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5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Muurian: 10:40am On Mar 06, 2021 |
••• Relationships are hectic affairs and quite consuming. It could drive and keep your positive energy at it's peak constantly if you meet someone of like drives. It could also sap you of all your happiness, leave you drained and struggling to breath. Whichever way, relationships are usually what the individuals makes of it. It's advisable to get to know someone first before proposing relationship to them. This is mostly due to the fact that you don't know their past relationship lives, and most people won't tell you because no one wants to be the bad guy of the relationship that didn't work. Like it or not, past relationships are exactly what will be used to judge your relationship with them. Here are five reasons why a lot of decent people prefer to stay single this days. 1) Choice: Obviously, the decision to be in a relationship ultimately lies with the individual. The individual can decide that relationships are not for them at any given point in time. What this entails is that, the individual can choose to date or remain single, even if there are one billion admirers seeking for entrance into their life. 2) Self Awareness: Some people know their worth and take it serious. Because this individuals actually recognize their value and worth, dating becomes restricted to people of like minds. This doesn't necessarily mean that the individual in question is extravagantly rich or a billionaire. Realising your self worth here means the ability to decide that you are not going to jump into any relationship just because the other person told you they admire you and will like to be your friend. Being aware of yourself will help your dating decisions. This is one of the reasons why many decent people are single nowadays. Here, the person can tell if the relationship will serve them or not. It is not being selfish. 3) Self Improvement: The person may have realised his flaws and character fails, and is trying to improve on them. This is mostly because the individual can empathize the reactions their negative side has created in the past, and wouldn't want to subjugate another person to it again. 4) Freedom Some people just love their personal freedom and don't like people bugging them down with relationship related issues. This type of people may have had soured relationships in the past or not. Whichever category, this persons just want to live their life, free as a bird in the moment. Whether or not they will try out dating in the future will totally depend on if it's going to curtail their freedom in any way. This doesn't mean that they can't compromise a little to accommodate their partner. But, if such accommodation is going to curtail their freedom to live their lives, they will definitely stay away. 5) Not Settling For Less People who know exactly what they want in a relationship will find it hard to settle for less. https://uptownerd.com/2021/03/06/5-reasons-why-there-are-so-many-decent-people-who-are-single-nowadays/ What do you think? Are the reasons good enough? Drop your comments. 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by InfernoNig: 12:23am On Mar 07, 2021 |
I would like to welcome you to the world of Fake bitches no love |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by lundy339: 2:36am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Muurian: |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by chiommy123(f): 5:35am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Guys are looking for who will open leg without requesting for urgent 2k, girls are looking for who will give them urgent 2k without opening their legs 15 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Nobody: 7:27am On Mar 07, 2021 |
I think the reason most men are single is not far fetched. Women sees relationship as a poverty alleviation scheme while Men believes an investment in relationship should come with reasonable percentage of ROI. Both parties are finding it hard to connect the dots. But while speaking with our correspondent yesterday the Secretary General of the Future is Female Union Comrade Zzor explained that should government fail to do something about the issue of boyfriend scarcity across the country the members of the union may likely go on a 21 days strike starting from tomorrow. In his response Future is Male Chairman Congressman Mosdii has advice his counterparts no to be bothered by the threat of the strike but focus solely on the Union motto of Nigeria girls are useless and also continue to follow all the principles of an Alpha male including not giving a dim to Nigeria Girls The minister of Youth Mr. Sunday Dare was unavailable for press briefing on this issue ,but we earnestly awaits further directives from his ministry. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by talk2hb1(m): 8:28am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Someone to care Someone to share Lonely hours And moments of despair To be loved to be loved Oh what a feeling To be loved Someone to kiss Someone to miss When you're away To hear from each day To be loved to be loved (to be loved) Oh what a feeling To be loved Some wish to be a king or a queen Some wish for fortune and fame But to be truly truly truly loved Is more than all of these things Someone to kiss Someone to miss When you're away To hear from each day To be loved (to be loved) To be loved (to be loved) Oh what a feeling To be loved To be loved (to be loved) To be loved (to be loved) Oh what a feeling To be loved 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Lucrativress(f): 9:06am On Mar 07, 2021 |
talk2hb1:Lovely 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Lucrativress(f): 9:08am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Muurian:Another is interest and wants Getting to see someone with similar wants and interests.. And at times decent people are just not in contact with other "decent people" so it's like similar minds don't exist.... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by tonyson010(m): 9:48am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Lucrativress: No. 2 and 5 are saying same thing. "People Sharing same Interest" One must have realised what he/she wants, before concluding that that is what they want from another person in relationship or anything else they want from another person. It entails knowing urself first. Then knowing how to express urself with others. It is only when u have realised what u want from others, can u say categorically say, it is blue or nothing. When u look closely at someone, he/she doesn't have the attributes, close up. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Michelle55: 10:17am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Relationship itself is hard work, I doubt if I want to give it a try again. Getting used to my company every passing day. But truth be told, it's a beautiful thing when you have someone to share your dreams and ideas with and both of you willing to work towards achieving them together. These days urgent 2k and guys wanting sex in exchange for the monetary help has turned everything upside down. No one is willing to help each other without ulterior motives. Some guys and ladies are in the so called relationships just for the benefits or what they might likely gain from each other and once that's achieved, every other thing will crumble. In summary, the guys goes into one for free and unlimited browsing of her website while the lady does the same for financial purpose(at least she's sure of her rents been paid, gifts been given and lots more)all she needs do is submit toto for browsing at any given time. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Lucrativress(f): 2:04pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
tonyson010:Naso ![]() |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Jeon(f): 2:10pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Muurian: 1 choice 2 sex 3 fakers 4 lack of trust 5 self improvement 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by GeneralPula: 2:25pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Decent man like us.. Nah to go pick one Latina make Baby mama is time don reach.. Parol go don set wella before then!! |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Muurian: 8:05pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Jeon: This are great reasons too. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Muurian: 8:07pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
GeneralPula: I dey greet o, GeneralPula. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Muurian: 8:08pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
GeneralPula:I dey greet o, GeneralPula. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Brian47(m): 8:13pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
talk2hb1:That would be your mother |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Angelacruz: 8:50pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
GeneralPula:men not man |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by GeneralPula: 9:02pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Angelacruz: Lol yea bro nah one bros for mah lungu dey talk that slang jare.. Naso we carry ham oo |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Muurian: 1:44pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Okay. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by pryme(m): 2:10pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Michelle55: In other words no commitment, just trying to get by. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by pryme(m): 2:11pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
GeneralPula: You are far from decent. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Nobody: 2:29pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
I'm not in a hurry. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by KidDarkness(m): 2:48pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
chronian:No one is. Without peer and family pressure, no one would rush outta singlehood |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Michelle55: 4:13pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
pryme: ![]() |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Quality20(m): 4:37pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Just go to badoo n propose 2 any girl that catch ur fancy then marry her. Don't listen 2 guys who claim badoo girls r oloshos |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by pryme(m): 4:40pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Michelle55: You disagree. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Michelle55: 4:41pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
pryme:Yup |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Nazgul: 5:54pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
The main reason is that so many girls are becoming lazy these days. I don't know if it has become a crime for the average Nigerian girl to work and earn money for herself. Truth is nobody wants a liability, worse of all an ungrateful liability. I'd rather remain single than marry a liability. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. by Duplexxx: 6:37pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Biko |
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