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Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 7:11pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
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Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by JAOS(m): 7:18pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
There is nothing wrong with your relationship she just wants you to get jealous 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by TheVictim01(m): 7:18pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Right from the onset it was a game which you failed woefully. Shit tests to emotional security unto you made you become more attached to her! You seem to "Go with the flow" as dead fishes do. Ubunja, luminouz, frankioski and petuk. 6 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by AFvckingAlpha(m): 7:18pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
The fvck Niggarr!! |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Xenry: 7:18pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Imagine if you have invested in something better other than a girl. My lead is simple— Unless I'm where I wanna be in life, I won't invest in any girl. My brother, dating a school girl is like dating a girl of the people, She's not your girlfriend—she's their girlfriend. And it would always end in tears, what exactly do you expect from them? Faithfulness? Nah, that's a joke. 10 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Kriss216: 7:25pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Una still dey fall in love with Nigerian girls? You pay her lodge fees, textbooks, feeding, clothes. Is she an orphan? Guys should learn how not to personalize community properties. 8 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Stephenmoka4(m): 7:26pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
There is nothing like simp here, just before anyone call you that note they are a full time simp to spot one. Now, she accepted the money hmm not so good from your point of view. You should both know your boundaries and things you both should permit and not permit, have you define that? Don't call it off yet. I as a guy, if a guy (bi, gay or straight) offer me money or take me out, I won't read meaning to it and go. However, I know my limit and things I don't do. |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Nobody: 7:33pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
What is "shix"? So even after going through school, you still can't type "she's" or "she is" properly? I lost the urge to read whatever you wrote up there after seeing that twice so I have no advice for you. 10 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by IamRandy: 7:34pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
YOu story is as SIMPle as you No matter how comfortable you are, DONT SPEND to the END of PAYING a Ladies MAJOR expenses(that her parents are supposed to take care of) when u are NOT yet married... She is EVEN from a poor home Most ladies from poor homes have this BIG ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY Trust me, this relationship is a CASHCOW relationship...once, she is done with u,,YOU wILL BE DUMPED !!! You dont need any advice, you are already going in the WRONG Direection as how a healthy relationship should be... Guy, u claim u have money,,WHY NOT go for a lady in ur class 6 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by pozehnani(f): 7:36pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Are you ready for a relationship? Don't you think you're wasting your time and resources on a relationship that does not hold anything for you in the future? This girl is just fresh in the higher institution and still has enough discoveries about men and school life to make. she'll dump you half way. Why not face your education and come out with good grades? Both of you are still too immature for a relationship. Use your head. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 7:36pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Activist001:Smile,no de take life too serious nah please� |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by InfernoNig: 7:36pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
You already know what to do |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Wyry: 7:41pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Nigerian girls are useless. 4 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 7:41pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
IamRandy:Didn't you see where I wrote I'm still a hustling Guy, anyways though I'm ever ready to let go of whatever dime I spent .... On from the onset, I have always say to myself, what ever be the outcome of our relationship, I'm ready to bear it. Thanks though |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by luminouz(m): 7:54pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
TheVictim01: The guy's story is weird. He is 24, hnd 1 and has everything in life yet for some reason can't identify a simple shiit test? Sounds like all these fabricated FP love stories. Once I see ' I take care of her school fees bla bla bla, she is amazing bleeehhh, i pay her bills bla blaaaaaa...then one small issue arises and niggar starts asking what he should do...I just lose interest. How do you sponsor a girl whose parents are still alive cuz she be ya gf? That's not your job Why did he get angry though? Cuz she collected the money or she didn't tell him? The girl didn't cheat as far as I know. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by IamRandy: 7:57pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Golden147: Yes i saw "where you wrote that u are struggling"... As of 2009 when i was in UNI house rent was about 50-60k per year...Currently, this is some graduates MONTHLY PAY And i am very sure the price has increased now.... Guy, there also ladies/student struggling like you that dont need a CASHCOW ! Go for them Pls i humbly appeal to you to abort this mission...IT IS NOT HEALTHY for a STRUGGLING GUY....if you dont know what to use that money for since ur family are well taken care of...USE IT and INVEST iN YOURSELF by acquiring IT skill(which is hot cake now) or other SKILLS.... Peace !!! 6 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 8:00pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
