Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Onebaddest01: 1:41am On Apr 14, 2021 |
The foolish girls dem talk say na married men penis sweet pass...ehn ehn 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by victme1(m): 1:46am On Apr 14, 2021 |
sapphiere: Thank you so much for being with 90% of women to know that they sleep with married men. Thank you once again for living in the mind of every girl that has slept with a married man to know their reasons for sleeping with married men.
And for the mod that brought this useless thread to frontpage, thank you so much.
Sapphire! Are you a LASU product 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by bluefilm: 1:47am On Apr 14, 2021 |
Na today?
Why is this OP presenting this shit as if na today nyash begin dey for back?
Sugar Daddy relationships started from time immemorial.
The best you can do as a sugar daddy is to enjoy all the young pussys you're getting while your dîck can still rise.
Dasal. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by oloshun(m): 1:50am On Apr 14, 2021 |
Michelle55: Why deprive herself peace of mind by dating a married when she can easily grab her own man? perhaps it's only few of these ladies that sees married men as leftovers no matter how wealthy they are. Food wey her fellow woman don chop finish na im she go open eyes carry the crumbs dey flex, e no gel at all Shey her life dey reject new chassis ni? ![](/faces/huh.png)
But on a serious note : Ladies date married men for different reasons and here are some of the reasons:
Dating a married man is less demanding Most single women are single for a reason, like their career or other personal issues,a married man doesn’t have many demands when it comes to his mistress and this arrangement suits most modern independent single women very well. Both get what they want from the relationship, he is not too demanding on her time or he doesn’t interfere when she is hanging out with her friends or going on trips with colleagues. He also needs to give time at home and he is okay as long as the affair is on but doesn’t become too demanding.
Financial stability As compared to single men, most married ones have a financial plan in place to secure their family financially, these married men are already running their domestic life smoothly. The single woman finds this trait of the married man being the provider of the family very irresistible, he can also provide her with what she wants and that works out great for her.
To boost her self-esteem A woman feels more pretty and desirable when she is dating a married man When a married man showers his affection on the single woman, she feels powerful and her self-esteem gets the desired boost. If a man is making efforts to be with her rather than his wife, that means probably she is prettier and more desirable, she may feel like a God-sent angel who provides emotional and physical support to the man who has a miserable life back home.
Maturity and experience makes them attractive Married men deal with different complexities of life far more maturely than a single guy. Be it handling in-laws or parental duties, married men are already experienced to handle any unforeseen circumstances. They are less clingy and more understanding. They are experienced both in life and in bed and single women find that very attractive that’s why women date married men.
High-risk high returns A married man takes a huge risk while dating a single woman,this risk reveals his level of deep commitment to her. A man will only put his social credibility at stake for something that he is really passionate about, he thereby creates a mesmerising illusion of how intensely he desires her; in the bargain the single woman gets whatever she asks for.
They are just jealous and immoral There are some single women who are just jealous of another woman’s happy home. Sometimes this jealousy reaches an extent where they get immoral and go all out to destroy the happily married couple. They are narcissistic, at times ready to use sex as a tool to lure the married man and then can even blackmail him to get what they want.
At the end of the day, just do what makes you happy and if you have decided that it's dating married men and sleeping with married women that brings you joy, just carry on.
Op, I think it's time you guys allow the female gender to rest.
I have never read an eloquently written opinion like this on NL. Where have you been? I would love to read more of your opinions. You must be author because apart from experience, your grammatical craft is amazing. You should save this in case topics like this arises in the future. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by majamajic(m): 1:58am On Apr 14, 2021 |
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Even with wedding rings , no problem |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by majamajic(m): 2:00am On Apr 14, 2021 |
sapphiere: Thank you so much for being with 90% of women to know that they sleep with married men. Thank you once again for living in the mind of every girl that has slept with a married man to know their reasons for sleeping with married men.
And for the mod that brought this useless thread to frontpage, thank you so much.
