Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,208,601 members, 8,003,082 topics. Date: Friday, 15 November 2024 at 07:10 AM

Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice (1104 Views)

Man Cries Out For Advice Over His New Wife's Habit Of Begging Strangers For Food / Only Fools Marry For Love, Wise Men Marry.... / Hmmm... I Know I'll Soon Be Killed But Sadly I Can't Prevent It (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by vybzkartel: 4:31pm On Apr 07, 2021
I have this lady friend, who is actually married. She has told me she loves me and wants to get down with me. I am not interested and have told her.

The problem is, she keeps texting and calling me. I feel bad ignoring her calls and texts,

I feel bad destroying the friendship because of her desires

Please, how do I handle this without destroying my friend ship with her? Is engaging her on the phone on normal discussions bad of me? Thank you
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by MansoryMX(m): 4:34pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:

I have this lady friend, who is actually married. She has told me she loves me and wants to get down with me. I am not interested and have told her.

The problem is, she keeps texting and calling me. I feel bad ignoring her calls and texts,

I feel bad destroying the friendship because of her desires

Please, how do I handle this without destroying my friend ship with her? Is engaging her on the phone on normal discussions bad of me? Thank you


The first sentence I read alone is all I need to give you an advice. Flee like Joseph in the Bible. If you don’t understand English, lemme break it down. Bro run for your dear life! Sleeping with a married woman should be the last thing for you as a man to imagine. Cut off the friendship even if she is financially assisting you and run for your dear life, don’t allow anyone deceive you by telling you shagging a married woman is sweet, it’s a curse and can lead to your untimely death!

4 Likes 2 Shares

Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by lilvicky68(m): 4:36pm On Apr 07, 2021
Before you know you go enter gobe..leave the married woman alone..if she can't just be friends she should go..
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by ihimiray(m): 4:36pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:

I have this lady friend, who is actually married. She has told me she loves me and wants to get down with me. I am not interested and have told her.

The problem is, she keeps texting and calling me. I feel bad ignoring her calls and texts,

I feel bad destroying the friendship because of her desires

Please, how do I handle this without destroying my friend ship with her? Is engaging her on the phone on normal discussions bad of me? Thank you
like my dad will say. Avoid anything to do with a married woman... Don't kill yourself cos of a few minutes pleasure
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by vybzkartel: 4:38pm On Apr 07, 2021
lilvicky68:
Before you know you go enter gone..leave the married woman alone[b]..if she can't just be friends she [/b]should go..


Should I avoid her calls?
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by donbachi(m): 4:39pm On Apr 07, 2021
U better dis very friendship.i mean,dis very friendship.before it will destroy u..put ur future and wat bible and ur culture says about sleeping another man's wife first and not ur friendship.cos anyday u mistakenly find urself in a room with dat woman.just know sey e don be.no give devil a chance.
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Papertrails(m): 4:39pm On Apr 07, 2021
She is married and you are a young man still planning out your future so don't let a two minutes pleasure give you something you will always regret in life and wish you never did, or just imagining you are her husband and another young boy like you is seeking advice wether to kpensh your wife or not to.

You should understand that 95% of women married/single are like children, you don't always give them what they want rather you give them what they need.




RUN LIKE YOU SAW A GHOST
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by lilvicky68(m): 4:41pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:



Should I avoid her calls?
Tell her you don't want anything between the two of you.if she can't just be friends... then she should avoid you..
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by vybzkartel: 4:43pm On Apr 07, 2021
Papertrails:
She is married and you are a young man still planning out your future so don't let a two minutes pleasure give you something you will always regret in life and wish you never did, or just imagining you are her husband and another young boy like you is seeking advice wether to kpensh your wife or not to.

You should understand that 95% of women married/single are like children, you don't always give them what they want rather you give them what they need.

Please, read the post well. I don't seek advise to sleep with her, No. I am never going to do that. My question is, should I refuse to communicate with her at all? I am currently refusing her calls but I feel bad for her
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Nobody: 4:43pm On Apr 07, 2021
Young man, run away from the bed of a married woman even if it means burning down a bridge of friendship with her. Don't even think twice about it.
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Papertrails(m): 4:47pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:


Please, read the post well. I don't seek advise to sleep with her, No. I am never going to do that. My question is, should I refuse to communicate with her at all? I am currently refusing her calls but I feel bad for her

see if she does not agree to being ordinary friends with you then you have to cut every damn connection you have with that portifer's wife....

she wants to destroy you

But wait.......this your moniker ehhhh.....e get as e be, it reminds me of that track " beg me a fvck" grin
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by vybzkartel: 4:51pm On Apr 07, 2021
Papertrails:


see if she does not agree to being ordinary friends with you then you have to cut every damn connection you have with that portifer's wife....

she wants to destroy you

But wait.......this your moniker ehhhh.....e get as e be, it reminds me of that track " beg me a Bleep"

What is the meaning of E GET AS E BE?
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Papertrails(m): 4:56pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:


What is the meaning of E GET AS E BE?

