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Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Ladumaa: 10:16am On Apr 10, 2021 |
I love her so much and I wanna marry her.. But my only offence right now is that i went against the rules of my Church and slept with her.. According to them,( my church people) if you sleep with someone before marrying the person its an unforgivable offence by God and the marriage will not last.. They say I should find someone else I haven't slept with to marry Pls i want to know Gods stand on this, and i sincerely wanna do the right thing. is this true?.no insults pls |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by LeeSantos(m): 10:18am On Apr 10, 2021 |
This post is not coming from a Mature animal. no no no no. I doubt so. why are some persons obsessed with likes, view and comments here on NL. Na wah o 14 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Bornsinner7: 10:19am On Apr 10, 2021 |
LeeSantos:E tire me too 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by CandyOps(m): 10:21am On Apr 10, 2021 |
LeeSantos: I tire mehn.. so if me and babe blow, I go run go church to announce am to marriage committee? 17 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by MufasaLion: 10:24am On Apr 10, 2021 |
A post from a secondary school boy. Go and focus on your WAEC. ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by XXXXTENTACION: 10:25am On Apr 10, 2021 |
CandyOps:I swear stupid people everywhere. 5 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Kriss216: 10:28am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ask your pastor whether e wife na virgin when they marry. 13 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Jeon(f): 10:29am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ladumaa: check out my sigzy 1 Like |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Kriss216: 10:31am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Ladumaa: 10:36am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Sorry guys, I should've posted this in religion section ..no wonder all these insults.. |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Kayberg: 10:46am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ladumaa: So bro, who are you intending to hand your leftover to? Let me help you with a Bible portion that slams your selfish church beliefs on this case: Deuteronomy 22 (KJV) ¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯ ²⁸ If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; ²⁹ Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days. So Mr OP, go and marry that girl. You have humbled her. 13 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Ladumaa: 10:51am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Kayberg: very insightful.. 4 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by ThiagoKid(m): 10:56am On Apr 10, 2021 |
What is marriage when the bed is defiled; yes, am referring to you both! 1 Like |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Orubebe01: 11:03am On Apr 10, 2021 |
minors everywhere on nairaland 2 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Kyra1(f): 11:26am On Apr 10, 2021 |
God is a merciful God. So if you ask him to forgive you, he definitely will. You and your fiancée should pray together and ask God to forgive both of you, then go ahead with the marriage. You can still marry her. 3 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by yetunsbay(m): 1:40pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
U & dem dey kolo 1 Like |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Reex12(m): 2:42pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
Jeon:i think say you be feminist why do you need men to patronize you you change moniker to hustle ehn fati2001 why pls tell us |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by zolajpower: 2:43pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
![]() Marry her na |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Ladumaa: 2:57pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
ThiagoKid: So when the bed is defiled, the marriage shouldn't happen? ok thanks a lot |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Ladumaa: 3:00pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
Kyra1:ok..I appreciate.. But my church have refused to wed us. 1 Like |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by froze6(m): 3:02pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
So what should now haapen to the girl,because some people said |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by zed7: 5:03pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
Since you believe in your church doctrines, abide by their rules. Sensible people know that mistakes happen and wouldn't throw a good girl away because of sex that you'll still have when married. 4 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by FrozenBlaze: 5:21pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
God is everywhere, regardless of which building you worship him in. Yes, there are doctrines and rules your church follows. It was okay to you at first but now you broke them. There are so many growing churches that need members. Go to them and wed. Simple. 2 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Duplexxx: 5:27pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
If your Church is against it then change Church 4 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by jamiudarex(m): 5:32pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
This op na confirm wayray/ oloribu ![]() ![]() I'm damn sure you haven't graduate from secondary school ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by opey1(f): 8:19pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
God is ever ready to forgive, confess to Him and plead for mercy. Stop fornicating with the lady. Take the one that happened as a mistake, start afresh with her in a godly way, then plan your marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Kebbiprince: 8:33pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ladumaa:Go and take several seats. Nonsense Wish they do it to your sister. Stupid boy |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Kebbiprince: 8:34pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION:Not just stupid but mentally retardèd subhumans. What nonsense |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Kebbiprince: 8:36pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ladumaa:No matter where you post it the insults are still valid |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Pk01(m): 8:55pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
Bro...why will you even slept with a girl you intend to marry ? ..all this people shouting u re not man enough ,,,them don believe hell fire is real...there eyes will clear someday... seriously you Bleep up ...ask for her forgiveness and move on ... girls plenty for this world.. |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by tosik(m): 9:07pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
jamiudarex:the guy offended you b4??take am easy ma bro 2 Likes |
Re: Help a Brother!: Can I Still Marry Her?(Advice only) by Kyra1(f): 10:39pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ladumaa:Start attending another church. Or you can try to make them understand that if God has forgiven you guys, they should also forgive and let the wedding hold. 1 Like |
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