So this is what u have to say ?
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Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by etrange: 3:11am On Apr 14, 2021 |
You guys won't have any solution until you stop pretending and face the reality. Married men leave their wives at home to chase after little girls. We know these men are the cheats here but we'd rather concentrate on the girls cause we're in Nigeria where men are never reprimanded. All of you have shamelessly gathered to call girls names while ignoring the men who are the ones breaking their marriage vows. Sexism makes seemingly intelligent people illogical. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by 1Sharon(f): 3:27am On Apr 14, 2021 |
What about the women who are dumb enough to believe he'll leave his wife for them? 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by NovusHomo(m): 3:31am On Apr 14, 2021 |
robosky02: Most girls of nowadays sleep with married men, it has become so rampant and so bad that I can put the statistics at around 90%. And the worst part is they actually enjoy doing it, and most of them do it because of money (sugar daddy tinz), some do it because it's a no "commitment" relationship that gives them the pleasures of a normal relationship but without accountability and policing that normal boyfriends do.
A married man doesn't have time or moral justification to be checking or monitoring her life whether she is cheating or not, after all he is a cheat too, so they enjoy being cheats together without condemning themselves. So she has her "freedom" intact while she is sleeping with a married man. They also do it because of social connections, because generally the married man is older and might have a social network that she can connect with for other benefits besides sex, like job connections or business connections.
Some girls do it because of ego, they are egomaniacs but because their boyfriends are alpha males too and won't lick their shoes or kiss their ass, they run to a married man that will worship and pamper her emotionally with sweet words and call her queen all the time and fill her head with adulation and adoration lies, while she gives him the cookie jar to eat for being a good boy unlike her dictator boyfriend that dictates to her all the time.
But the WORST ONES, are the girls that just do it for the THRILL of it. These ones are natural psychos, with twisted minds. THEY SLEEP WITH MARRIED MEN FOR FUN, for the fun of making themselves feel higher and better than his wife, for the fun of feeling they are too beautiful and can snatch any man they want from any woman, and for the fun of watching another woman suffer as she makes her man choose her over the wife or the fun of feeling good about a man rejecting his wife because of her..................... Fear women, after devil, na dem You need a purpose for your life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by NovusHomo(m): 3:32am On Apr 14, 2021 |
robosky02: Most girls of nowadays sleep with married men, it has become so rampant and so bad that I can put the statistics at around 90%. And the worst part is they actually enjoy doing it, and most of them do it because of money (sugar daddy tinz), some do it because it's a no "commitment" relationship that gives them the pleasures of a normal relationship but without accountability and policing that normal boyfriends do.
A married man doesn't have time or moral justification to be checking or monitoring her life whether she is cheating or not, after all he is a cheat too, so they enjoy being cheats together without condemning themselves. So she has her "freedom" intact while she is sleeping with a married man. They also do it because of social connections, because generally the married man is older and might have a social network that she can connect with for other benefits besides sex, like job connections or business connections.
Some girls do it because of ego, they are egomaniacs but because their boyfriends are alpha males too and won't lick their shoes or kiss their ass, they run to a married man that will worship and pamper her emotionally with sweet words and call her queen all the time and fill her head with adulation and adoration lies, while she gives him the cookie jar to eat for being a good boy unlike her dictator boyfriend that dictates to her all the time.
But the WORST ONES, are the girls that just do it for the THRILL of it. These ones are natural psychos, with twisted minds. THEY SLEEP WITH MARRIED MEN FOR FUN, for the fun of making themselves feel higher and better than his wife, for the fun of feeling they are too beautiful and can snatch any man they want from any woman, and for the fun of watching another woman suffer as she makes her man choose her over the wife or the fun of feeling good about a man rejecting his wife because of her..................... Fear women, after devil, na dem Trynna find a reason for a question that's as old as mankind? You need a purpose for your life. |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Fiscus105(m): 3:41am On Apr 14, 2021 |
DreamChaser1672: You guys just pull statistics out of your ass. 90%. Do you even know the meaning of that your 90%?