That reggae artist na only bleep bleep full him head grin,
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by lathrowinger: 4:56pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:

I have this lady friend, who is actually married. She has told me she loves me and wants to get down with me. I am not interested and have told her.

The problem is, she keeps texting and calling me. I feel bad ignoring her calls and texts,

I feel bad destroying the friendship because of her desires

Please, how do I handle this without destroying my friend ship with her? Is engaging her on the phone on normal discussions bad of me? Thank you

My own case na divorcee she be... She want that stuff from me. But I want us to be friends & sistersbrothers
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Qatar2022: 5:01pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:

I have this lady friend, who is actually married. She has told me she loves me and wants to get down with me. I am not interested and have told her.

The problem is, she keeps texting and calling me. I feel bad ignoring her calls and texts,

I feel bad destroying the friendship because of her desires

Please, how do I handle this without destroying my friend ship with her? Is engaging her on the phone on normal discussions bad of me? Thank you
You just want to sleep with another man's wife if not why will you feel bad ignoring her and if you do it you will love to regret it because you won't have peace in your marriage
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Babayega1: 5:11pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:

I have this lady friend, who is actually married. She has told me she loves me and wants to get down with me. I am not interested and have told her.

The problem is, she keeps texting and calling me. I feel bad ignoring her calls and texts,

I feel bad destroying the friendship because of her desires

Please, how do I handle this without destroying my friend ship with her? Is engaging her on the phone on normal discussions bad of me? Thank you
Bro just talk say death dey make kebab for you.
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by debbydams(f): 5:22pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:



Should I avoid her calls?
see question undecided..bro flee!
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Jacksparrow7(m): 6:39pm On Apr 07, 2021
Brother, flee like Joseph. Do not turn back like Lots' wife. Till the Kingdom come, discontinue that friendship of a thing. Block her number am eliminate it from your phone log
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by AwesomeStormy00(m): 6:56pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:

I have this lady friend, who is actually married. She has told me she loves me and wants to get down with me. I am not interested and have told her.

The problem is, she keeps texting and calling me. I feel bad ignoring her calls and texts,

I feel bad destroying the friendship because of her desires

Please, how do I handle this without destroying my friend ship with her? Is engaging her on the phone on normal discussions bad of me? Thank you

@vybzkartel are you single? Do you have girlfriend? Does your girlfriend know her? Does she know your girlfriend? Is she giving you money or any financial assistance? And lastly be honest DO YOU HAVE SEXUAL FEELINGS FOR HER??


Answer all these questions above and i will advice yoi
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Monogamy: 7:01pm On Apr 07, 2021
My brother, this one fine, this one nice, this one beautiful na him make mad man carry load....

Seh you yourself no fit comot eyes and mind from the said married woman...
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by gbolagunte81693: 9:30pm On Apr 07, 2021
Young man, run away from the bed of a married woman even if it means burning down a bridge of friendship with her. Don't even think twice about it.
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Intoboy(m): 10:06pm On Apr 07, 2021
vybzkartel:

I have this lady friend, who is actually married. She has told me she loves me and wants to get down with me. I am not interested and have told her.

The problem is, she keeps texting and calling me. I feel bad ignoring her calls and texts,

I feel bad destroying the friendship because of her desires

Please, how do I handle this without destroying my friend ship with her? Is engaging her on the phone on normal discussions bad of me? Thank you

yhu wantu please others and displease yourself...
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:43am On Apr 08, 2021
vybzkartel

You've got all the advice you need up there, the first two answers are great - any friendship that will make you compromise isn't worth it. Block her, simple
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by boxer022(m): 7:18am On Apr 08, 2021
There is no easy way of doing this. Let me give you two choices and then you desire which one suits you best. Firstly, you give into her desire of getting down with you, have it at the back of your mind that it will not only be that once which you did so but it will be a start to a sexual relationship in which you will look for available places to do the deed. This in turn will turn out to be a sugar mama arrangement, which if continued will lead to a serious fight in her marital home as she will be comparing you in her mind to her husband. It will also lead to a broken home and I can say with all certainty that you will also abandon her to get faith. Not forgetting that it may lead to a deadly risk on your life as you don't know her husband and his capabilities. He may out of anger have both of you killed. Secondly you don't give in to her desire, sighting the marriage as a reason for your unwillingness to do such a thing, it will lead to the end of the said friendship you have with her, also hurting her feelings. You are now to make your choice on what you want to do about it.
Re: Hmmm, Wise Men Needed For Advice by Quality20(m): 9:06am On Apr 08, 2021
God sent prophets to guide us. There is a well documented case of this ur issue in d christian n muslim holybooks and u knew how the prophet handled it, so why are u now seeking answers elsewhere? you want bad guys to give u satanic whisperings or what?

(1) (Reply)

Where Is This Nairalander?? (PICTURES) / Drama As Two Ladies Fight Dirty Over A Man - They Nearly Killed Each Other / BAE Prefers Masturbation Than Sex

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 46
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.