luminouz:NIGERIA sef, everybody must not be like you nah, kaii..I started being independent@19 bro, lost dad at 21... Till now I still take care of my family... Incase of doubt..I can inbox you my cac certificates anytime...got it the Year 2019. Nawaoh for you o... anyways thanks though... remember i never said I got all. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by IamRandy: 8:00pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Wyry: In Mosdii voice 1 Like |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by luminouz(m): 8:02pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Golden147: I expect you to recognise game and shit tests as a man. I'm not interested in how much you earn but your emotional intelligence. So don't think this is about your hustle or CAC stuff. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 8:04pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
IamRandy:I already planned registering her where she can acquire the It skills after her ND next yr , we discussed nd she agreed to it , as mesef no get time to go learn..I already got knownlgde in patient medicine (chemist). Thanks bro. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 8:06pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
luminouz:Ok now I got your point.. Thanks so much... you're man. |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by IamRandy: 8:08pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Golden147: Did you read my comment meticously at all You already planned registering her ? Like are you for REAL ? Omoh, its your money, USE IT AS YOU LIKE I can see you DONT need any HELP 4 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Erojepromise(f): 8:16pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Golden147: the only question l have for you is what do you do? seeing you are the sole provider for everyone.. |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 8:17pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
IamRandy:smile bro, thanks... just that mesef de too busy to go learn the IT stuff, I have already thought about it... Before dad died he Force me to go learn it but I chose patient medicine over it,now I'm regretting because I'm not even practicing the medicine sef again... I have discussed with my Jr bros to go learn it , yet non- got interest in it... So I discussed with her and she welcomed it... Anyways, I have already read your advice... My aim now is to Quit... |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 8:23pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Erojepromise:Ordinary I will have Ignore this,but for the sake of sincerity and other's wondering too, I'm into agency banking (pos, i have 3 branches) I equally owe a laundry shop, I also have a shop where I charge people phone nd sell phone accessories like charger's and ear phone too. Though I started my life off with laundry... At 19. Can you know advice me?? 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 8:24pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
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Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Ketapu: 8:27pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
If you're still interested in the relationship, I think you should tell her once-and-for-all never to inform you about her admirers again (unless after she becomes your wife). I find it very disrespectful. Imagine you are the one going out everyday. You meet pretty ladies, chats with them and gets their number. You then regularly inform your girlfriend about your exploits with ladies. How would she feel? I would guess she would be very angry that you have the gut to be doing that. If she's beautiful, there is no doubt that guys would want to woo her. It is now left to her to be faithful to you. And please, what is with this your spendings? I hope you are getting what you wants from her (e.g sex, attention, care, etc). If you are not getting your wants, I pity the future of this relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Nobody: 8:34pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
i smell pusssy. It's the OP 1 Like |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Golden147: 8:36pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Ketapu:Lol..as for the sex yes she gives me as much as I want it... attention, yes she does, she hadly visit her house each time she come home as people already thought we're even married... Care ? Yes very much. |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Nobody: 8:39pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
luminouz:
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Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Ketapu: 8:40pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Golden147: Then, tell her that she should stop informing you about guys wooing her again. If she wants to be faithful with you, she should. If she doesn't, that's her loss because you will move on with your life. She's playing with your emotions as you have clearly shown. My brother, in your dealings with ladies: NEVER BE AFRAID TO LOSE ANY LADY. ALWAYS HAVE THE ABUNDANCE MENTALITY. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Please, I Want To Quit My Relationship. by Nobody: 8:42pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Ketapu:Its not about beauty that make guys woe a girl some guys would woe anything 1 Like |
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