OP The worst sin is shedding innocent blood and that what you are trying to put yourself into, my brother it is not to abort the baby that will be the problem or to dodge getting married now will be the problem but the problem is equally what you will face after aborting that innocent child for that your friend did abortion for his man or her baby did abortion for your friend what I am talking about here is posterity consequences you may not know now but it must surely come that why I said to avoid putting yourself in this kind of situation zip up, Op you knew you were not capable now then why are you engaging in sexual immorality don't you know that anything can come up. This is your fate and you must carry your cross and now is the time avoid it then you ruin your future. Marry that girl and face problems in future, I hope you will be smart to choose wisely.

My brother, those telling you to abort this baby are youths or people that have not come up with troubles this could result in life.
Mind you , you are planning to annoy God again after you committed fornication. I had a similar experience sometime in 2009, I impregnated my girl friend wen i was not ready for marriage. We decided to remove it, went to many hospitals but none could accept to do it. Then one doctor advised us to keep the baby. Today not only that the baby (boy) is eleven years, God blessed me beyond my imaginations to take care of him and others following him. Keep the baby for you never know what he/she may be tomorrow.

tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

Terminating a baby is worst decision a man will take at your age , oga tell her to keep the baby , I'm highly convinced that child is not your own or she want to trap you with pregnancy, tell her that to keep the baby but you're not ready to marry if she born you raise the baby if the baby is actually yours

malcom1X:
Baba run am, we dey your back. Keep the baby.

Funny you

aaaaabbbbbccccc:
The baby might not be yours. 1 week, lol. Don’t fall for that trap bro

lol, na day light robbery/scam, d babe is not yours, I am 100% sure.

When two adults are doing something, they'd lock their door firmly and even check if it's properly locked.
When the result of the something the did in secret now came out as the work of GOD is always uncoverable, they'd start asking questions openly….
Then why lock the door in the first place?
This life… nah wah o!

You don't want responsibility and you are indulging in sex. Unprotected sex for that matter. Thank God it is not disease you contact.

Dont kill the innocent baby. The baby has every right to live.
When you are told to zip up and if you must do it, protect yourself. You think they are foolish.
Nooo. It is so you can plan your life.
For your information, the girl did not take the drug. She may not even be pregnant.
Either way, sit her down and start planning.
Welcome to family life. I pray God will make way for you.

Off topic:

Are children really expensive. Breastfeed them for 6 months. Introduce them to our child friendly local diet after 6 months. Two pack of onesies is enough clothing for months.


Their clothes full bend down select at very cheap rates. Cloth nappies as cheaper version of disposable nappies.

People just overwhelm themselves with expenses. Before brands were we not taking care of kids??

Bornsinner7:
Toto be putting man in trouble since 1000BC


Abraham begat Isaac and Jacob.. jacob begat Judas.. Judas begat phares.. phares begat Esrom.. Esrom begat Aram.. aram begat aminabab.. aminabab begat naasson.. naasson begat salmon.. and so on

You are not just terminating a baby.. you are eradicating a generation

I wish somebody terminated the baby that begot these fulani herdsmen.... They wouldn't have been a concern to us today.

Just imagine buhari's father used condom, or his mother aborted him.


Moral is; not every child is a leader of tomorrow. Don't bring any child to this world to neglect.

ABORTION IS MURDER!

PLAIN & SIMPLE.

pozehnani:
All those talks about not being ready to shoulder responsibilities now is medicine after death because that is the first thing you should have thought of before sleeping around. Mtchew!

Whether or not it's yours, so long as you have entered there, take full responsibility. That's your cross for letting your manhood control you. Next time you'll practise self control.

That you entered a public bus dose not make you the owner of the bus.
Secondly it was a mutual agreement, he didn't rape her. Thirdly why did she lied to him about buying and taking the drugs when she didn't.
Finally the girl will be the one to suffer it more any way it goes ( Keeping or aborting it ). But I don't support abortion of any kind but I hate lies and can never have something to do with such Lie Mohammed

You are already guilty of fornication why add murder to it?

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And you go about sleeping with people?

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

You are very irresponsible to stupor.

tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

Let's talk please

DenreleDave:


The 2nd day she took the ppstinor can't cause any defection.... Since it was after sex she took it.

