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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by PatrickOkunima(m): 4:00am On Apr 12, 2021
Lovethaa:



Lol. ... I'm no gold digging ... I'm from a wealthy family and apart from my own personal money I have inheritances ad a firstborn ... but I have decided not to marry from a broke family ........


yes I can't deal with such silly history... that is why u should be careful with every silly thing you do

You're from a wealthy family and you're desperately looking for a 15K job, while those of us from poor background are rejecting jobs of 70K. Does that make any sense?

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by iRepNaija1: 5:10am On Apr 12, 2021
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

First, how can you ask a woman (or man) point-blank to tell you about their past relationships and sex life? You're not even seeing each other yet. What was so pressing that you needed to know right then and there? You shouldn't be offended by the very thing you asked for.

Second, she was not introduced to sex. She was molested by her perverted, disgusting neighbor at 8 years old. Say it with me: she was sexually assaulted.

Third, she started having sex at 10 because she was sexually assaulted when she was 8. Most sexual abuse victims will act out the abuse they experience with other people.

The fact that she was willing to tell you this speaks volumes about her and her honesty. Because most people wouldn't dare say anything because of the shame, the judgment, and the disgust they would have for the victim, all the emotions you're experiencing now. Look at your post, it was all about what her confession made you feel. Not even one-bit empathy for her. You clearly don't care for her.

OP, you should feel weak because this girl who opened up to you was raped and sexually assaulted and no one came to her aid. You should feel sad because she couldn't even turn to her own mother for help because her mother would beat her and not the neighbor. You should feel shame that you called her sexual assault her "dirty past." God willing, you withdraw from her, she sees that you're judging her, that you're a trash human being and not worth her time, and she finds someone who will accept and love her for who she is.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Goldbw122(m): 5:29am On Apr 12, 2021
Just try to talk to her, this kind of girl will never leave you if you, are honest to get too... Communicate more on the issue and be mature about it..
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by bigpicture001: 5:38am On Apr 12, 2021
What's with guys and two weeks relationship they start shouting "I intend to marry her" MA so choices they easy this days

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kondomatic(m): 6:15am On Apr 12, 2021
Kebbiprince:

That's why I laugh when people insult older ladies, most ladies in their 30s are far purer than the so called Ladies in early 20s who have been damaged beyond repair
The ladies in their 30s were once in their 20s so WTF are you saying bro? Are you high?

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kondomatic(m): 6:17am On Apr 12, 2021
Ishilove:

Don't be unfortunate. You asked her to open up and she did, now you are coming here to yarn dust. It shows you are not emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship and I hope she kicks your goldigging ass to the dustbin
He's lying though.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 6:42am On Apr 12, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
And he might not find he Mary. Infact he might find someone worst because he too has to pay for for the abortions.

Lol, that's where you guys get it wrong. He might end up having a lovely family. Take a look at the politicians we swear and insult them everyday my dear they are still enjoying their lives getting older than those who swear.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by rex444(m): 6:49am On Apr 12, 2021
Maybe she's actually throwing lines to see how U would handle it.... Mr perfect ,dey dia dey judge better cross wey land for your laps.... Tho your story sounds cooked..
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by SPOLO(m): 6:53am On Apr 12, 2021
That lady needs a pyschologist because the trauma will be there. She is gonna have a high libido, she is surely a chronic masturbator...... I have met one like that

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by seanwilliam(m): 7:00am On Apr 12, 2021
Acidosis:
What no one has said here is that not everyone who tells the truth are actually truthful about the truth they claim to share. Don't be fooled. Just believe whatever you have heard and make your decision based on the level of info you have.

The fact that she told you she had done 4 abortions doesn't mean she's truthful. She may have done about 10. No be everybody dey tell absolute truth. Most of the truths we claim we share are actually half-truth.

This is actually one the most sensible comments under this topic.


Imagine some simps okoto mew mew.
Arrant nonsense! U don’t expect me to clean up another man’s mess. You already had four abortions at age 24.. this is totally disgusting and I will curse any brother that marries a public toilet like that ..


Y’all falling for a woman’s story , nawa o, no wonder most girls claim being raped after u discover they are not virgin , dem go sha get one uncle Wey rape dem when they are young..

Rubbish !


I wonder why men mostly fall for women trick.. see them calling the op a gold digger as if him no come from a wealthy background too ( according to him )..

Imagine a foôl up there comparing a women with countless dickering with a virgin .. na wao .. four abortions? I can’t even believe that .


If a naija girl tells u that she has 2 body count , pls. Multiply it by 3 atleast!


Radarada



And besides don’t even test me with such a disgusting story to see my reaction .. u fit tell your daddy such story as a lady to see his reaction ?

Nonsense , make we condemn nonsense attitude , una Dey here Dey form captain save the hoe . A sensible woman should be very careful of her sexual life...

@op the lady in question get problem , na tie she one tie u . Japa

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by seanwilliam(m): 7:08am On Apr 12, 2021
2elliot:
He asked her to be open, yeah?! But nobody bargains to hear a serial abortionist confess killing four babies, and having several sloppy, gaggling, tlop tlop with diff dicks.
and yet people are in support of the girl.. four abortions ? And u expect me to marry u outta pity? As if she go do that if reverse was the case.
Why must I pity u cos of your story as woman ..

