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Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by uthlaw: 4:08pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Gentle0wavez:but come to think of it,is it possible for a God to die... The same Jesus said:my father is greater than I and all? How come is the Lord again? |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by babtoundey(m): 4:26pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Ladycewhy: If I was as stupid, brainless and incurably foolish as you are, I would reply you with the same energy. But, I cherish my sanity. No matter how, I will avoid swimming in the stain of infamy with you. |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by bilulu(m): 4:32pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
blazepascal:it's a big problem... never ignore the differences. |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by WudBMother: 4:38pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Answer the following questions and decide. 1. Can your love truly cover everything? 2. Are you ready to convert to Islam? 3. What will be the spiritual focus of your family - Islam or Christian. 4. What values will you teach your children? Jesus is the only way for salvation, but your Daddy is.... 5. Will there fighting from his family or yours?- She wants to change our son, She is taking our children to church. Don't baptize our children. Your parents might take same stance regarding you. 6. As a Christian, do you want to spend most of your prayer time for the rest of your life , praying for him to convert? 7. Are you ready to live with the chance of 3 other women joining the family as wives? 8. Most importantly, what does your Bible say about this? Go and read it. You will get the best counsel from it. The present commitment of the man to his religious preference is of no importance. If he is not so committed today, he can become more committed tomorrow and vice versa. Onyi22: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Ladycewhy(f): 4:40pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
babtoundey:bla bla bla, that's because you can't refute any point I made. The truth hurts,bet you wish you can dagger me for blasphemy because e nor dey hard una to do ![]() |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by yetunsbay(m): 4:46pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Gentle0wavez:here lies the misconception. Jesus is never Lord but servant of the Most High (God) just like Prophet Muhammed P.B.U.H . Furthermore, every real Muslims are mandated to belief in Prophet Issa (Jesus). |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by babtoundey(m): 4:48pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Ellasure: If you as a Christian (woman) are married to a Muslim (Man) you believe all if fair, fine a d all rights if all children follow you to church and go against the faith of their father. But it is unfair and wrong when those children follow their father to the mosque. Why must we be selfish! Are children robots that you must dictate to them what God to must worship? If all Tinubu's children are all Muslim (as you said) why should the mother be worried as long as the religion is not foisted on them? |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Gentle0wavez: 4:55pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
uthlaw: No na, even your soul is immortal talk less of a God Like I said read your bible well you will see that God brought Jesus to his level as lord of all after he died on the cross. |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by HabibGwen230(f): 5:08pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
My friend Priscilia is in deep shit now,crying like mumu everyday....the wahala is she's a member of GOFAMINT and her lover Ire is celestial and daddy wont consent to it.pls is cele also an unbeliever?abi is jesus different from jesu.most xtians of different churches hates themselves not to talk of accepting a muslim,some even see themselves superior to others...shior |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by God2man2again(m): 5:42pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
It matters oooo. Never marry another religion, I say never try it. No matter how nice the person may be |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Kingzeez10: 7:28pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Ladycewhy:Dagger you indeed .Grow up mf |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Oweku: 8:22pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by AWAYOlowo: 8:57pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Common you need not spite people way of life to make your view known. It just does not make sense. Gentle0wavez: |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Femeto: 9:06pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Yankee101:Really? E no follow. ![]() |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by ImaIma1(f): 9:23pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
ALISMILE: Guy it wasn't about him bowing his head, lying down or whatever. It was the realization that we cannot agree together in prayer in the same faith |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Yankee101: 9:25pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Femeto: Ephesians 1:17 - That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him: |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by ImaIma1(f): 9:26pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Lagoon0: Whatever the case, my preference was a Christian because I am a Christian. I didn't want to complicate my life and children's life with religious diversity. That is not to say that there are no worthy Muslim men. |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Ladycewhy(f): 10:09pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Kingzeez10:Tell that to your brothers moving around with daggers in their jalabia. They are the mfs who need to grow up. Also don't forget to lecture your brothers strapping themselves with bombs for 72 virgins on how to grow up. |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Coolgent(m): 11:50pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Gentle0wavez: Jesus Christ (peace be upon him) is a messenger of God ![]() |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by djon78(m): 1:35pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
babtoundey: That's why one should not mix religion because of the consequences. Let each religion marry each other Mixed religious marriage carries it's own wahala Although those in South West does it but from the East it's not possible |
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Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Mar 19, 2021 |
Onyi22:It doesn't matter. If he possesses the qualities you like in a man, go ahead and marry him. 1 Like |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 7:00pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
blingxx: You are deceiving yourselves |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by blingxx(m): 9:16pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
ENIGMATIC2023: you ever wonder why white man no carry religion for head like us yet their country is progressing |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by DC49: 8:23am On Mar 25, 2021 |
urbobo20: May God bless you more, brother. It's stories like this that make my day! 1 Like |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Myer(m): 7:17am On Sep 04, 2021 |
Gentle0wavez: Extremist verses.lol Do you realise that the "don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers" was not referring to marriage but any form of relationship? Do you have friends, business partners, family, boss that's an unbeliever? Then you should cut them off from your life and stop associating with them. You should only associate with fellow believers. Cos if you have any unbeliever as a friend or family or business partner then you're as wrong as anyone who marries an unbeliever according to the verse you referenced. Balance is very important. There are verses which balance this. Otherwise you become an extremist who is just a stone throw from being a terrorist fighting for his God. This is where you must learn to have personal study and not swallow everything your pastor says hook line and sinker. Juxtapose the verse you referenced 2 Cor 6:14 with 1 Cor 7:12-15 Also remember that Moses married an unbeliever from another tribe entirely. Yet when his siblings complained about it, God himself defended him and even struck Miriam with leprosy. My advice to the OP, If you can marry a fellow Christian like you, it is advisable you do so cos it should help you both grow together as Christians. But the bible does not forbid you from marrying an unbeliever. What you should be concerned with is that you both share core value systems together. And you're both prepared with the challenges from family and society. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Gentle0wavez: 9:55am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Myer: Yeah I know it involves all other relationship apart from marriage. Yes I have unbelievers as friends and even parent but marriage is deeper and more serious now |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Nobody: 11:22pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Onyi22: Yes o... Religion matters... You may rhink ir doesnt now, but what happens when you start having kids?? Will they be muslims or christians?? Will they go to a church or a mosque?? Dont play with a persons belief system o... Like it or not, our beliefs is what drives us... I kmow there will always be conflicts in marriages and all, but a conflict due to an innate belief system is not one that can be resolved easily... |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by MufasaLion: 7:38am On Oct 08, 2021 |
It doesn't matter except you marry a fanatic or extremist. I don't care about religion. |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by MufasaLion: 7:40am On Oct 08, 2021 |
Favfables: Imagine what you're saying. So you are the one to decide your kids faith? Kids must be allowed to choose their own faith irrespective of the background. |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by Nobody: 8:26am On Oct 08, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Nope.... You're the one who needs to imagine what you're saying... So you give birth to a child today, and you allow the child to choose his faith today?? Listen, until a child get to an age where he can make decisions on his/her own, the decisions will always be made for that child by the parents... A child of 3 can't decide if he wants to be a Christian or Muslim, at that point, he will most definitely be whatever the parent chooses for him (religious wise et Al)... Guy whatever religion you practiced as a child is largely because of your parents (or whoever you grew up with)... If your parents were any other religion that's where you most likely would be as a kid or an adult (very few adults are in a religion different from whoever brought them up) So what happens then?? 1 Like |
Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by MufasaLion: 11:11am On Oct 08, 2021 |
Favfables: You only emphasised on my point also. A child will choose his faith but it's gonna be the he's of age. |
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