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Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Nobody: 9:39am On Mar 18, 2021 |
Entitlements An Average woman have the following thoughts due to female privilege around the world. ¶ From an early age the opposite sex will be instructed never to hit me but I may not be given the same instructions. However, should I strike males I can expect not to be hit back and any social penalties that occur from my actions will actually fall on the male. ¶ If I'm not smart, but pretty, I can marry and achieve the social and financial level of my husband without ever working. ¶ I can produce offspring. A status which grants me an "essential" status in our species that men can never have. ¶ Regardless of my mate value society has organized fertility clinics and social welfare programs that will allow me to have children and provide for them should I choose to reproduce without a mate or marriage. ¶ I not only have the more valuable and sought after sexual identity, but I also have complete control over my reproductive choice and in many ways over the reproductive choice of the opposite sex. ¶ At any time I can abandon my parental responsibilities with little or no social stigma and hand the child over to the state or abort the pregnancy. A male could never relieve himself of this burden unless I allow him to. ¶ When I marry a man with status I can take his name and become whoever he has spent years becoming. I need not do anything special to be worthy of receiving the reputation he has built. However, if I wish to keep my own name I can do so. ¶ People will help me more when I'm in need and I will receive no social penalty or stigma for it. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Nobody: 9:40am On Mar 18, 2021 |
When I'm on a date things will be paid for me. ¶ I can discriminate against the opposite sex ruthlessly without social penalty. ¶ If I marry and quit my job and enjoy a leisurely life with light housework and then later divorce I will be given half of the marital assets. ¶ If I commit a crime and am convicted I will get a sentencing "discount" because of my gender. If I am very pretty it will increase my discount. ¶ If I am a partner in crime with a man I will likely be charged with lesser crimes even though I committed the same crimes even if I was the ringleader. ¶ My feelings are more important than men's lives. Every precaution will be made to protect me from harassment at work. However, males will make up nearly %100 of workplace fatalities. ¶ My gender controls 80% of domestic spending. We get to spend our money if we have any and we get to spend men's money. ¶ The majority of luxury apparel is designed, marketed to, and consumed by women. As such Seven times as much jewelry will be purchased by or for me than by or for men. ¶ My gender enjoys more government spending on health than males do. My gender consumes the lioness' share of entitlement programs while men contribute the lion's share of taxes. ¶ If I rape or molest a child I can expect lighter treatment in court and afterwards receive less social stigma. What's more, should I become pregnant, I can sue my victim for child support when he finally turns 18. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Nobody: 9:41am On Mar 18, 2021 |
¶ When I divorce I can use false accusations of domestic violence, sexual molestation of the children or abuse of the children to gain advantage during court proceedings. If I am found out to be a liar I can expect to get away with it(western world). ¶ If a man calls me a slut it will probably hurt my reputation but the damage will be small and localized. However, if I call him a child molester or claim that he raped me I can destroy him completely and the damage may be nationwide. ¶ If I fail at my career I can blame the male dominated society. ¶ I may have the luxury of staying home and being a housewife but if my sister's husband does the same thing I'm likely to call him a deadbeat loser and tell her to leave him. ¶ If I "choose" to join the military; the best military occupations providing the most lucrative civilian training will be reserved for me. I will be kept away from the fighting as much as possible to the point that I will be thirty times less likely to be killed in a war zone than my male counterparts. I will be given equal pay for less risk. ¶ My gender watches more television in every hour of every day than any other group. This along with the fact that women control 80% of domestic spending means that most television shows and advertisement are designed to appeal to me. ¶ I can wear masculine clothing if it pleases me however men cannot wear feminine clothing without social penalty. ¶ Not only is there a wealth of clothing choices designed for me but it is likely that I will be able to afford or have them provided for me. ¶ I can be bigoted or sexist against males without social penalty. ¶ If I make a false claim of rape against a male in an act of revenge or in order to cover up my own scandalous behavior I may well succeed at both and he may spend years in prison. If I am found out it is unlikely I will be charged, convicted, or serve any time at all. ¶ If I abuse my husband and physically assault him and the police arrive it is almost guaranteed he will go to jail. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Nobody: 9:42am On Mar 18, 2021 |
If I am in an abusive relationship there are a multitude of social organizations to help me get away from him. There are few for men in the same position even though women initiate the majority of Domestic violence and even though men are hospitalized 30% of the time. ¶ In the event of a natural disaster or other emergency that requires evacuation I can expect to be evacuated before males with no social penalty. ¶ I expect a man to give me an engagement ring when he Kneels Down and asks me to marry him ¶ If I lie it's because I'm a victim of a male dominated society forced into difficult circumstances and not because I'm a bad person. ¶ I'm likely to believe that if a woman is intoxicated she is not capable of giving consent and if sex occurs it is rape. However, if her male partner is also intoxicated he is capable of consenting. ¶ I can cry and get my husband to do something for me that he might not have done otherwise. ¶ I expect people (especially men) to be sensitive to my feelings. ¶ Even though men die more from prostate cancer than women die from breast cancer I can expect that twice as much funding is given for breast cancer. The same will apply to any female specific disease or malady. ¶ If for some reason I do not get custody of my children I will be expected to pay less child support than another man in my exact same position. I think that alimony is fair when paid to a woman but not fair when paid by a woman(western world). 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Xenry: 9:43am On Mar 18, 2021 |
Here we go again, women's matter.
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Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Nobody: 9:43am On Mar 18, 2021 |
Restrooms for my gender will be cleaner and are more likely to have flowers or other decorations. ¶ People I've never met before are more likely to open doors for me. ¶ People I've never met before are more likely to talk to me in public. ¶ If I go to a bar I can expect that members of the opposite sex will purchase drinks for me. ¶ If I meet a man that I like and I give him my phone number and he doesn't call I have a right to think of him as an asshole. If I meet a man that I like and I give him my phone number and he calls me I have a right to blow him off or act like I don't know him. ¶ If something bad happens to me or just one woman I believe it is an offense against all women. I believe that if something bad happens to a man it's because he's a loser. ¶ I'm more likely to believe that women who commit crimes are sick and need treatment or understanding whereas men who commit crimes are evil and should be locked up forever. ¶ I can criticize the opposite sex without social penalty, but woe be to the man who attempts to criticize me or other women. ¶ I can sleep with my boss if I want and afterwards I can sue him for sexual harassment. ¶ I can wear seductive clothing and perfume to attract a man at work but no one will accuse me of sexual harassment. ¶ It is my right to maintain the belief that men oppress women despite all of the evidence to the contrary. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Nobody: 9:44am On Mar 18, 2021 |
Where's the Love |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Xenry: 9:46am On Mar 18, 2021 |
Women should forget about all these entitlement mentality, and hustle. Men are becoming wise these days and are now going after women who are assets and not Liabilities. 8 Likes
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Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by anthonyuncle(m): 9:18pm On Mar 18, 2021 |
on a serious note, guy, you get time o 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by zagorakis(m): 5:58am On Mar 19, 2021 |
men are becoming endangered species in this modern world 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Orpazpjr: 6:48pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
Where's the lie?? |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by blazepascal(m): 7:01pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
op chillax women matter no dey tire you
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Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by tosik(m): 8:43pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
abeg who can summarize all this epistle to me?? |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by The5DME(m): 8:49pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
Jobless op |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Laird(m): 5:55am On Sep 14, 2021 |
The Op has valid points |
Re: Why Ladies Have Entitlement Mindset by Nobody: 6:40am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Painfully, what the OP write is true... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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