God bless u bro

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by seanwilliam(m): 7:09am On Apr 12, 2021
pocohantas:


Lol. Must be a bot.
your blog no Dey load . Make I check out to cook something grin
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by FairlyUSEDpussy: 7:11am On Apr 12, 2021
Lovethaa:



Lol. ... I'm no gold digging ... I'm from a wealthy family and apart from my own personal money I have inheritances ad a firstborn ... but I have decided not to marry from a broke family ........


yes I can't deal with such silly history... that is why u should be careful with every silly thing you do


Op!!!just know u did nothings wrong if u don't marry her okay

Stop replying those manipulative vagina people up there.........infact u'd be surprised to know they still wouldn't allow there brothers get married to such lady..........

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kebbiprince: 7:18am On Apr 12, 2021
pocohantas:


Like the ladies in their 30s were never in their 20s. They jumped from 0 to 37. Who wan damage go damage.

I mean chaste ladies in their 30s

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kebbiprince: 7:18am On Apr 12, 2021
Kondomatic:
The ladies in their 30s were once in their 20s so WTF are you saying bro? Are you high?
Chaste ladies in their 30
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kebbiprince: 7:18am On Apr 12, 2021
ikillbrokegirls:

Elaborate.
Chaste ladies in their 30s

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by 2elliot: 7:28am On Apr 12, 2021
hucknall:
Speak for yourself o. If you don't know the truth, how will you dodge these kinds of bullets?
Why not a pleasant truth? At just 24yrs what is wrong with her truth being about how she has disciplined herself to be celibate and turned down several advances from men? How she picked a hobby in sport, writing or reading, or any productive stuff in order to be focused?

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by bmdmix3: 7:35am On Apr 12, 2021
Lovethaa:



What are you even saying... Countless sex 4 abortions.. just 24.... o wrong nau
u ask for a true story now u get it then u run online to expose her past, u think u are mature?

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Misterone: 7:39am On Apr 12, 2021
Lovethaa:




Who are you again.?
I am your conscience you prick.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Carlmax(m): 7:42am On Apr 12, 2021
booscy:
You Are You Perfect?

Your judgemental type makes people insecure and unable to trust people they love with their true story

He is not saying he is perfect, that's why he is admitting his weaknesses of not being able to handle her past... But honestly some people's past are just too much to handle... Talking about ladies and gentlemen.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Carlmax(m): 7:44am On Apr 12, 2021
FairlyUSEDpussy:



Op!!!just know u did not wrong if u don't marry her okay

Stop replying those manipulative vagina people up there.........they still would not allow there brothers marry such lady..........

Thank you jare.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by angelfallz(m): 7:46am On Apr 12, 2021
This does not make any sense. the ladies in their 30s, weren't they in their 20s before? From your comment, ladies in their 20s are very very impure, but when such ladies get to their 30s they become less impure?

Kebbiprince:

That's why I laugh when people insult older ladies, most ladies in their 30s are far purer than the so called Ladies in early 20s who have been damaged beyond repair

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by angelfallz(m): 7:48am On Apr 12, 2021
Find out as much as you can about the woman you want to settle down with. If you find out something you are not comfortable with, do the needful.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by lereinter(m): 7:55am On Apr 12, 2021
Are wealth status dey twinkle you Abi




Why won't she tell you, she's confident in her status

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by SweetCunt97(f): 8:02am On Apr 12, 2021
Lovethaa:




My brother that would not be my portion.... wish you what you wish me
Oya move on naw. You cant handle the truth, simply let her know.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by FairlyUSEDpussy: 8:12am On Apr 12, 2021
ReluctantAdult:
If you ever wanna know if your girl had an abortion, DM me. I'll tell you where to look. It's simple cool

Tell me bro......
Biko.......
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kebbiprince: 8:25am On Apr 12, 2021
angelfallz:
This does not make any sense. the ladies in their 30s, weren't they in their 20s before? From your comment, ladies in their 20s are very very impure, but when such ladies get to their 30s they become less impure?

I meant only pure ladies in their 30s

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Ayo2004: 8:41am On Apr 12, 2021
Op,don't let all these mumu feminists make u feel bad
U better run for your life grin

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Opak001(m): 9:03am On Apr 12, 2021
if she didn't tell you and you found out yourself,which will you prefer?.
we are imperfect,just try to let her understand your interest towards her was just a wind.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:24am On Apr 12, 2021
BiggyB242:


Lol, that's where you guys get it wrong. He might end up having a lovely family. Take a look at the politicians we swear and insult them everyday my dear they are still enjoying their lives getting older than those who swear.
Goodluck to him then. But he should not go about asking people about their past if he can't handle the truth.
Even those people with ugly pasts end up with better partners than those with beautiful past.
He doesn't deserve her in the first place or should I they are not for each other. Everyone deserve better.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by DaInferno(m): 9:32am On Apr 12, 2021
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything
peeshaun would advice,once u meet a new partner, forget about their pasts and focus on their present. Jesus on the other hand will say he without sin should cast the first stone...if she were from a poor family, the decision wouldn't be so hard for you to make would it? so you see, you ma na gold digger las las grin

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by hakeemhakeem(m): 9:40am On Apr 12, 2021
the ball is in your court but have this in mind your wife to be may be past worse than her.even commit worse things under your nose bro

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