hear you sis. I appreciate your kind words |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 3:53pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
authority2006:Thanks bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Dozie32(m): 4:59pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
roldet804: Love you more.. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Raalsalghul: 5:07pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Limassol: Save your energy: some of them will still make that mistake. 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by ghettochild4u(m): 5:09pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:God bless you.. Best advice I have seen in a long time on NL 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by ghettochild4u(m): 5:12pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx:You are still doing yourself.. Until you sit em all down n talk about it.. No solution will come.. Like that man said... If u die today.. They'd manage without u or if u lose that job nko. Sit them down.. Ya all think of ideas.. Opening a shop for food stuff shd not be hard for ur mum to control n her husband support her.. Within a year.. They'd know it's the best solution ya all came up with.. They cant be idle Yoruba say ojo iku lojo isimi They still have strength to manage that business... 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by ghettochild4u(m): 5:13pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx:LOL na u be eru iku |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply)
Nigerian Dad Takes To Crossdressing, Gives Reasons: Video / Children And Their Parent's unclothedness / Is It Okay For A Man To Cry In Front Of His Woman?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 61 |