JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

Easy tell the girl to go do a test, but I doubt it is HIV, you are just panicking. Don't cheat it is not worth it.

habsydiamond:
The human mind is very delicate atimes.. If works with ur body because of ur guilt to make u think u have the disease whereas u may not even when u are seeing some symptoms... Ur guilt can push u to depression if u are not careful... Go and test urself and be relieved.... If u have it start medication, if u don't desist from such act cos ur wife does not deserve such for her decency. Zip up op

e don tey wey I see this meme

JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

Bro, your story quite like mine. And I vow to God if I come out negative, I won't do such again. After falling sick for 2 weeks with strong malaria symptoms , I went for test and It came out negative, since then I can't play Kite with my life and family life oo.
Pls go to the hospital, you are absolutely negative. It just of the state of mind and conscience bothering you.
Pls don't sin no more. Its not worth it.

JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

You dont have HIV brody. Chill out ! The exposure is too short a time for the virus to transfer. Esp as the man penetrating the girl. Would be different if u were at the receiving end of an MSM instance. It'll take a special case for that to happen.

The other reason is that it is not normal to have symptoms within a week(more like 2 to 4 weeks, to be sustained for several weeks). You're stressing a lot. Go get tested and talk to a doc. Btw, u messed up. Figure out how to talk to ur wife. If u dont tell her, u should still try to perform ur duties at home and make her feel ur presence (don't be distant). Now u see how much u could lose with "[insert] minutes" pleasure.

God bless you and ur fam.

JovialJune:
What is the significance of telling us she is a deeper life girl? To cast negativity on the church as a whole? Or to paint ladies from that church as immoral forgetting she's just an individual among many? Why not also tell us her tribe so we'd know you're not only a d*g, but also a bigot.

In other words, u be deeper life babe too

JungleJustice01:

I don't mean to stereotype her denomination. Deeper life members strike me as meek and reserved. It was one of the characteristics that attracted me to her in the first place.

So ur sexual fantasy is knifing a meek babe . Ahhhhh!!!! e don clear for my eye now

Bro, the honourable thing you've done is acknowledging your fault on the issue. Never mind anybody condemning you here for non is perfect. You've done wrong and have made amends. Pls, kindly hold yourself and avoid any intercourse with your wife till after 6 months. This is better done by relocating to your place of work and find excuse while you wouldn't be at home for some months because you've no genuine excuse of denying her the marital right if constantly at home with them. God knows you meant well for her and so will give her understanding to bear with you on the excuse, while you wait to confirm your status after 6 months.

Also, if by chance it comes out positive, my bro it's not the end of life, there's a big time hope. All you need to do is to take your drugs regularly and observe the Dr's precautionary measures, within 6 months on the drug you should be ok to meet your wife for procreation. And before then; you must find a way to let her no the situation through a Dr. who would counsel her that she's still safe with you preferably you observe the directives given in protecting others.

Summarily, pls done fall prey to this kind of temptation again.

May God be with you and your family. Amen!

Regards.

JungleJustice01:


Sore throat, flu, muscle aches, lymph node enlargement. These are signs of a viral infection and they show up 1 -2 weeks after exposure.

I'll go for a test tomorrow, secretly. I've made peace with myself, it's telling my wife that's the issue. This home I hold dear will definitely scatter over a 5 minute one day stand.

Nazgul:

Op take this advice...if at all you have HIV, it will still be on window period, so you're most likely going to test negative if you decide to go to the hospital.

The best thing to do is to call the girl in question and take her to the hospital for test...then prepare yourself for whatever the outcome will be.

So the lesson in this story is "beware of meek looking ladies"

Red card straight, men stop womanizer.

Deeper Life.... Humm

JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

You are not serious. How can you say you have symptoms of HIV within 24 hours of sex? You need at least 3 months before you can be tested at all. And symptoms of AIDS can come after 10 years roughly. You are lying, right?

[quote author=JungleJustice01 post=100552822]I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice [/quote

Oga, you no carry anything joor, your mind is ficking you up big time, go to test and your result will come out negative, watch out how all these symptoms will disappear, na so fear wan kee me that time,sleep comot for my eyes kpatakpata, even sweat for night, you no even include that one sef

JungleJustice01:


Sore throat, flu, muscle aches, lymph node enlargement. These are signs of a viral infection and they show up 1 -2 weeks after exposure.

I'll go for a test tomorrow, secretly. I've made peace with myself, it's telling my wife that's the issue. This home I hold dear will definitely scatter over a 5 minute one day stand.

yes you have HIV period .
Please don't Bleep your wife ,most hiv infected men are in the habit of infecting their wives the moment they are aware of their status. I know one like that.

Again be a man and ask the so called deeper life lady if she knew her status . Or just visit her house without notice and stylishly scan around for her hiv drugs ...