You guys on nairaland just revel in making it look like all Nigerian girls are so bad and they are all gold diggers who cheat around. You carry "Fear women" slogan for head as if we men are better. There are hardworking, focused and intelligent ladies out there. Yeah they have sex, but that doesn't mean they deserve all these names you call them. You guys cheat too, have sex with all the girls you like then come here to ruin girls' images. No one is innocent here, girls or boys or men or ladies or whoever. I am just sick of you guys stereotypes.
You don't like this comment of mine, find a nearby river and jump in. these are the post that one needs to ignore, very amazing that it finds its way to the front page . if you cross-check you will notice that the OP belongs to set of guys who find it difficult to date and have stable relationship with girls and result to blackmail girls, whoever girl dates is non of his problem, with my little findings ,many of nowadays ladies have realized that single guys don't want to settle down, they only use the term .....my future partner to have free sex, in fact, single guys hardly date girls for up to 2 months before dumping them and start hunting for new girls. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Nobody: 3:45am On Apr 14, 2021 |
Simple... it's because she's a wh0re. |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Midas01: 3:49am On Apr 14, 2021 |
You, your mother, father and every single male specimen is not only useless but worthless and will forever be. mosdii: Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Princedapace(m): 3:54am On Apr 14, 2021 |
Look at how you wrote it as if sleeping with married men is bad. All of u do think that everyone is a Christian and make your judgemneg on all based on your Christianity principles.
Only Christians don't support having other partners. If u can afford it, go for it.
I have also said it that married people can find love outside too. That someone is married doesn't mean that they can't find love or fun more from someone else. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by ruffDiamond: 4:12am On Apr 14, 2021 |
damn,but I'm really getting sick of this kinda topic ooo huh!how will this country ,even as useless as it is can ever progress with this kinda output from naija yoot oooo..everyday na woman or girl matter ehn!tmr ,one ldle low IQ go still come up with something like a rejoinder,counter - thread,etc like "is this why married .men love to f*ck single girl?" or why are today's naija punna too wide?haba ,guys,you can do better than this na!be like explorer, macjeeb and other intelligent guys here..we all know the girls are damn useless, let them use their live how dem want,what's da business? God knows I no dey look dem twice cos I can smell any desperado olosho from a kilometer away,so what's the use?let's dedicate our time learning something useful and valuable.. even bubu said him own wife strictly belong to za oza room meaning, bit"h will always gon be bitchh,z. move on! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Gzawjee(m): 4:15am On Apr 14, 2021 |
Well this is where we are.
Check my signature |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:08am On Apr 14, 2021 |
This topic is not an interesting one jare...
Na dem sabi ooh.
Wetin concern me.
Salam alaikum... ⭐ |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by xcuggsm(m): 5:32am On Apr 14, 2021 |
dam4sam:
Young Ladies love Married Men-die! Apart from Money, they are good in bed, very romantic, very caring, they listen attentively and can really make a young lady feel loved.
The truth of it all! 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by supereagle(m): 5:33am On Apr 14, 2021 |
robosky02: Most girls of nowadays sleep with married men, it has become so rampant and so bad that I can put the statistics at around 90%. And the worst part is they actually enjoy doing it, and most of them do it because of money (sugar daddy tinz), some do it because it's a no "commitment" relationship that gives them the pleasures of a normal relationship but without accountability and policing that normal boyfriends do.
A married man doesn't have time or moral justification to be checking or monitoring her life whether she is cheating or not, after all he is a cheat too, so they enjoy being cheats together without condemning themselves. So she has her "freedom" intact while she is sleeping with a married man. They also do it because of social connections, because generally the married man is older and might have a social network that she can connect with for other benefits besides sex, like job connections or business connections.
