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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by oshe11: 3:06pm On Apr 16, 2021
DemonInvoker:

Ona too like Gist ohh cheesy
Its like You want make them swear for You

Better complete the fiction when U don use waste people time before I.............

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Wordson(m): 3:13pm On Apr 16, 2021
joshima:
Clap for yourself. .. Mr discipline .
Hmmm... Hope u are not bn sarcastic or derisive sha... If No, den I will say thanks.. wink
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by jeph19(m): 3:16pm On Apr 16, 2021
Remijuice:

Better take heed of what the majority are saying..
my brother...thanks oo but i trust GOD in my abilities to STAY PURE all through the service year and also believe,there's a selected few as regards,my bae...na GOD get power

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by engrjoshua: 3:17pm On Apr 16, 2021
LikeAking:


Wow!....

U have to take me to ifon village.


Ifon is in Ondo state, Ose Local government precisely..
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Guyman111: 3:22pm On Apr 16, 2021
anigbajumo:
I was actually deployed to the same state with my ex, we graduated from same university at the same year. She went with batch A and I went with batch B. She started misbehave and as a sharp guy I relocated to another state and continue with my work as usual. I went to NYSC with just 280k in my acct and wen I finished service last year I actually had almost 1.3million, her attitude was a blessing in disguise for me and open way for me unexpectedly. I was focus on how to build my career and I thank God all my plan worked out perfectly. After NYSC, am now fully involve in my hustle and it's working out perfectly for me, I didn't shag any corper coz I was extremely busy and focus then. I lost my girl during our NYSC despite we av agreed introduction after service but it was a path of success for me.
You are a good son, go up nd take ur sit
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Mac12(f): 3:22pm On Apr 16, 2021
Delpeiro:
NYSC na bonaza period, am yet to see any girl that is not straff during NYSC.
Infact Once your girlfriend is away from you for like 2months zero your mind.
if u don't lose her, in the case of the ones that have conscience , just atleast accept the fact that someone is servicing her. I regret that at some point in my life I actaully genuinely trust and believe woman.
Just treat them right when they are with u and never get your self work up over their issue
I'm talking from experience, from both personal and close circle.
Though experience also thought me how to take my revenge ..
Once u notice their changes let them know that u are aware of what is going on but that u wish her well,
Then Let her be.
Trust me 99.9 percent of time they always come back, am not exaggerrating, that is when I take my pound of fresh.

Keep in mind that you MUST let her know what she is doing before letting her go, is a must! If not she will come back trying to play the victim card but if you let her know u know her moves. while coming, that will put u in good position.

Secondly and most importantly make sure u are treating her right while u are dating her. Because that is the only reason while she will miss u someday if not forget it.
Finally no matter the gospel a cheat preach when she comes back never ever take her serious.
From experience they never change , It is just a matter of time she will start to display again, just make her a LovePeddler which she is, anyday she realize she can Bleep off for good.




I can boldly and confidently say i wasn't straffed! Not all girls are the same. I chose to be different and indeed i was. No be mouth, na training

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Wordson(m): 3:24pm On Apr 16, 2021
Igbankpa:
Thank you! this whole NYSC sex thing is highly exaggerated, As if no be the same NYSC we do.
Me no understand my brother... Though many corpers are promiscuous, I'll still say some are not

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Delpeiro: 3:28pm On Apr 16, 2021
Mac12:


I can boldly and confidently say i wasn't straffed! Not all girls are the same. I chose to be different and indeed i was. No be mouth, na training
Are u saying that you broke decades long record?
It might be true but I seriously doubt
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Calmdude4: 3:32pm On Apr 16, 2021
NYSC that year!! omoh guys to be honest nysc na 4 bleeping NO DOUBT! there was this delta state girl i was dating then in my secondary school days, after our final exams we literaly wrote jamb but unfortunately different schools in mind, so she got admitted....meh dis babe come dey form 4 me ooo base on say me i no get admission dat year, she dont even care to knw if i existed self, i beg dis babe tire, she form deaf ear 4 me..... she told me is "OVER BETWEEN US", Omoh gvys i beg tire no way, 4 like four mouths i still dey beg dis babe no way, later later i come dey hear say she moving with one rich man pikin like that, my friends tell me say the guy dey BANG her scater scater... meh my head wan burst, so i took jamb the following year and i got admitted as well, when she see me 4 campus she go dey form anyhow me self no send her, after 4 years she grauated, the following year me i grauated too, so unforturnately we jam 4 NYSC CAMP, meh i BANG dis girl tire, i dnt even knw that she was enaged.

