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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by SavageResponse(m): 3:28pm On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

Next time learn to mind your own business
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by KelChinon202: 3:28pm On Apr 20, 2021
See ehn, you did nothing wrong in telling your friend about it. Only mistake was that he mentioned your name. You were only a brothers keeper and to all those people who are saying you deserve those curses, may they find a street girl that have been used and reused by everyone in the same area where they live, as their wife. Amen!!!

Why did the girl not open up to tell the guy about her past life style?
Who knows weda there is more that she has even done than you and your friend know about. Pls just go to church, discuss with a pastor let him pray for you. You have done the right thing.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Coolcalmcollect(m): 3:32pm On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....
Don't mind the bish, no curse go touch you, you're a real gee, a real friend....also don't mind her fellow bishes and simps talking trash, a regular simp will marry such a girl... Pity no hoe, forgive no bish
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Coolcalmcollect(m): 3:33pm On Apr 20, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:



I don't blame you.. later you will complain that your village people are hindering your progress not knowing you caused it yourself
Shut up, you were village people no hinder, you be president wife
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Unik3078(m): 4:03pm On Apr 20, 2021
Qatar2022:

You people condemning this guy is a devil, you want to keep quiet and watch his friend marry a community hoe

inside life for the writer!
deeper life for the babe!
Bigger life for the readers!
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:35pm On Apr 20, 2021
pennywys:
shut up and go to hell, no one wish to born a hoe like you and co who legs here and there like nursing mother spraying baby clothes under the sun. Who the heck are you?

I may prefer marrying a prostitute from a brothel than marrying all these pretending hoe how there. Once I declare interest on a particular bitch I didn't know she was, I took her out spent a little on her boom we reach and the relationship start as a child of God I am the bitch phone got spoiled and I was planning to buy a new phone for her and before I knew she started using my own phone to browse her Facebook and that's how God save my life and future, the idiot logout thought she was done little did she know my phone automatically save the login info at night my spirit told me to cross-check somethings what I saw on her inbox shock the hell out of me. I was deceived of who I thought she was, I would have bet my balls for her in the past. Necked pictures, porn videos. She almost fuccck everyone on her Facebook page, share numbers to everyone who ask for her numbers, travel far distance to meet them, infact I no fit shout. After I noticed this I withdraw myself jejeeely given a long distance and when she found out I pushing her away and no longer given her attention she lift up her face, no longer response to my greetings, though I have not opened up my findings and will never opened up to her. And if any of my friends ever go close to her I will wishper to his ears.
Lol you should have collect your share na haha
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:39pm On Apr 20, 2021
sparko1:


He shouldn't have said anything? Yeah right! As far as they are friends, he did the right thing.

He didn't judge her, just don't want his friend to marry the town public toilet. You don't live such a reckless life and expect to marry a decent person, pick one agbero and enjoy.
Hahah agbero wickedness grin grin
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by 1nigeriamyfoot: 7:58pm On Apr 20, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:




People like you ends up marrying hoes

Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by candygist: 9:19pm On Apr 20, 2021
AishaYesufu:

Jesus Christ forgave the prostitute yet everyone was still told of her past that she was a prostitute. The Bible didn't delete the part where she was caught doing prostitution

Go ask you girl friend about her past with other guys if that's the case.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by GodisFirst: 9:40pm On Apr 20, 2021
Op, you did the right thing. Just free yourself. the curse will never have any effect on you provided you did it with good intention.
This is just part of the price you pay when you try to live upright in this corrupt society.
Do you know that the worse could have happened if your guy continued with the relationship and you were around it. Such a lady could seduce you in the absence of her husband to silence you knowing fully well that you know her past, before you know it you get entangled because you may not resist her going by your initial interest in her. So thank you God that it didn't happen.

I once met with a young man and he told me about a girl he is dating and wants to marry but his problem was that the girl is having affairs with other men. There and then I told him point blank that he should forget about her and look for someone ready to settle down.
Some year latter, it was the wedding bell ringing and it was him and the girl. I said okay, it is not bad to forgive, pardon and take her if she has changed. However, it didn't take long after two children, the lady started misbehaving to the point of threatening the guy's life, absconded with the children. The last I know the marriage went south. he regrets all. I felt bad that it happened this way however, I feel I did my part in my advise to him when he told me of his challenges.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Ceufinish: 3:48am On Apr 21, 2021
U did nothing wrong at least she didn't deny it though your friend should have concealed your identity.
Lesson: before u marry know d past of your spouse.
Shalom
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Rhodaogunpeju(f): 5:14am On Apr 21, 2021
akaahs:

Keep running Ur mouth upandawn. Nothing ll happen to that bros, he's truly a brother who knows the bro code very well. If u like don't go and advice Ur fellow sister to respect their bodies and dignity.



If you've never had sex with a lady before then I'll take you seriously.. Men like you are the resources for women promiscuity .. you lying and terrible beings
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Rhodaogunpeju(f): 5:16am On Apr 21, 2021
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

There is nothing matured about sitting quietly like an idīot and watch your friend marry a community puna! It is simply wicked!



