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| What To Look For When Choosing Your Partner? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
In 2018, I got married to my University sweetheart. Today, a friend at work, looking to settle down this year, asked me... "What did you see in your wife?" Me to him? What I looked for? A) Kind B) Hardworking C) Smart D) Good-looking E) Money Skills The order is super important. Kind comes first. You don't want a mean-hearted woman. Hardworking comes second. You don't want a lazy ass, who wants you to place her on a monthly salary while she does nothing (house keeping is no work. You can get people from your village and pay them the bare minimum to keep everywhere shining). Smart comes third. You don't want someone dull. Genes matter in child bearing. You want to have kids that have the ability to absorb large volume of data quickly so they can breeze through school. Life is hard. Don't add dull kids to your worries... Good-looking comes fourth. You need a woman that can make all your hairs erect when you're with her. Marry a woman with features you like, not one society likes. Financial discipline comes fifth. Money can't solve all your problems, but having lots of it will solve all your money problems. Surprisingly, 95% of our life problems are actually money problems. You need someone with great money skills so you can focus on something else... So, for married and soon-to-be-married folks, what did you look for when choosing a partner? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: What To Look For When Choosing Your Partner? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
I love,Godly,decent and comfortable men,I really love decent men,you will be surprised how I will mellow down completely for a decent comfortable man,I put comfortable because it is lack of means that made some men decent and as soon as they are comfortable they throw away decency to the winds |
| Re: What To Look For When Choosing Your Partner? by Michelle55: 4:13pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
Let me pitch my tent and learn |
| Re: What To Look For When Choosing Your Partner? by Uprightness100(m): 4:24pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
What I Looked out for: 1. I Looked out to Hear For GOD'S Choice 2. I Looked out for a lady with a Genuie Fear of GOD. Not just in the mouth but Indeed. I looked out for Godly woman. Spirtual Compartability was very Highly Important. 3. Physical Features. Every other thing was a Gift. 1 Like |
| Re: What To Look For When Choosing Your Partner? by descarado: 4:27pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
You choose a partner with this, you are gonna be highly disappointed dear  First and foremost is communication. Flexibility Then attraction. Others follow. When your marriage is 15 to 20 yrs, then you will understand the power of communication and flexibility in sustaining marriage( true marriage) Or rather ask elderly couples what kept them going Kind ko and smart ni  |
| Re: What To Look For When Choosing Your Partner? by 1F30M4(f): 7:29pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
Haha ma'am descarado really got me in stitches with "kind ko, smart ni" Be back soon |
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