Some girls do it because of ego, they are egomaniacs but because their boyfriends are alpha males too and won't lick their shoes or kiss their ass, they run to a married man that will worship and pamper her emotionally with sweet words and call her queen all the time and fill her head with adulation and adoration lies, while she gives him the cookie jar to eat for being a good boy unlike her dictator boyfriend that dictates to her all the time.
But the WORST ONES, are the girls that just do it for the THRILL of it. These ones are natural psychos, with twisted minds. THEY SLEEP WITH MARRIED MEN FOR FUN, for the fun of making themselves feel higher and better than his wife, for the fun of feeling they are too beautiful and can snatch any man they want from any woman, and for the fun of watching another woman suffer as she makes her man choose her over the wife or the fun of feeling good about a man rejecting his wife because of her..................... Fear women, after devil, na dem Money and care too. |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Coronavirus1: 6:05am On Apr 14, 2021 |
valentineuwakwe: not only for fun but for the money and sometime protection involve...married men will never want to pregnant a young girl so as not to destroy his home simple. Not far from the truth fact check correct answer. |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Duplexxx: 6:09am On Apr 14, 2021 |
Na lie |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by lolipopandy(f): 6:33am On Apr 14, 2021 |
I wonder the kinda heart both parties have though, don't they feel guilty but na to pray for a good partner o faithful, loyal and honest cuz even boyfriend for we country dey cheat talk of less husband ![lipsrsealed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/lipsrsealed.png) |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Wickedfacts: 6:38am On Apr 14, 2021 |
majamajic: ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png)
Even with wedding rings , no problem Wedding rings are the greatest magnets of single girls to men. Enter anywhere females are, dress well and flash your wedding band, you will see those girls drooling. Rings show a man is unavailable and ladies always run after what they can never get. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by andycom(m): 6:38am On Apr 14, 2021 |
baralatie: it is the other way around though! it is the married men who initiate and chase after young girls Are you married? Do you have a nice car? 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by mrPero(m): 6:42am On Apr 14, 2021 |
thuxzwda1:
and anybody wey no fear woman.....fear am
Ride on Pastor... |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Olatara(f): 6:45am On Apr 14, 2021 |
DreamChaser1672: You guys just pull statistics out of your ass. 90%. Do you even know the meaning of that your 90%?
You guys on nairaland just revel in making it look like all Nigerian girls are so bad and they are all gold diggers who cheat around. You carry "Fear women" slogan for head as if we men are better. There are hardworking, focused and intelligent ladies out there. Yeah they have sex, but that doesn't mean they deserve all these names you call them. You guys cheat too, have sex with all the girls you like then come here to ruin girls' images. No one is innocent here, girls or boys or men or ladies or whoever. I am just sick of you guys stereotypes.
You don't like this comment of mine, find a nearby river and jump in. A married man will cheat on his wife, they (Nigerian men) will blame the concubine. A married woman will cheat on her husband, they will blame the woman. Who is sleeping with the hoes, prostitutes and lose wives? Blaming the wrong gender all the time won't solve your problems guys. 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Ub8956(m): 6:50am On Apr 14, 2021 |
baralatie: it is the other way around though! it is the married men who initiate and chase after young girls Do you think it's easy to maintain yourself as a girl? Every occasion going on now,look women outnumbered men and the competition is high. Some will do anything to be attractive even if it's to walk half naked, then those greedy men who can't focus on their wives will have no chance but bow to these beauties. It took God few minutes or even seconds to create man, it took several work, hours to create a woman. These people are special. Yes women love money,it makes them have confidence. Their rivals are follow women,so they must do anything to look special. Thank you. 1 Like
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Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by bonetalk(m): 6:54am On Apr 14, 2021 |
baralatie: it is the other way around though! it is the married men who initiate and chase after young girls It's the young girls that dress seductively to attract them. Men are easily attracted by what they see... Look around you there is seduction everywhere by these young ladies |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Yungmil: 6:56am On Apr 14, 2021 |
Michelle55: Why deprive herself peace of mind by dating a married when she can easily grab her own man? perhaps it's only few of these ladies that sees married men as leftovers no matter how wealthy they are. Food wey her fellow woman don chop finish na im she go open eyes carry the crumbs dey flex, e no gel at all Shey her life dey reject new chassis ni? ![](/faces/huh.png)
But on a serious note : Ladies date married men for different reasons and here are some of the reasons:
Dating a married man is less demanding Most single women are single for a reason, like their career or other personal issues,a married man doesn’t have many demands when it comes to his mistress and this arrangement suits most modern independent single women very well. Both get what they want from the relationship, he is not too demanding on her time or he doesn’t interfere when she is hanging out with her friends or going on trips with colleagues. He also needs to give time at home and he is okay as long as the affair is on but doesn’t become too demanding.
