In marriage there are lots of expectation most especially either from our partners or extended family members and even friends but truthfully you owe nobody anything.

Its expected that you manage your home, keep your secrets intact and work together as a team if you must succeed in marriage.

You both should keep your home in a good rapport, you owe  him nothing or owe her nothing but you both owe each other yourselves.

Why are you actually married? Are you married for love, or because you want to build together? Are you marrying because he or she was recommended to you? There are so many reason why, but nonetheless  find out why you did.

There are lots of relating issues why marriage are either booming or discarded, it's more on expectations either from one partner or family relations.

Pride, poverty, orientation, cultural background, upbringing, orientation, family roots and societal abnormalies are some issues that affects marriage drastically and increases levels of expectations.

Whatsoever you do for your partner in marriage is highy personal and shouldn't be seen as compulsion of any sort and do whatever you must do to keep your home.

There are many layers in marriage,  part of it is the reciprocal effect .,a responsibility to grow together, be consistent in relating well but don't make your marriage a means to an end, be committed to each other.

Whatever decisions you make, own it and take all responsibility and  be accountable to the very end but be open to your partner no matter how much unpalatable it is.

Be selfless in marriage, don't act like you were forced to do anything and don't allow yourself to be compelled to do anything either, the end piont of such outcomes isn't a good story to tell, don't subject your partner into any form of pressure to please you, if you do, certainly would push them away somehow.

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