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by 2kurupt(m): 3:34pm On Apr 16, 2021
Mac12:


I can boldly and confidently say i wasn't straffed! Not all girls are the same. I chose to be different and indeed i was. No be mouth, na training
Yours might have been an exception but you'll agree with me that most of the exceptions weren't presented with the opportunity that's why they "hold body".
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Mac12(f): 3:36pm On Apr 16, 2021
Delpeiro:

Are u saying that you broke decades long record?
It might be true but I seriously doubt

Truth to be told, i lived my normal life during my service year. I teach from Monday to Wednesday, go for my CDs on Thursday, go see my fiance from Friday to Sunday. Did my marriage few days to POP. In camp, i retire to bed once I'm done with parade training, I have no business with anyone. Believe me, there are still people that are well behaved.

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Laurelita(f): 3:37pm On Apr 16, 2021
I didnt even know much of what others did during my service year. As we dey finish all those SAED toks omo na to go line up for food carry food enter hostel. Girls of like minds, we go just dey gist and dey go NCCF meetings also locate ur church members that were posted to d same state. So i go NCCF and my church meetings. There were homely girls and there were the crase ones. I didnt even know say people dey go here and there inside camp to work their ppa. I heard at the end of camp and na still osogbo i go. Na wetin u want you go get.

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Opengates(m): 3:38pm On Apr 16, 2021
Delpeiro:

Lol..I don't miss a chance, Not in this life.
And dont let any body decieve you about bad luck yen yen yen..
Those
Take your chance as it comes Las Las we will all be alright.
Life is short.

If you know that life is short, then why taking risks that will make it shorter?

Don't be deceived, nothing and nobody will be alright because evildoers can never be paid good rewards.

That is the truth, it may be bitter

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by anigbajumo(m): 3:39pm On Apr 16, 2021
Guyman111:
You are a good son, go up nd take ur sit


Lol, thanks bro.
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Mac12(f): 3:39pm On Apr 16, 2021
2kurupt:

Yours might have been an exception but you'll agree with me that most of the exceptions weren't presented with the opportunity that's why they "hold body".



Yea i totally agree. I heard and still hear stories of how ladies misbehave in camp/nysc days. Its quite disheartening. I saw for myself too but wetin concern me? You wake up to seeing condoms littered all over the place
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by marvel2real: 3:41pm On Apr 16, 2021
my nysc story was totally different, I saw many banging around me but throughout that one year I spend in Maiduguri I did nothing as if na jazz oo.

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Calmdude4: 3:47pm On Apr 16, 2021
ARE U SERIOUS!!! Fear WOMEN!!
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by fayomim: 3:57pm On Apr 16, 2021
PrimadonnaO:
I stayed in camp for only about 5 days, and ran back to the then LOML! cheesy

But in those four days, there was one "semi-rich" aboki that exchanged jungle boots with me. He was chyking back to back and always paying for my mami-market meals.

He must have thought he had seen one gullible Southern girl.

He didn't know when I left the camp. cheesy

Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by ogub(m): 4:00pm On Apr 16, 2021
johnkey:
stop calling her your babe lol she's a lost sheep now
grin grin grin
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by IceDune: 4:00pm On Apr 16, 2021
PoshTraveler:
god saved you from what? we Bleep wives in their husband bed and nothing dey happen

Every man with his own principles grin

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Wordson(m): 4:02pm On Apr 16, 2021
jeph19:

Thank you very much...i'll be going this year, then my girl later this year or next year.
Your comment just calm my panting heart, its not everybody thats loose and randy...
definitely not everyone.. it depends on ur norms, values, determination, religious beliefs etc. Infact, when I finished from Unilag untainted, I knew nothing or nowhere could change me except I want to change

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by BabaIbo: 4:03pm On Apr 16, 2021
I was the one having my NYSC program in the north and she was in the south.

She told me she needs a birthday cake and I promised to get it for her but she have to be patience with me since I have not received my allowance.
I divided my last card 5k into two and gave her 2.5k to manage until I receive my allowance.
I later found our another guy got her because he presented her a cake on her birthday. I broke up with her straight up.