Again be ready for a divorce . That's not the end of life . You will find preety HIV +ve ladies in your new community

What are the symptoms of HIV after a week oga? Ena go just dey lie put for here for only God knows y...

Ignorant Foool. Was there any need of mentioning name of Church?

cchub:

The OP shouldn't use a lie to cover up another lie.

Of what benefit is telling her the truth?

Do you think it would make her feel any better,knowing the truth?

If he has HIV,he has it,telling her he got it sleeping with a girl would only make things worse..

The truth is not always the best policy..

JungleJustice01:


Sore throat, flu, muscle aches, lymph node enlargement. These are signs of a viral infection and they show up 1 -2 weeks after exposure.

I'll go for a test tomorrow, secretly. I've made peace with myself, it's telling my wife that's the issue. This home I hold dear will definitely scatter over a 5 minute one day stand.

Oga HIV takes much longer to surface.

You need to be corrected here , that you had a 25mins One Stand with an innocent young woman without make-over and accessories should not be termed 'DEEPERLIFE', there are so many churches that stands with the 'no Make-over look', and moreover she might be a TRUE LovePeddler just to lure you into her Honey pot .... Women could change their characters in getting WHAT THEY WANT ... Do take note and don't forget Delilah in the bible .....
I will state here that a little abstinence from sex during pregnancy prevents you from the unnecessary HBP,GUILT and RESTLESSNESS ....

JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

immune deficiency cannot be contracted through sex, neither is it caused by a virus. Check urself for other infections. If you like go and take AZT ARV, these drugs will kill you in the long run.

You can't have HIV symptoms in a week OP! I highly doubt you can get HIV within a minute of exposure. Besides who told you HIV can be contacted so easily?

JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

HIV infection symptoms in just a week. Oga your little mind is playing trick on you. You are only feeling guilty which is normal been your first time at infidelity. At this point you need to be focus because what is happening to you now is your mind trying to make just of the act, it will either make you or break. I pray it makes you a better man to your wife not break you into serial womaniser. Focus OP focus and stop thinking of imaginary infection that can not even be detected in just a week.

HarunaWest:

It isn't you that should run a test yet..Take the 23 year old Deeeeeeeeper Life for an STD panel....Every possible test should be carried out on her...Her result will determine your fate...Goodluck

this will expose him further into infidelity because once the test is negative, his side chick is a seal deal. I will net suggest him seeing that lady again for anything . trust me

op your story is fake, can't waste my advice

JungleJustice01:


Sore throat, flu, muscle aches, lymph node enlargement. These are signs of a viral infection and they show up 1 -2 weeks after exposure.

I'll go for a test tomorrow, secretly. I've made peace with myself, it's telling my wife that's the issue. This home I hold dear will definitely scatter over a 5 minute one day stand.

My brother,, there's 75% you're not infected....
The mind most times generate fears to make us fall into more mess,I have been into that mess before and later went for a test and the result came out negative

JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

eeyah, sorry ooo.

michlins:
Bro my advice to you now is because you owned your shit and that means you're on the road to responsibility.


Go to lab and get tested. The mind has a way of projecting illnesses that are non-existent into the body. If you confirm that you're a carrier, let your wife know. Your means of exposure can remain a secret. Tell her you helped an accident victim or anything

HAHAHA.....UR NOT SERIOUS?

DAT NA ONE CHANCE!UR ON UR OWN!!!

The O.P. is a fool- He mentioned the girl's church without mentioning his own just to tarnish the image of that church.

O.P. is a cursed man and that was why he fornicated for a lame excuse of a pregnant wife. A pregnant wife can be 'entered' through the back or dog style. Instead of going for a test he came to Nairaland soliciting for pity. May God forgive you for luring that girl into sin after all she did not force you and you knew you were married before approaching her.

Nice advise but you don be master in the coding or are you working with Lai Mohamed?

michlins:
Bro my advice to you now is because you owned your shit and that means you're on the road to responsibility.


Go to lab and get tested. The mind has a way of projecting illnesses that are non-existent into the body. If you confirm that you're a carrier, let your wife know. Your means of exposure can remain a secret. Tell her you helped an accident victim or anything

Abi you don get corona and you now thinking it's hiv. Bro check yourself in a hospital for confirmation.

Every saint looking person is referred to as Jehovah Witness


Meaning despite the angelic looks/ attitude she still infected him with the virus.

Be calming down

adelafe2019:
The O.P. is a fool- He mentioned the girl's church without mentioning his own just to tarnish the image of that church.

O.P. is a cursed man and that was why he fornicated for a lame excuse of a pregnant wife. A pregnant wife can be 'entered' through the back or dog style. Instead of going for a test he came to Nairaland soliciting for pity. May God forgive you for luring that girl into sin after all she did not force you and you knew you were married before approaching her.