Financial stability As compared to single men, most married ones have a financial plan in place to secure their family financially, these married men are already running their domestic life smoothly. The single woman finds this trait of the married man being the provider of the family very irresistible, he can also provide her with what she wants and that works out great for her.
To boost her self-esteem A woman feels more pretty and desirable when she is dating a married man When a married man showers his affection on the single woman, she feels powerful and her self-esteem gets the desired boost. If a man is making efforts to be with her rather than his wife, that means probably she is prettier and more desirable, she may feel like a God-sent angel who provides emotional and physical support to the man who has a miserable life back home.
Maturity and experience makes them attractive Married men deal with different complexities of life far more maturely than a single guy. Be it handling in-laws or parental duties, married men are already experienced to handle any unforeseen circumstances. They are less clingy and more understanding. They are experienced both in life and in bed and single women find that very attractive that’s why women date married men.
High-risk high returns A married man takes a huge risk while dating a single woman,this risk reveals his level of deep commitment to her. A man will only put his social credibility at stake for something that he is really passionate about, he thereby creates a mesmerising illusion of how intensely he desires her; in the bargain the single woman gets whatever she asks for.
They are just jealous and immoral There are some single women who are just jealous of another woman’s happy home. Sometimes this jealousy reaches an extent where they get immoral and go all out to destroy the happily married couple. They are narcissistic, at times ready to use sex as a tool to lure the married man and then can even blackmail him to get what they want.
At the end of the day, just do what makes you happy and if you have decided that it's dating married men and sleeping with married women that brings you joy, just carry on.
Op, I think it's time you guys allow the female gender to rest.
is not about doing what makes you happy, but is about making sure it doesn't affect or disturb the peace and happiness of others. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by obstead200(m): 7:02am On Apr 14, 2021 |
Mrlcredible: you that slept with a married lecturer, got pregnant for him and still aborted and murdered the innocent baby. God will judge you actually I am inclined to believe this. The way the topic carry pain the babe is suggestive of something. |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by Michelle55: 7:04am On Apr 14, 2021 |
Yungmil: is not about doing what makes you happy, but is about making sure it doesn't affect or disturb the peace and happiness of others. Did I pen down anywhere that I'm dating one? Kindly highlight it for me if true. I only gave reasons why some ladies do that, besides do direct your advise to these ladies they need it more. Thank you! As for me, I don't exceed my boundaries and that includes married folks. |
Re: Reasons Young Girls Date Married Men? by obstead200(m): 7:05am On Apr 14, 2021 |
MenGoingThereWay: And most guys commenting here, when they come of age and have the money they will still sleep with small girls, cheat on their wife's with same kind of girls they are condemning now and the circle continues.... ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png)
- MenGoingThereWay true talk oooo. No need to judge anyone. Let everyone do what makes him happy. That's my own take. Dating married men is not even close to the greatest sin in the world. I don't even know why some people make it sound so abominable. Stealing, lying, scamming, back stabbing are all bigger sins as far as I am concerned. They eventually cause much more harm to the victims than ordinary sex.........I am not implying that dating married men is good. I am only trying to place it in the proper scale and perspective |