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Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by wpadmin: 12:33pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Many reasons |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Austin179: 12:33pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
simply because family problem no day finish 1 Like |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by helinues: 12:33pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Not everyone is interested in familiarity OBALOLA55 3 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Righteousness2(m): 12:34pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
The Brother or Sister I have is the one that Believes what I Believe. The Brother, Sister I have is the one that Loves JESUS! That's how I Live. 1 Like |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Sailorsoldier1: 12:34pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
The only family I know is me, my wife and my kids... Then my mum n dad....all others na OYO 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by jaxxy(m): 12:35pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
mamagee3: Family is who is there for u and cares for u. Anything else is unnecessary baggage. Now seeing ur relatives shud be based on how much of a family u are with them. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by tunary(m): 12:35pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Because of their wickedness 1 Like 3 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Image123(m): 12:35pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
It largely depends on upbringing and financial status of the two parties. You tend to flow with people you are compatible with. If the two parties are compatible, they will flow. If there is incompatibilities like in mindsets, religion, finance, education, in-laws etc, they will not flow. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by kimez419: 12:35pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Because many believe most extended families are witches and wizards 1 Like |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by LORDKing001: 12:36pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Tony142:Bill gate |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by LORDKing001: 12:37pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Righteousness2:I believe in Jesus. Can I get 5k from you awaiting your reply 9 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Tony142: 12:38pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
1 Like |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Wolfeye: 12:38pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
LauraClasikVibe: The only useful comment in the whole of this thread. But some people won’t realize till 2030. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by hibeebeeking: 12:39pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Its complicated. Don't compare your family to others. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Righteousness2(m): 12:42pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
LORDKing001:No 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by dederocs(m): 12:42pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
mamagee3:Normal, love them from far...if you no get money dem no know you, and they are selfish, some not all. |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by BareFacedLies(m): 12:43pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
mamagee3: Mamagee3 you made it to front page This is worth celebrating. I will be merciless when next I catch you in Za oza room 1 Like |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by humberjade: 12:44pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
9jayes: Exactly...it happens alot...especially when their parents start murmuring into their ears...they start comparing 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by dododawa1: 12:45pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
dey your LINE and I dey my LINE method 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Unified07: 12:47pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
that's one of the most precious things Nigerians threw away in the name of civilisation and mind your business as for me my cousins are my best friends nothing beats a united extended families nothing 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by ikorodureporta: 12:47pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Parents are the cause. They don't bring them together during visitation, meetings, making calls, etc |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by valentineuwakwe(m): 12:48pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
so many reasons but first it has to do with orientation from parents to there kids about there other cousins.....whatever parents tells there kids at young age tend to sink deep, so they may not want to come close especially if its those cousins that stay abroad. another is ill treatment..if you have ever gone to your uncle's and aunties for assistance and they refuse, you may not want to come close to there kids, your cousins. what they hear daily about us here in this part of the world, especially if they stay abroad lastly, what they must have heard about you. so everyone tend to stay away from you! never mind about extended families not coming close or staying far from you, just be focus and succeed in life first, then your success will attract them and everyone to you! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Savagethe21st(m): 12:48pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
humilitypays:humility where have you been? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by BareFacedLies(m): 12:48pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by ordovicianonly(f): 12:53pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
To avoid unnecessary dramas,taxing ,see finish and haters . Families have plenty dramas especially the toxic ones So the best thing to have your sanity is to totally avoid them 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by BareFacedLies(m): 12:54pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
LauraClasikVibe: No be this one we dey talk for here 4 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by alexola20(m): 12:54pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Me wey don cut off every family member nko? 2 Likes |
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