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What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by dauddy97(m): 7:04pm On Mar 26, 2021
After so many years, I finally found a beautiful girl with good character and loving. who have promised to stay and get married to me.

we started well and her parents (mum) was in support but she said, she has to pray over it which up till now, no result.

Still didn't mind, we continue our relationship. my both parents know her very well and are also in support.
just a sudden, her mother change attitude towards her that, "you can't marry that guy".
She told me, and still yet she said she can't just leave me of which I can't leave her too.

she was in my house today and when she left, her mum called me and she said, "You can't marry my daughter as your our parents will want you to marry someone better, that I should pray I marry my own wife, someone who will support and be good to me".

I was so surprised and I told her, I was planning to visit her but when will she be available. she said she can't be available now but she will get back to me on Monday.

now,
should I tell my parents of the situation at hand?
I love her and she loves me too, what can I do?
should we take laws into our hands and let her mum be?
what can I even tell her even if she agrees to meet me by next week?
pls, who has been in this situation before and how did you manage it. did you leave her or what did you do.

lalasticlala
Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Niyeal(m): 7:06pm On Mar 26, 2021
Boom. Lemme sip tea I'm coming

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by ridwanlawal: 7:07pm On Mar 26, 2021
spreads the mat to listen to
#words of wisdom from the elder's

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Freestainworld(m): 7:09pm On Mar 26, 2021
Just get her pregnant, her mother will beg you to come pay for her bride price.

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by heendrix(m): 7:09pm On Mar 26, 2021
Her mother is just trying to help mosdii ministry by telling you the Right thing. Nigerian girls are _____ all of them

And that's why the mother keep saying ur parents and you would want to marry someone better. you better listen to the hand that trained her

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Xenry: 7:10pm On Mar 26, 2021
I pity who no get skills in Nigeria, but the one I pity even more is the one that isn't earning at least 7-digits per annum and still wants to get married.
"Go and make money," that's what her mom is indirectly telling you, but you just ain't getting it.
If you are not earning at least 7-digits per annum and you are talking about marriage, then you are in Buhari's lazy youths list.
Leave that girl alone for now because you got a long way to go. if you marry her now without her mother's full support, then her mother go be ur side wife wey go dey control your family. And the girl will definitely start cheating on you.
Clear your eyes bro, because wetin poor people dey see for this life no small oo, so you better face ur self and make your future better, or your kids go curse you for old age.

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by gfon(m): 7:12pm On Mar 26, 2021
Shift her womb

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Nobody: 7:13pm On Mar 26, 2021
Don't marry her without her parent consent, try your best to convince them and if they insist then you let her go,don't let your emotions lead you into taking wrong decisions.But wait o why is her mother suddenly against you,I hope you are an upright man

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by dauddy97(m): 7:23pm On Mar 26, 2021
Zzor:
Don't marry her without her parent consent, try your best to convince them and if they insist then you let her go,don't let your emotions lead you into taking wrong decisions.But wait o why is her mother suddenly against you,I hope you are an upright man
She once told me, since in still in the university her mum told her that I will later dump her since she has no capacity to further her education. she's learning Fashion Designing and I love her

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by dauddy97(m): 7:24pm On Mar 26, 2021
gfon:
Shift her womb
she suggested this but, why should I do such when I'm even yet to graduate nor start working

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Jeon(f): 7:27pm On Mar 26, 2021
dauddy97:
After so many years, I finally found a beautiful girl with good character and loving. who have promised to stay and get married to me.

we started well and her parents (mum) was in support but she said, she has to pray over it which up till now, no result.

Still didn't mind, we continue our relationship. my both parents know her very well and are also in support.
just a sudden, her mother change attitude towards her that, "you can't marry that guy".
She told me, and still yet she said she can't just leave me of which I can't leave her too.

she was in my house today and when she left, her mum called me and she said, "You can't marry my daughter as your our parents will want you to marry someone better, that I should pray I marry my own wife, someone who will support and be good to me".

I was so surprised and I told her, I was planning to visit her but when will she be available. she said she can't be available now but she will get back to me on Monday.

now,
should I tell my parents of the situation at hand?
I love her and she loves me too, what can I do?
should we take laws into our hands and let her mum be?
what can I even tell her even if she agrees to meet me by next week?
pls, who has been in this situation before and how did you manage it. did you leave her or what did you do.

lalasticlala

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by habsydiamond(m): 7:36pm On Mar 26, 2021
Oga it's better to pack ur load at this point and let her go, since the parents are not in support.. If you are saying she's the one u are in the relationship with and not the parents, then u must be a joker.. There is a saying in yoruba that says 'marrying a bad woman as a wife is better than having a bad in-laws . If u know u know. I rise

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Righteousness2(m): 7:36pm On Mar 26, 2021
What is your Testimony about your relationship with her?
Did you inquire from GOD?
Where you given the go ahead?
What is your Testimony about your coming together?

It is very important to have a Conviction from GOD before you say I Do

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Nobody: 7:37pm On Mar 26, 2021
dauddy97:

she suggested this but, why should I do such when I'm even yet to graduate nor start working
you are a data scientist and you want to marry someone that was meant for an importer and exporter of goods. My guy comot hand for that girl matter. Am not saying that money is your problem, cos if money na your problem you for no think marriage.

