Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,207,866 members, 8,000,645 topics. Date: Tuesday, 12 November 2024 at 01:09 PM

What's Your Red Flag? - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / What's Your Red Flag? (2381 Views)

What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? / My fiancee Finds It Difficult To Cook & Do House Chores, Is This A Red Flag? / "With Your Red Pant": Fans Tell Tacha As She Twerks In Underwear (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (Reply) (Go Down)

What's Your Red Flag? by LadyTiannah2: 1:36pm On Mar 08, 2021
We all know that nobody is perfect and people are bound to have flaws, but sometimes there are certain things one's partner does, that makes one contemplate ending the relationship. What's the red flag or deal breaker that you simply can't ignore?

Mine are lying and dirtiness.

3 Likes 2 Shares

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by budaatum: 1:42pm On Mar 08, 2021
Mine is liars. I can not stand people intentionally telling me black is white.

I can forgive them if they do not know but would prefer they admit their ignorance. Its why I get the hump with believers since they tend to believe precisely because they do not know. But of course that forest in my eye is bigger than the spec of it in the eyes of others so I forgive so I can forgive myself. Liars though? Yuke people!

1 Like

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Themainboy22: 2:01pm On Mar 08, 2021
Gullibility. If you are easily swayed by things or trends, if you believe everything I tell you without questioning it's source or credibility sometimes. It's just a matter of time, I will break up with you, no matter how beautiful you are.

10 Likes 2 Shares

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Mar 08, 2021
Following

Modified:

Tell me your flaws.

We'll deal with them together. In a simple language **be real with me**


I don't like hypocrites and pretenders.

2 Likes

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by LadyTiannah2: 2:47pm On Mar 08, 2021
StacyO:
Following
Tell us yours smiley
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Silentgroper(m): 2:51pm On Mar 08, 2021
budaatum:
Mine is liars. I can not stand people intentionally telling me black is white.

I can forgive them if they do not know but would prefer they admit their ignorance. Its why I get the hump with believers since they tend to believe precisely because they do not know. But of course that forest in my eye is bigger than the spec of it in the eyes of others so I forgive so I can forgive myself. Liars though? Yuke people!
I think lying is one of d unrealest thing to have as a red flag bcuz everyone does/will do it at a point of time. Except u are a hypocrite.

2 Likes

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by budaatum: 2:58pm On Mar 08, 2021
Silentgroper:
I think lying is one of d unrealest thing to have as a red flag bcuz everyone does/will do it at a point of time. Except u are an hypocrite.

And who says I am not a hypocrite? Did I not say something about the size of my own forest? You need to come see me burning in hell whenever I lie. I agonise that I must be so weak that I can not tell the truth and be damned so I stupidly damn myself by lying instead? "How stupid can you be, buda!"

It is still my red flag. Especially in a relationship. And most especially lying to oneself. We are done if I catch you lying to yourself!

4 Likes

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by jacyhelen(f): 3:42pm On Mar 08, 2021
If you watch too much Porn. I go Jakpa!
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by qtguru(m): 3:49pm On Mar 08, 2021
Being Clingy and co-dependent
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Mar 08, 2021
Gush I hate smokers,don't drink too else I will give you a very cold shoulder if you come close,I wish to live very long and old with my future husband

1 Like

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by The5DME(m): 4:01pm On Mar 08, 2021
1) Lacking knowledge about a wide variety of things.

3 Likes

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Reex12(m): 4:28pm On Mar 08, 2021
Zzor:
Gush I hate smokers,don't drink too else I will give you a very cold shoulder if you come close,I wish to live very long and old with my future husband
atleast you have 1percent of health decency in you unlike your shamelesness of dating peoples husbands and fathers of 50_60yrs

2 Likes

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Olamilekxy(m): 4:33pm On Mar 08, 2021
Not smelling nice. This girl came to my house without using deodorant, I just stop calling her and picking her calls, she's till wondering what she did to me .

1 Like

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Liposure: 4:34pm On Mar 08, 2021
Tell me the truth. Don't lie to me. Smoking. I detest ladies who smoke
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Mar 08, 2021
LadyTiannah2:

Tell us yours smiley
Done.
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by LadyTiannah2: 4:49pm On Mar 08, 2021
Lalasticlala please move to front page, so people can contribute and be made aware of relationship deal breakers
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by afolarin60591: 4:57pm On Mar 08, 2021
FollowingModified:Tell me your flaws.We'll deal with them together. In a simple language **be real with me**I don't like hypocrites and pretenders.
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Polynek(m): 6:43pm On Mar 08, 2021
Am here to read comments as usual
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by sunshineV(f): 6:44pm On Mar 08, 2021
lying for just no cause and disloyal

1 Like

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Twelfthman: 7:04pm On Mar 08, 2021
.
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by MufasaLion: 7:11pm On Mar 08, 2021
Reex12:
atleast you have 1percent of health decency in you unlike your shamelesness of dating peoples husbands and fathers of 50_60yrs

Easy grin
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Derare(f): 8:32pm On Mar 08, 2021
If you always make jest of mental health or regard it as crazy . undecided
Dishonesty
Hypocrite
As a guy,you have a very boring and mean personality .

Inside that relationship ,I will just japaa undecided
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Nato008(m): 8:46pm On Mar 08, 2021
for me, I think it is someone taking me for a fool or simpleton...
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Stephenmoka4(m): 8:48pm On Mar 08, 2021
Lies
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by afiawoh(m): 9:06pm On Mar 08, 2021
For me its disturbance all in the name of caring

1 Like

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Offpoint1: 9:10pm On Mar 08, 2021
I've zero red flag, I'm like Benin-Ore express, anything goes.

2 Likes

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by LadyTiannah2: 9:11pm On Mar 08, 2021
Offpoint1:
I've zero red flag
Lol anything and everything is allowed?
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Offpoint1: 9:14pm On Mar 08, 2021
LadyTiannah2:

Lol anything and everything is allowed?
Anything goes as long as I'M GETTING LAIDgringrin

2 Likes

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by LadyTiannah2: 9:22pm On Mar 08, 2021
Offpoint1:

Anything goes as long as I'M GETTING LAIDgringrin

Lol. Interesting
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by Telegram234(m): 11:21pm On Mar 08, 2021
Too much complaining.
Too much billing and not texting back under 10mins after viewing the message..
Re: What's Your Red Flag? by FaruqMadridCr7(m): 11:33pm On Mar 08, 2021
Telegram234:
Too much complaining.
Too much billing and not texting back under 10mins after viewing the message..
you mean if your partner didn't reply your message under ten minutes you go japa? shocked cheesy

1 Like

Re: What's Your Red Flag? by FaruqMadridCr7(m): 11:36pm On Mar 08, 2021
Telegram234:
Too much complaining.
Too much billing and not texting back under
Telegram234 post=99724959:
Too much complaining.
Too much billing and not texting back under 10mins after viewing the message..
you mean if your partner didn't reply your message under ten minutes you go japa? shocked cheesy after viewing the message..

(1) (2) (Reply)

Such wonderful day / Only A Foolish Man Gives Women Attention / My Mother Is The Reason I Have Sleepless Nights

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 27
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.