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by iod69779: 10:56am On Mar 08, 2021 |
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Re: by Kriss216: 10:58am On Mar 08, 2021 |
Or you can just skip marriage and avoid threads like this. 4 Likes |
Re: by Jeon(f): 11:02am On Mar 08, 2021 |
don't be the wrong partner to someone, don't screw their life up if you can't abide by the laws of marriage. 1 Like |
Re: by 1F30M4(f): 10:22pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
iod69779: Spot on! These are important things that should be put into consideration.. The moment you turn a blind eye to red flags during dating/courtship, it may be disastrous.. Oftentimes we say "I don't like what I hate" but you see love ehn, e be like black magic.. If you haven't experienced love, genuine love for someone, sorry you no go fit understand, forget hard guy hard geh, we've all been there done that.. Anyways, if there are some attributes you do not like in your significant other and your inner self is telling you "when we both get married likdis, I'm sure he/she will change" oshey lifechanger, shorii lemme jus tell you, oyo lo wa.. Marriage isn't something you rush into anyhow, there's a saying that if you rush into something, that's the same way you will rush out of it sooo make sure you know what you're getting into, not because all your friends are getting married orrr pressure from mumsy & other relatives, las las if anything sup, na only you go face am head-on.. Do not forget to seek God's face, for those who believe in Him. Shalom! 2 Likes |
Re: by iod69779: 9:20am On Mar 09, 2021 |
1F30M4: The moment you two have a child, it gets worse because decisions are no longer based on what is good for either of you. That's when many people decide to settle even if love has died longtime ago 1 Like |
Re: by 1F30M4(f): 10:37am On Mar 09, 2021 |
iod69779: True, when children get involved it becomes very dicey.. Just as long as the situation doesn't get blown out of proportion like in the case of domestic violence, physical assault and the sorts, it almost seems logical to settle just for the sake of the child(ren).. Nowadays, some partners don't even entertain the thought of settling.. At the blink of an eye, they're ready to split up and move on with their life, whether they have children together or not. |
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