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Robertgreene1(m): 7:40pm On Mar 26, 2021
habsydiamond:
Oga it's better to pack ur load at this point, since the parents are not in support.. Don't think that since she's the one u are in the relationship with that the parents are not involved, then u are a joker.. There is a saying in yoruba that 'one can marry a bad wife but one must not have a bad in-laws... If u know u know. I rise
u must be an idiot...
Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Robertgreene1(m): 7:43pm On Mar 26, 2021
I stopped reading when I saw "my both parents" grin

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by habsydiamond(m): 7:43pm On Mar 26, 2021
Robertgreene1:
u must be an idiot...
bro u no get joy oo.. The last time I checked I wasn't the one with it... Learn to address people nicely..

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by gfon(m): 7:44pm On Mar 26, 2021
dauddy97:

she suggested this but, why should I do such when I'm even yet to graduate nor start working
you never graduate?? Oga leave love and face achievements

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Robertgreene1(m): 7:52pm On Mar 26, 2021
habsydiamond:
bro u no get joy oo.. The last time I checked I wasn't the one with it... Learn to address people nicely..
A typical African man/woman will go through hell at d hands of the parents just to marry his/her choice against the parent's wishes...then when he/she becomes a parent..he/she will also give the kids hell to prevent them from marrying their own choices as well... and u tell me Africans rent inherently wicked?

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by habsydiamond(m): 7:56pm On Mar 26, 2021
Robertgreene1:
Afrifans will go through hell just to marry his/her choice against the parent's wishes...then when he/she becomes a parent
nothing good comes from marrying without parents consent other than enmity... I don't think that's good for a healthy relationship.

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by ThiagoKid(m): 8:00pm On Mar 26, 2021
dauddy97:

she suggested this but, why should I do such when I'm even yet to graduate nor start working
you never even graduate finish and yet, ya already thinking about marriage?
It's well with your soul bro grin

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by dauddy97(m): 8:15pm On Mar 26, 2021
gfon:
you never graduate?? Oga leave love and face achievements
I am aged. just not a graduate

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by dauddy97(m): 8:16pm On Mar 26, 2021
ThiagoKid:
you never even graduate finish and yet, ya already thinking about marriage?
It's well with your soul bro grin
I think I need it. My parents are asking for it

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by mosdii(m): 8:49pm On Mar 26, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Firstorderwizard(m): 8:59pm On Mar 26, 2021
I see

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by DEMZEE(m): 9:02pm On Mar 26, 2021
Dump the bitch and focus on yasef dude

Bitches are plenty in the world

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Kirkman: 10:26pm On Mar 26, 2021
Freestainworld:
Just get her pregnant, her mother will beg you to come pay for her bride price.

Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by Nobody: 10:28pm On Mar 26, 2021
dauddy97:
After so many years, I finally found a beautiful girl with good character and loving. who have promised to stay and get married to me.

we started well and her parents (mum) was in support but she said, she has to pray over it which up till now, no result.

Still didn't mind, we continue our relationship. my both parents know her very well and are also in support.
just a sudden, her mother change attitude towards her that, "you can't marry that guy".
She told me, and still yet she said she can't just leave me of which I can't leave her too.

she was in my house today and when she left, her mum called me and she said, "You can't marry my daughter as your our parents will want you to marry someone better, that I should pray I marry my own wife, someone who will support and be good to me".

I was so surprised and I told her, I was planning to visit her but when will she be available. she said she can't be available now but she will get back to me on Monday.

now,
should I tell my parents of the situation at hand?
I love her and she loves me too, what can I do?
should we take laws into our hands and let her mum be?
what can I even tell her even if she agrees to meet me by next week?
pls, who has been in this situation before and how did you manage it. did you leave her or what did you do.

lalasticlala
If Both Of U Are Ready, Den Take Laws Into Ur Hands.

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by FashionCapital(m): 11:49pm On Mar 26, 2021
Without mincing words ...That woman had probably checked into your future and guess what (it was blank!!).telling you this from someones experience .women are fetish ,they consult Oracle for virtually anything(AND HER FED LIES)...

SOLUTION
1.dont break up but expect less from the relationship ( if you can ,find another kpele for side )
1.1 make money
2. make money
3. make money
4. keep making money
5. Never stop making money
5.5 . Pay her a visit and pepper them (her family ). ��...
JESU A WA PELU E O

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by odun51587: 1:07am On Mar 27, 2021
:you never graduate?? Oga leave love and face achievementsI am aged. just not a graduate

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by moyosore32: 1:43am On Mar 27, 2021
oga is like me I'll wait till next Monday the Mom in law said she'll be available before I make my comments

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Re: What Should I Do; Her Parents Said No But We Still Love One Another by dauddy97(m): 7:08am On Mar 27, 2021
FashionCapital:
Without mincing words ...That woman had probably checked into your future and guess what (it was blank!!).telling you this from someones experience .women are fetish ,they consult Oracle for virtually anything(AND HER FED LIES)...

SOLUTION
1.dont break up but expect less from the relationship ( if you can ,find another kpele for side )
1.1 make money
2. make money
3. make money
4. keep making money
5. Never stop making money
5.5 . Pay her a visit and pepper them (her family ). ��...
JESU A WA PELU E O


Bro, I appreciate your comment. I think she has been fed with lies. Anyway, It's well.

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