Is his friend a saint too?...a woman cannot sleep around but a man can ?.... sorry Women are much wiser now . u can't cage then
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Rhodaogunpeju(f): 5:21am On Apr 21, 2021
Dreyton36:


You sound like an illiterate, like someone who was raised from a broken home
Now here's how to judge a case bc it's obvious you lack brains
You put yourself in people's shoes before you judge you idiottt

Q: it your own blood brother decided to settle down today , and the girl he's finna settle down with is someone you know very well of her promiscuity
A girl you can even point out how many guys either I your school or place work or street have slept with countless times
Would you keep shut just bc you're minding your business or you will tell your blood brother the bitter truth ?

P.s I'm not expecting the correct answer from yiu bc y'all are the same , pvssy spreaders of the local community looking for successful men to hang on with tueh
Your brain box die finish kpatakpata

If any of my friend mistakenly bring someone like you to my estate I'll use you to plus, cuz i can't fold my hands to see a local community thing ruin my own gee's lyf



Lights up my kpoli in peace



Comments from a man who "Lights kpoli". should not be taken seriously because it is obvious the kpoli had affected your sense of reasoning..

So what she slept around before .?... Mr kpoli are you a saint yourself.?....


And if my brother wants to marry that kind of woman I'm not going to stop him . I'd rather sit the lady down and inquire from her to know if she's truly changed .. if she is then she will forever have my blessings and support...




you need help and stop smoking so that you can make sense .. pity the woman u end up with

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Youngpo413: 6:02am On Apr 21, 2021
AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.

Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.

Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.

You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?

Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth

story
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Dreyton36: 6:23am On Apr 21, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:




Comments from a man who "Lights kpoli". should not be taken seriously because it is obvious the kpoli had affected your sense of reasoning..

So what she slept around before .?... Mr kpoli are you a saint yourself.?....


And if my brother wants to marry that kind of woman I'm not going to stop him . I'd rather sit the lady down and inquire from her to know if she's truly changed .. if she is then she will forever have my blessings and support...




you need help and stop smoking so that you can make sense .. pity the woman u end up with

I'm a stoner and I'm proud of it but not an alcoholic spot the difference but that doesn't change that fact that you sound like an illiterate
You can't abuse people by what they're proud of doing bc you'll only end up stupid just like everyone right here have known you for

Your name says it all, all Rhoda na olosho
You're only defending your fellow olosho in crime and las las E sure for me like bayern munich over 2.5 say you no fit see man marry, na belle ur type dey end up with , small time you go arrange carpenter make Dem nack small kiosk for you to they sell jedi jedi and cigar plus dry gin ,for road side
Ozuor

Obama is a stoner
Fashola stoner
Davido stoner
Wizkid stoner
Zuckerberg stoner
Burnaboy stoner
Post malone stoner
Phil collins stoner
Bob marley stoner

Who am I not to be a stoner grin you expired okpo



Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by adekolausman0000(m): 6:40am On Apr 21, 2021
On a normal ground you should have known better than pocking your nose. Who knows maybe she'd turn a new leaf?
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by wolement: 6:43am On Apr 21, 2021
You just saved a brother. Don't mind all those talking trash. If he really loves her he shld forgive her past. No man deserve to end up with public material. She caused it herself. Am sure God is happy with you.
If my friends refuse to tell me such then they are my enemies.
You have done well.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by wolement: 6:46am On Apr 21, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:




Comments from a man who "Lights kpoli". should not be taken seriously because it is obvious the kpoli had affected your sense of reasoning..

So what she slept around before .?... Mr kpoli are you a saint yourself.?....


And if my brother wants to marry that kind of woman I'm not going to stop him . I'd rather sit the lady down and inquire from her to know if she's truly changed .. if she is then she will forever have my blessings and support...




you need help and stop smoking so that you can make sense .. pity the woman u end up with

And she will tell she is still fucking around. Just listen to yourself

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by holatin(m): 7:34am On Apr 21, 2021
Baawahala:


6 ex!,that one nah sex mates,not ex jor...even the one of 3ex,nah fvck mates...
no be small thing bro. some gas 3 ex in same street. if God can provide for me...I will leave this agege cus my future kids deserve a less evil environment. my hope on God sha. Agege is a no for raising kids

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Rhodaogunpeju(f): 8:55am On Apr 21, 2021
Dreyton36:


I'm a stoner and I'm proud of it but not an alcoholic spot the difference but that doesn't change that fact that you sound like an illiterate
You can't abuse people by what they're proud of doing bc you'll only end up stupid just like everyone right here have known you for

Your name says it all, all Rhoda na olosho
You're only defending your fellow olosho in crime and las las E sure for me like bayern munich over 2.5 say you no fit see man marry, na belle ur type dey end up with , small time you go arrange carpenter make Dem nack small kiosk for you to they sell jedi jedi and cigar plus dry gin ,for road side
Ozuor

