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Re: So This Is Marriage? by Stainless2000: 12:55pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
The truth in marriage is summarize in this, marry ur 'best friend' , develop a forgiving spirit with ur spouse, accommodate ur spouse weak points(weaknesses) & finally involve divine assistance thro prayers. 2 Likes |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by DestroyEvil: 12:58pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Marriage is for the truly mature realistic imperfect persons, not for kids that want a perfect spouse that only exist in dream Land. 1 Like |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Bmaster(m): 1:08pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Richy4:so sad bro, I witnessed it ![]() ![]() That time when....nairaland was superb |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 1:11pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
AsherAmari: You've 4gotten that in as much as a man want to remain at home with his wife, the wife most often in time steal all the show. She controls the remote whenever a man want to watch tv, she monitor his call and seeks explanation at every calls received, she seeks man's contribution to house chores. To avoid all all these nilly-willy, we choose to seek alternatives. 1 Like |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Bmaster(m): 1:12pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
AsherAmari:e.g buhhari/aishhha marriage abi ![]() |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 1:12pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
robosky02: Well said! I'm actually giving you standing ovation here. One is bound to encounter challenges in marriage that will either make the unit stronger or weaken it. Like someone mentioned above, there is a right person for everyone. Some people are lucky to find the right person straightaway, some have to try a few times and some never find, not because the person is not out there, but because they haven't been lucky yet. Just like lottery, you never know if you will be lucky if you don't try it. Like the op said above, it's the small small things that can scatter marriage. Small petty, irritating and annoying things that slowly build up until it becomes larger than life. During that period the man or woman will have, in their head, arrested, prosecuted, and found the other person guilty. All in their head o. Punishment could be the man or woman deciding to move on from the other emotionally (he or she ain't got your back no more and would be fair game for another man or woman) or end the marriage. To the other person it will be like it just happened out of the blue, "we don't have any major issues, just normal husband and wife stuff?!" etc etc. It's the small things. That's why it's very important that you try and marry someone that you can get along with easily on a normal padi padi level. Someone you can do things with. Can easily talk to each other. And for pete's sake, there has to be some sexual chemistry because marriage is no longer the life sentence of abstinence it used to during the time of our elders. People will look outside if all hope has been lost inside their marriage. Also it's foolish to marry someone just because they are from the same tribe with you. You might speak the same language and still not COMMUNICATE with each other. You might be the same tribe but very DIFFERENT individuals with different upbringing that will just be grating against each other. 1 Like |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Muslimsworldng: 1:13pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
AsherAmari:The responsibility of marriage working is on both side, stop playing victim. If a man decides to spend less time with his family, has the wife communicated with her man. A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE IS NOT ONLY ABOUT MEN MUST DO THIS MEN MUST DO THAT, WOMEN HAS A ROLE TO PLAY TOO. |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by lillsmart121(m): 1:14pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
[color=#000099][/colour this write up deserves credit,to me it's a word of encouragement
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Re: So This Is Marriage? by Kokaine(m): 1:21pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
AsherAmari: looool. sounds funny but bizarre when implemented |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Praxis758: 1:23pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
I have a question........ Is the OP telling us that a good man on bed (BBD) in the other room with a handsome finance cannot serially make a woman happy in marriage? The reason for that question is as result of the summary of criteria most single ladies are looking for to date/marry a may/guy. A good answer will help me. Thanks. |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Ghostmode2two(m): 1:24pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Marriage is both sweet and bitter |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Themie9: 1:36pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Kokaine(m): 1:43pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
NevetsIbot:I think I have this issue too |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Slynation(m): 1:43pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
We the single Men association are taking notice of the whole scenario and saying jisike to all those currently married.... |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Labadi69: 1:48pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
AsherAmari: Space. Give your partner space. Let him go and watch football and let her go and do her own things that women like to do na. Trust me, they will start missing each other and when they finally get to hang out, it will be like a new relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by ashjay001(m): 2:05pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
robosky02: You try sha. But, I dont forgive sha. Esp, if you continue the same character/misbehaviour, after several warnings. The 2 have to display mutual respect at all times. No one is doing the other a favour |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by digitalman2811(m): 2:06pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Bilabong:, small pikin 1 Like |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by labelle123(f): 2:10pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
chelsea1116:. wow 1 Like |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Labadi69: Ok. If you say so. |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by MIKOLOWISKA: 2:41pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Seun:the one that will not be asking such question |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by meobizy(f): 2:48pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Last I remember, monkeys learned from observation. If as a human being you can’t learn from afar what marriage entails then the fault is yours. I’ve seen too many people — both newly wedded and old in the institution — fall out over meager issues. Add to that the constant silent treatment and rejection of food over petty quarrels. Many people you see celebrating each other both in real life and on media can’t stand one another’s presence in the privacy of their home. Stay wise. If someone suggests that I get married based on my age and wisdom, I don’t believe they have my best interest at heart. Why should I take heed the matrimonial advice of someone who has failed in the construct for the third time running? I guess there are many who don’t believe one doesn’t need children and partners to stay happy. 1 Like |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Ekugbeh(m): 3:57pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
AsherAmari:because I got married I shouldn't wash champions league again. I leave my girl in the house to wash league matches joor. And she understands even wen she frowns at it, I always try to make it up with her |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Solidkay(m): 4:11pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Bilabong: if e hard you to read this wonderful write-up, leaves me wondering how you take write your 500words essay in your waec |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:28pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
pansophist: So, when will you be ready for me finally? 2020 what? You know I can't keep waiting, my prince. ![]() |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Goldbw122:which friend? Friend or no friend challenges must come don't be foolish. |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Ryan03(f): 4:46pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
AsherAmari:not always the men. Some women soon turn their phones to second husband. after attending to children, they occupy their selves with their phones while neglecting the man For some of them, it is zee world, it eats up whatever little time they have left. What do you expect the man to do when they start acting like he is disturbing each time he demands their attention? |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by JTCHI: 4:56pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Still reading ��� |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Pelxmiye(m): 5:00pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
AsherAmari: So I should come and die on top your matter ,abi? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Ryan03: Well... I admit it goes both ways though but the men are always the first to start. It good to strike a balance like everyone has said. In as much as you men want to be free to do as you wish, try to be there for her and don't abandon her altogether or treat her like a piece of furniture. |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by robosky02(m): 5:11pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Seun: In one word "Adaptability" The one person that will leave all she or he has known as a way of life or culture and be willing to adapt to you..... From another background. Forsaking all others and consistently forgive to make the relationship thrive. 1 Like |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by harmony75: 5:14pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
I so much believe in marriage when to 2 are determined to make it work �❤ oh you love to be married �� 1 Like |
Re: So This Is Marriage? by robosky02(m): 5:14pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
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