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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by mosdii(m): 6:26am On Apr 09, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Babysho(m): 1:24pm On Apr 09, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

I love your works sir. You're doing big big things for the Nigerian male community. Wole Soyinka no do pass like this.

You have yourself a fan sir.

Nigerian Girls Are You Useless....All Of Them

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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by AlphaTaikun: 8:55am On Nov 22, 2022
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Taking to social media to narrate her experience, Jane revealed that the man blatantly declined to pay for what she ate, saying he would only settle his own bill.



A Nigerian lady identified as Jane on Twitter has lamented after she went on a date with a man and he told her he can't pay for what she ate.

Taking to social media to narrate her experience, Jane revealed that the man blatantly declined to pay for what she ate, saying he would only settle his own bill.

She revealed that she only requested for a plate of fish pepper soup, grilled chicken, rice and drinks.

The lady shared;


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"@OtuStephanie1: An Igbo guy I went on a movie date with…..buh it was fine cause I paid for 2 different movies that day, and he paid for his too………when the date was done, I blocked him everywhere. It’s no crime if he tells me to come with my money, imagine I wasn’t with my card.

@EginOfficial: This should have been agreed upon before setting out. What if you don’t have cash on you?

@white_wears: Lol. Why invite her on a date if you can’t pay for her food. Except she ate too much tho. Is it not normal?

@blaqcrystal_: That’s why you need money and you eat what you can pay for, no be every guy get sense"

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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by AlphaTaikun: 9:00am On Nov 22, 2022
WoundedLamb:
Please, don't go out of your way to invite someone for a date and then ask them to pay after eating. That's not being smart. That's just outdoing yourself. If you have financial constraints, find a way to say it ahead of the date (or signal when they start ordering beyond what you can afford). This way, the invited party would know to take a bottle of water or come with thier money if they must eat more (or even decide not to come if hunger is their problem). It's a different thing if you guys agreed to meet somewhere for a chat and then they start eating like they haven't seen food in a long time. But if you asked them to join you for lunch/dinner, then you've assumed the positon of the host (similar to inviting someone to your place). Don't invite them where they wouldn't normally go to eat and then ask them to pay afterwards. This isn’t a matter of entitlement, it's just courtesy.

Now, as the invited party, do NOT ever go out with someone empty handed, always go with your card. And again, do not order what you can't pay for. If the place is too expensive, look at the person that invited you and try not spend more than they're spending on themselves.
Nicely put.

That's a basic rule of social etiquette.

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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by benqo01(m): 9:38am On Nov 22, 2022


So how did they find themselves in a food arena and not a beach? If they didn't set out to eat?

You can't defend this guy though and through. He was wrong. Admit it!

Shut up there,he has the right to defend the guy,ladies prove to be always smart any slight opportunity they want to eat the whole world entitlement shit!!!! That serves her right she even use the word 'JUST' if na 'JUST'why she no fit pay?...she dn see mumu rubbish she go die ni

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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by benqo01(m): 9:41am On Nov 22, 2022
The mumu still dey ask is it too much? No it is not why u no pay am? Some girls re just too hungry every date for their eye na to chop wetin Dem Neva chop before for their life

If she pay will she die in the process,for person money u dey talk rubbish.

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