Do they take postinor bfr sex? Proff

tosyne2much:
The way people advocate abortion sometimes scares me, like it's a normal thing

I fear who no fear u... agba awo

I don’t normally comment, but just read. But for this I will speak. Please I beg you don’t do it. Thank God you have said it’s a baby. The baby has a right to live as you have been given your own life to live

Guy at least you get conscience. You tried. With the little you are doing financially doesn't she have anything doing to support a partner and fend for a baby? Abi she belong to the sunset of very fertile and overhorny females that have only their pudenda to offer a man in a relationship /marriage.

Whatever decision you intend taking make sure you keep the baby. All babies are angelic innocent and come from the Almighty. Use your head.

tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

You nor get money but u dey position woman for bed won come dey use positioner to clean your mess

Oga, born that pikin,

If she die as she dey do abortion your skul go explode since you nor fit buy condom use

SeasonedMEMBER:
Be sure she is actually pregnant.... some girls will notice that you are scared of them getting pregnant, then use that opportunity to want to get some money from u.

Wanted to be sure nobody said it before I told him, But good to know someone else knows what's up.

She's prolly not pregnant.

Pls. Dnt abort ! Dont abort!! Dont abort!!! Take care of her and the baby, pray enestly thn God will provide for you and ur family.

TeemahBeddings0:



Lol...Forget. If a sperm motility is good, e go swim well. And when it comes to pregnancy you can never be too careful, plus getting pregnant is, either high, medium or low chance of getting pregnant. It isn't you can never get pregnant

Go ask your Doctor, or read your Anatomy and physiology very well.
Sperm don't live forever, it has a specific time to survive and once there is no egg to fertilizer it dies off.
Some married people finds it difficult to get pregnant because the woman don't know her ovulation time.

Margy:
If you remove it, you are a father of a dead child..if they are twins then father of dead children.

both of you!!

tufia this generation

Still in liquid form... It has not turned child or children like you said.. I don't think abortion at early stage is even a sin... It's always better to abort an unwanted pregnancy if it has not got to the stage that could take the mother's life herself than to bring a child you can't take care here to live..I hate seeing Children suffering in my life

[quote author=tommie1 post=99563769]I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

That baby is not yours, postinor can be effective for 72hrs being 3days. So even if she took it on d third day, the sperm will still flush out, so sit her down n get the truth from her.

Please don't. I deed it and I've not recovered from the guilt. You will not, for life.
God Almighty has a way of providing that nobody can ever imagine.
Marry your wife and keep your first child.
Wishing you joy of God.

Men suddenly realise and accept they're broke after they've got a girl pregnant.


I'm very sorry for any girl that doesn't have sense.

Do u want to die? if no then why do u want to kill an innocent baby? itz a command Don't do it

tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

Always. That's how the story goes.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

I believe Positnor works up to 72 hours after sex, but at least 48hrs

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby. I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.
I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby.

Believe me, if you have conscience, you will never find peace in life after you kill that angel. My friend did same 8yrs ago, i was faced with similar situation in 2019. I was poorly paid, I had my sister feeding on me, in a room selfcon. I thought, I cried, and I prayed. my woman was ready to support my decision. By Gods grace, our king stayed with us, and was birthed last June. Ever since I decided to keep that child, it has been breakthrough. In 2 months I was able to perform the marital rights, got a room and parlor for my new family and left the selfcon for my sis. 2 months later I lost my Job without 1 month pay, Same month I got a job that paid 4x higher in the same organization but different branch. Today I am much better. That child will bring you glory.

Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

Leave that baby. However, I need you to know that your woman trapped you. You are her dream and she must have been talking about marriage with you. Go ahead and marry her if she is loyal.

Bros keep the baby and double your hustle smile

Gamer999:
But you gave her money for postinor, she confirmed that she bought it, also confirmed that she took it. Final verdict; you can't be responsible for her pregnancy. Only 3 things could have happened. 1}she lied that she bought the drug whereas she use it to buy data. 2}another guy got her pregnant. 3} na immaculate conception

God bless Sony interactive entertainment ;God bless the United States ;God bless Nigeria ;God bless Kogi state; God bless the good people of Okene

i hope you know that postinor can fail.

PrimadonnaO:
Men suddenly realise and accept they're broke after they've got a girl pregnant.

It takes 2 to tangle, why would you now want to leave the expenses on the man as if you are a tool he just got? What happens to equality when it happens this way

PrimadonnaO:
I'm very sorry for any girl that doesn't have sense.

sorry for una