I came to stay with my sister for sometimes for my admission process since the school is not far from her place.She have a son and a daughter age 4 and 2 respectively.
My sister and her husband do go work everyday and the children do stay athome with me since they are on holiday.
So on Saturday around 11pm my sis came inside my room collected my phone that she wants to check somethings,she took the phone to her room and later brought it back around 12:15.
The following day she called me and said the reason why she collected my phone was because,her son climbed on her and started playing with her breast, took her hand to touch his penis and he even moaned.
She said he doesn't do that kind of thing before and since we are always home together,maybe I do watch bluefilm in his presence or molesting him sexually that I should stop it if am doing it with him before her husband know about it.
I was dumbfounded and weak at the same time,we don't use to watch movie in that house only cartoon stations cos of the boy,even if his parents are not around is still cartoon,I prefer surfing the internet and the only video I do watch on my phone are comedy skits.
Now this has really made me depress,loose weight and uncomfortable in the house.I don't even know how am going to prove myself that am innocent of the accusation.Even if I leave her place She's still going to have that kind of mindset towards me.
What should I do?

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Open the topic again in front of the husband and tell them you deserve respect.

Promisepikin:
I came to stay with my sister for sometimes for my admission process since the school is not far from her place.She have a son and a daughter age 4 and 2 respectively.
My sister and her husband do go work everyday and the children do stay athome with me since they are on holiday.
So on Saturday around 11pm my sis came inside my room collected my phone that she wants to check somethings,she took the phone to her room and later brought it back around 12:15.
The following day she called me and said the reason why she collected my phone was because,her son climbed on her and started playing with her breast, took her hand to touch his penis and he even moaned.
She said he doesn't do that kind of thing before and since we are always home together,maybe I do watch bluefilm in his presence or molesting him sexually that I should stop it if am doing it with him before her husband know about it.
I was dumbfounded and weak at the same time,we don't use to watch movie in that house only cartoon stations cos of the boy,even if his parents are not around is still cartoon,I prefer surfing the internet and the only video I do watch on my phone are comedy skits.
Now this has really made me depress,loose weight and uncomfortable in the house.I don't even know how am going to prove myself that am innocent of the accusation.Even if I leave her place She's still going to have that kind of mindset towards me.
What should I do?

Stop lamenting about your reputation but instead join hands with her to trace the root of this unfortunate behaviour. Tell her it is not from you he got exposed to this but you will try to find out how he came about it.

1st place to check is his electronic devices; computer, tab etc. If he is not using a child's account, porn contents can be pushed to him and belive me these kids can watch it.

Another place to check is his mates in school that are exposed to porn or sexual activities may be influencing him either by discussion or sharing links or names of sites etc.

The last is what the mother is accusing u of, there may be another person sexually exploiting them - church, school, home, grannies place etc

Goodluck!

Did your sister find such video on your phone at all ? If yes u have such video , that boy might access it without u knowing . Have u had sex in their presence thinking they are kids ?

Cos their mum can't just bring this up
Cos she has been with them before u came .

U might be playing a pity card as well

If u are innocent of all these , try do your findings and get back to your sister , why are u feeling depressed over simple question she supposed normally asked , just only u and her not in front of her husband , I like that your sister .

obinna58:
Open the topic again in front of the husband and tell them you deserve respect.

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Children of this days...

Satan is really working double shift.

Don't mind ur sister, its her fault not urs.
When ur get to school, try and take psychology as a borrowed course, u will understand better what ur sister is trying to do.

Protect ur mental health......

If you know you care about your nephew, you better call your sister one on one, swear to her that you telling the truth about not being responsible for the boys bad behaviour and ask her to investigate properly before it's too late

May be he learned it at school (sex education)

If you are innocent,don't let her guilt trip you. You could help her investigate the source however, not out of compulsion but because you want to help the son.

I have a question,

What did your sister do to the sin while he was touching her mommy boobs, did she flog Satan from him or watched him do it

Finish your admission stuff and get the hell outta dat house

i guess she’s accusing you because she probably found xrated stuff on your phone.. if I’m innocent I swear I go change am her, I hate being wrongly accused.. worse is, I’d leave her house

Promisepikin:
I came to stay with my sister for sometimes for my admission process since the school is not far from her place.She have a son and a daughter age 4 and 2 respectively.
My sister and her husband do go work everyday and the children do stay athome with me since they are on holiday.
So on Saturday around 11pm my sis came inside my room collected my phone that she wants to check somethings,she took the phone to her room and later brought it back around 12:15.
The following day she called me and said the reason why she collected my phone was because,her son climbed on her and started playing with her breast, took her hand to touch his penis and he even moaned.
She said he doesn't do that kind of thing before and since we are always home together,maybe I do watch bluefilm in his presence or molesting him sexually that I should stop it if am doing it with him before her husband know about it.
I was dumbfounded and weak at the same time,we don't use to watch movie in that house only cartoon stations cos of the boy,even if his parents are not around is still cartoon,I prefer surfing the internet and the only video I do watch on my phone are comedy skits.
Now this has really made me depress,loose weight and uncomfortable in the house.I don't even know how am going to prove myself that am innocent of the accusation.Even if I leave her place She's still going to have that kind of mindset towards me.
What should I do?