Years later, she chatted me up, it happened her quarrel with the guy was taken place at that same moment on another chat thread, and as we were chatting she told me the guy dumped her, that he saw her inside the campus and acted as if she does not exist.
I laughed ehn. Weyrey got served hot hot. grin cheesy

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Nobody: 4:03pm On Apr 16, 2021
EmmanuelBanks:


DemonIvoker, I have been following your stories since the thread "say no to cultism"

I must say I like your write up...oya continue the story now now before I vex for you

DemonIvoker, I have been following your stories since the thread "say no to cultism"

I must say I like your write up...oya continue the story now now before I vex for you
Thanks,I Appreciate...
We were at the back of the cab heading to her place,I observed her fone has been ringing since we were at the restaurant but She Kept Ignoring it...At this point I told her to pick the damn fone...She said it was someone she owed money,that the lady was just disturbing her any how because of 4K Balance...I was like 4K?!she said yes ohh,I said no problem that I was going to give it to her to pay the lady up...I left Phc with 100k Cash on me and had my debit cards with me,my intention was to really come and flex Calabar and was really ready to do just that.
Infact,I and this babe had an history together,I was the one that tore the rubber back then when she was still in Year1...She is the only babe I felt really free spending any thing on...I've really got integrity in picking women,I must say I can compare none to her...She has remained relevant over time, Perfect Shape,pretty face,superstar voice and her Head game is a tight one...She has that Kind of butt that produces a tidal Wave Vibration whenever you're slamming it...I mean,what more can wish for.
We finally got to her Place,I noticed this guy Standing next to his Car...He called her by her name but she signaled him she was coming,I just kept quiet..we got inside her room,she immediately left and went out that she was coming...The place was more of student like kind of Lodge (a U -Shaped Storey building).
It was a well furnished Self-contain with a Spacious Room and Toilet,those type that had Bath-tubs in them and the whole place was really neat and well furnished..She stayed outside for more than 15mins...I had to go take my bath,finished wore my boxers and singlets and went out to observed...Her room was Upstairs so I moved quietly towards where she was....Babe was busy begging the same guy I saw at first,I can see her almost kneeling down explaining...So many thoughts ran through my head,It was almost 10pm in the night,every one was indoors coz there was light...I cum say make dey Observe the Guy,him come correct with better Sharp car and levels...I cum imagine Wetin she dey scope the guy now?!Say I be her brother Abi or wetin?!I say no problem make she come back up first...I went back inside, laid on the bed,Trace Urban was playing "Slow down by R2Bees ft Wizkid"So had to just relax to the song...I waited so tey I go outside,babe don follow the guy move...I mad begin call her number,she didn't pick,I called and called she didn't pick..I was like how long would she keep me Waiting..See nonsense ohh?!...By the time I looked at the time it was already 12mid night...I didn't want to quit,I kept on calling babe finally picked and told me to sleep that when she comes she'll explain...I want talk she end call..I mean,No babe has treated me like this in my entire miserable life...As in,every thing was clear,babe abandoned me to please her guy...I leave TV wey I dey watch,begin go observe empty pots for kitchen....I felt like entering the Road facing back to Port Harcourt that Night that Night...So I went stayed outside just in front of the room...I cum dey regret my life....I couldn't believe She actually didn't care how I felt...I'm sure she has been receiving plenty of compensation from their relationship..I mean,I now felt like disappearing and reappearing in my house..I was never really obsessed with her but that night I became obsessed and was grieving...I tried to call her again but this time the line was switched off..I went back inside,I tried to sleep but lost it...Time became my companion,I looked at the time again and It was 5am...I rolled on the bed from edge to edge till day break.

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by equitorial1(m): 4:05pm On Apr 16, 2021
Which kain advice be this one na. I never lost mine. We are still happy to date. I don't need to give details but it's not always that bad biko

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by MrNipplesLover(m): 4:09pm On Apr 16, 2021
Macwav3:

YOUTHS SERVICING one another

Na so


grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by MrNipplesLover(m): 4:09pm On Apr 16, 2021
Idamond:


banging is the primary purpose

It is well with your soul.

grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Afokesco(m): 4:14pm On Apr 16, 2021
DemonInvoker:

Ona too like Gist ohh cheesy
as far the gist dey make us happy pass bihari govt...bro I don't blame girls that went to camp to be having sex..most time their parents and female friends do tell them that as they are going for service they should mingle with guys who are fvcking Rich..I do blame girls that listen to their parents and friends advice..and immediately they have seen such guy.. they should broke up with their present bf. don't be surprised after so many knacking in camp..some dudes will still broke their heart..