Obama is a stoner
Fashola stoner
Davido stoner
Wizkid stoner
Zuckerberg stoner
Burnaboy stoner
Post malone stoner
Phil collins stoner
Bob marley stoner

Who am I not to be a stoner grin you expired okpo



Lights up my kpoli in peace




what have you achieved so far... the people you mentioned have done something meaningful with thier life

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 12:40pm On Apr 21, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:




Is his friend a saint too?...a woman cannot sleep around but a man can ?.... sorry Women are much wiser now . u can't cage then
Did I say a man should sleep around? Did you hear me say so? If a man lived a reckless life, and the friend to his fiancee informs her friend of his wayward past, is something wrong with that? If the fiancee thinks she can live with such a person, it's good for her. There are men that married ex prostitutes knowingly. It is their choice, and some of them are living happily. But the point is he deserves to know that ugly past. If he finds out after marriage the kind of life she lived, and starts acting funny, you people will still say he is immature.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by akaahs(m): 2:10pm On Apr 21, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:




If you've never had sex with a lady before then I'll take you seriously.. Men like you are the resources for women promiscuity .. you lying and terrible beings
Keep running Ur mouth upandawn and jumping like kangaroo. Keep equitting a man way of life to a female and we ll see who's gonna be the looser.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Unlimited4G: 3:36pm On Apr 21, 2021
I know that it's good to always be true with your closest friends..... But there are times that one should consider and view things from different angles.

Bro you messed up big time, you should have just mind your business. You just destroyed someone's relationship and the curses she actually placed are definitely going to work....Yea, 'cause right now Karma has actually paid her back for the life she lived in the past.....and that same Karma will also pay you back for what you did that very day... It might not be now or it might not manifest in your life but it might manifest in the life of your daughter.. Hers might even be on her wedding day, after you must have been very happy that your daughter will be wedded then suddenly the husband runs away on the faithful day.

You've messed up Bro, big time.....It's a guilt you'll live with for the rest of your life.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Dreyton36: 4:24pm On Apr 21, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:





what have you achieved so far... the people you mentioned have done something meaningful with thier life

And they all smoke right ?
Why didn't smoking stop them from achieving their dreams ?
Talking about my life , that's why it's a faceless forum you illiterate bc if it weren't a faceless forum I can't imagine exchanging conversations with you in the first place bc there ain't no better way to explain to an illiterate bc they'll be we understand , koshi da nu jare

Lights up my kpoli in peace
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Rhodaogunpeju(f): 5:18pm On Apr 21, 2021
Dreyton36:


And they all smoke right ?
Why didn't smoking stop them from achieving their dreams ?
Talking about my life , that's why it's a faceless forum you illiterate bc if it weren't a faceless forum I can't imagine exchanging conversations with you in the first place bc there ain't no better way to explain to an illiterate bc they'll be we understand , koshi da nu jare

Lights up my kpoli in peace



If it wasn't a faceless forum like you mentioned... you would be giving Thanksgiving for having a conversation with me

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Aderr: 10:12pm On Apr 21, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:





I pray someone does this exact thing to your daughter ..so u know how it feels .. how are you so sure everything they said about her was true..

Some men are known for giving a woman a bad image just to spite her for refusing thier advances
Don't be silly. You think the guy would just break up with his fiancee because of ordinary hearsay? He must have confronted her with the whistleblower's claims and the girl would have confessed when cornered thinking he would forgive her.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by fidtopade: 5:05pm On Apr 22, 2021
You are a foolish man!! [b][/b]
Unlimited4G:
I know that it's good to always be true with your closest friends..... But there are times that one should consider and view things from different angles.

Bro you messed up big time, you should have just mind your business. You just destroyed someone's relationship and the curses she actually placed are definitely going to work....Yea, 'cause right now Karma has actually paid her back for the life she lived in the past.....and that same Karma will also pay you back for what you did that very day... It might not be now or it might not manifest in your life but it might manifest in the life of your daughter.. Hers might even be on her wedding day, after you must have been very happy that your daughter will be wedded then suddenly the husband runs away on the faithful day.

You've messed up Bro, big time.....It's a guilt you'll live with for the rest of your life.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Unlimited4G: 7:24pm On Apr 22, 2021
fidtopade:
You are a foolish man!! [b][/b]

Same with you Bro.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by TOPCRUISE(m): 9:33am On Apr 23, 2021
This is a blessing to a man who wants to marry a decent woman and has been prayerful. But demons that amount to 95% of this thread oppose this notion
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by TOPCRUISE(m): 9:38am On Apr 23, 2021
BeautyO:





Check your sister too she might be a dirty bitch
Check your brother too he might be marrying a dirty professional community hoe
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by BeautyO(f): 10:00am On Apr 23, 2021
TOPCRUISE:

Check your brother too he might be marrying a dirty professional community hoe



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