You did not say anything about the content of your phone. You were probably careless with it and it got into the hand of the toddler

Promisepikin:
I came to stay with my sister for sometimes for my admission process since the school is not far from her place.She have a son and a daughter age 4 and 2 respectively.
My sister and her husband do go work everyday and the children do stay athome with me since they are on holiday.
So on Saturday around 11pm my sis came inside my room collected my phone that she wants to check somethings,she took the phone to her room and later brought it back around 12:15.
The following day she called me and said the reason why she collected my phone was because,her son climbed on her and started playing with her breast, took her hand to touch his penis and he even moaned.
She said he doesn't do that kind of thing before and since we are always home together,maybe I do watch bluefilm in his presence or molesting him sexually that I should stop it if am doing it with him before her husband know about it.
I was dumbfounded and weak at the same time,we don't use to watch movie in that house only cartoon stations cos of the boy,even if his parents are not around is still cartoon,I prefer surfing the internet and the only video I do watch on my phone are comedy skits.
Now this has really made me depress,loose weight and uncomfortable in the house.I don't even know how am going to prove myself that am innocent of the accusation.Even if I leave her place She's still going to have that kind of mindset towards me.
What should I do?

This story is too funny to me.

I could control my laughter when I read the part that the lil nigga moaned.

Oh my God

bluefilm:

This story is too funny to me.
I could control my laughter when I read the part that the lil nigga moaned.
Oh my God

She probably exaggerated!

Karleb:


She probably exaggerated!

Exactly.

Na wah o. The boy actually dry humped his mother and instead of her to be concerned about such a taboo, query him to know where he learnt that from she's looking for who to abortion blames on. Kids practice what they see their parents do first. She should ask herself if she has been discreet enough while making out with her husband.

What? Do the kids have their own room(s)? Do the go into other people's room(s)? Is there another adult that comes/stays around eg house help, lessons teacher or your friends?
Are they visiting other relatives?

At age 4 that child is too innocent for that kind of sexual acts. So, somehow he is been sexually exposed by someone. It could be that he saw the parents doing it without them knowing or an outsider is the perpetrator.

From what you said its normal for her to ask you that question, since the kids stay with you a lot. Don't take the whole thing personally, knowing that you're innocent should help your self esteem.

That's human nature... Sometimes when things go wrong we look for the most easy person to blame.
You have some real good advice here on the thread.
Please sit down with her and explain to her she needs to look for the source.
Also in a very loving way she should question the child.
Don't question the child yourself it might look like you are intimidating him.
Futhermore, the child might have even seen got it from the parents.

The funny thing about this situation is that ironically the parents might be the culprit.

The child might have seen them making out, but they are oblivious of the fact.

Kids are smarter these days and try to experiment things they see others doing.

If truly you are innocent of such accusation, make sure you bring up the matter in front of your sis and her husband.Not just to clear your name but to help in solving the mystery.

While bringing up the matter, you have to make them understand that it's not just about you but the welfare of the child because he is your son too.

You people will be surprise at the end of the day that its someone you guys least expected that is doing it.

I'm trying to understand how you feel comfortable being accused wrongly. I would have turned that house upside down before leaving.
A sensible parent supposed to question the child first instead of looking for someone to blame.

was the moan ahhhhhhh or auchhhhhh or mmmmmm tell me so I will know the advice to dish out

BabbanBura:


Stop lamenting about your reputation but instead join hands with her to trace the root of this unfortunate behaviour. Tell her it is not from you he got exposed to this but you will try to find out how he came about it.

1st place to check is his electronic devices; computer, tab etc. If he is not using a child's account, porn contents can be pushed to him and belive me these kids can watch it

Another place to check is his mates in school that are exposed to porn or sexual activities may be influencing him either by discussion or sharing links or names of sites etc.
The last is what the mother is accusing u of, there may be another person sexually exploiting them - church, school, home, grannies place etc

Goodluck!

He's just 4yrs old and not using any electronic devices and about church,he always sit with his dad in church

Righteousness2:
I love the First paragraph of the bro above!
Tell her it has nothing to do with u, but Join hands with her to trace the source of such evil habit.
Most of today's 3 and 4 years old are sharp and smart already. They learn and pick things up so fast.
So Keep a close Sharp eyes on the boy.

Note:
Some of the Cartoons and stuffs they show these days are also crazy and Demonic..

Thank you

majamajic:
Did your sister find such video on your phone at all ? If yes u have such video , that boy might access it without u knowing . Have u had sex in their presence thinking they are kids ?

Cos their mum can't just bring this up
Cos she has been with them before u came .

U might be playing a pity card as well

If u are innocent of all these , try do your findings and get back to your sister , why are u feeling depressed over simple question she supposed normally asked , just only u and her not in front of her husband , I like that your sister .

I don't have such videos on my phone and is it possible to have sex their presence

Playing pity card?for people to give me money or what?

GboyegaD:
If you are innocent,don't let her guilt trip you. You could help her investigate the source however, not out of compulsion but because you want to help the son.

Thank you.

Maybe she and her husband didn’t take proper care to ensure privacy while they were having sex and now she thinks it’s your fault.

techmo:
If you know you care about your nephew, you better call your sister one on one, swear to her that you telling the truth about not being responsible for the boys bad behaviour

I followed this your advice and believe me I felt relieved after telling her my mind....Thank you.

Promisepikin:

I followed this your advice and believe me I felt relieved after telling her my mind....Thank you.

You're welcome