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Nobody: 4:16pm On Apr 16, 2021
Afokesco:
as far the gist dey make us happy pass bihari govt...bro I don't blame girls that went to camp to be having sex..most time their parents and female friends do tell them that as they are going for service they should mingle with guys who are fvcking Rich..I do blame girls that listen to their parents and friends advice..and immediately they have seen such guy.. they should broke up with their present bf. don't be surprised after so many knacking in camp..some dudes will still broke their heart..
grin grin grin
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Babaplato(m): 4:20pm On Apr 16, 2021
DemonInvoker:

Thanks,I Appreciate...
We were at the back of the cab heading to her place,I observed her fone has been ringing since we were at the restaurant but She Kept Ignoring it...At this point I told her to pick the damn fone...She said it was someone she owed money,that the lady was just disturbing her any how because of 4K Balance...I was like 4K?!she said yes ohh,I said no problem that I was going to give it to her to pay the lady up...I left Phc with 100k Cash with me and had my debit cards with me,my intention was to really come and flex Calabar and was really ready to do just that.
Infact,I and this babe had an history together,I was the one that tore the rubber back then when she was still in Year1...She is the only babe I felt really free spending any thing on...I've really got integrity in picking women,I must say I can compare none to her...She has remained relevant over time, Perfect Shape,pretty face,superstar voice and her Head game is a tight one...She has that Kind of butt that produces a tidal Wave Vibration whenever you're slamming it...I mean,what more can wish for.
We finally got to her Place,I noticed this guy Standing next to his Car...He called her by her name but she signaled him she was coming,I just kept quiet..we got inside her room,she immediately left and went out that she was coming...The place was more of student like kind of Lodge (a U -Shaped Storey building).
It was a well furnished Self-contain with a Spacious Room and Toilet,those type that had Bath-tubs in them and the whole place was really neat and well furnished..She stayed outside for more than 15mins...I had to go take my bath,finished wore my boxers and singlets and went out to observed...Her room was Upstairs so I moved quietly towards where she was....Babe was busy begging the same guy I saw at first,I can see her almost kneeling down explaining...So many thoughts ran through my head,It was almost 10pm in the night,every one was indoors coz there was light...I cum say make dey Observe the Guy,him come correct with better Sharp car and levels...I cum imagine Wetin she dey scope the guy now?!Say I be her brother Abi or wetin?!I say no problem make she come back up first...I went back inside, laid on the bed,Trace Urban was playing "Slow down by R2Bees ft Wizkid"So had to just relax to the song...I waited so tey I go outside,babe don follow the guy move...I mad begin call her number,she didn't pick,I called and called she didn't pick..I was like how long would she keep me Waiting..See nonsense ohh?!...By the time I looked at the time it was already 12mid night...I didn't want to quite,I kept on calling babe finally picked and told me to sleep that when she comes she'll explain...I want talk she end call..I mean,No babe had treated me like this in my entire miserable life...As in,every thing was clear,babe abandoned me to please her guy...I leave TV wey I dey watch,begin go observe empty pots for kitchen....I felt like entering the Road facing back to Port Harcourt that Night that Night...So I went stayed outside just in front of the room...I cum dey regret my life....I couldn't believe She actually didn't care how I felt...I'm sure she has been receiving plenty of compensation from their relationship..I mean,I now felt like disappearing and reappearing in my house..I was never really obsessed with her but that night I became obsessed and was grieving...I tried to call her again but this time the line was switched off..I went back inside,I tried to sleep but lost it...Time became my companion,I looked at the time again and It was 5am...I rolled on the bed from edge to edge till day break.
What happened the next morning?

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Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 4:20pm On Apr 16, 2021
[quote author=Zendinho post=100846643][/quote] You are not serious grin
Give me Malt jare
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Amanee(f): 4:21pm On Apr 16, 2021
1Sharon:


Cos he thought you were doing the same and ended the relationship in his mind

Abi na, his loss
Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 4:22pm On Apr 16, 2021
Liposure:
make it seven. I no dey drink much
Okay. Just seat down here.. take as much as you want.. you can even take some home.

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