Escabado:
A guy should. But unfortunately marriage doesn't benefit men . Is better u do baby mama things . Nigerian girls of today are so un-productive and very u.suuless. Marrying them is a waste of money because you will regret it at last . She will cheat on u and bring other men children for you to raise . So young men should be careful.

It is better not to remain single than become a baby mama and papa. Think of posterity. All of una want make we add more thugs to the one we have already abi?

ishowdotgmail:
God knows girls no dey use me play. I select who I Dey date sef and friend zone many.

Most time I just imagine some guys without a single girlfriend while I can count 8 to be the ones I’m dating.


Life no balance

Life no balance also means those guys may be way ahead of you in other parts of life

Geonigga:
I started dating one babe so sometime in October, 2019, within two months interval into the relationship, this babe was giving me an ultimatum to get married to her or she will end the relationship, she even offered to support the wedding financially, but I stood my ground insisting that we have to know each other well that her request is very premature. Do u know that after December, 2019 this babe broke up with me. Immediately after the eased of lockdown last year, she did her wedding with another guy.

She was probably dating the other guy as well all along.

Can you blame them? When many guys just want to 'date' for free sex and move on to the next lady. They need to sift through the many unserious ones to find the serious ones.

Evolutionlove:


Only Adults who are "GREAT FOOLS" still dedicate most of their time reasoning about Vagina People and are still yet to know most of the Gimmicks about the Vagina People In Year 2021......

Haha

Nigerian girls of today are not worth doing for

Many of them have noting to offer you as s struggling man

@womenareapes1
@mosdii

zicoraads:

**coughs loudly**

LOL!!!

Don’t spend on them atall be smart. I just regret hooking up with one recently.they play both sides but will end up regretting at the end of the day when they are 35 and no one will ask them out again

BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

Even in marriage, I mean those who already took vows, are still crushing on one guy or the other and that is why they end up comparing their spouses with someone anonymous(who he might not know or have met). Sometimes they don't say it out, but act it. This is one fundamental thing destroying the happiness in many homes... Unmet expectations.

So you guys seriously want girls not to have backup plans?
There are several reasons why any reasonable girl should have as many backup plans as possible, same as guys:
-it's less painful to endure heartbreak
-ladies don't have so many years to build a new relationship if one crash
-taste changes. If you have a chairman as number one now, if you're not married who says governor or president cannot take over
-when you see antie caro at age 40 unmarried, u go learn from her mistake of keeping to one man in her youthful years.

The only advise is:
For ladies, they should do it discreetly. Nothing puts men off as a lady keeping too many men.
For men, keep as many as possible openly, ladies love competition much more than money.

Came4amod:
Make money and let the jobless ones figure plan A to Z .. u will be everyone’s plan A )

and u forget not everyone will be rich

BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

Lmao
I've always had reserve
But not up to 7 just 2 or 3 cus to maintain them is a bit expensive......

That's why Admin hide my ID increase day by day

Came4amod:
Make money and let the jobless ones figure plan A to Z .. u will be everyone’s plan A )

I just love this....

Any guy that can keep 3-4 girls at least,,,, should kuku open an orphanage or charity home

My answer is no, because guys ain’t that emotionally frustrated, they heal faster, the have the heart to move on, the best part is they can get another catch at every second especially good ones but girls always fell for same category of guys that will ditch or cheat them.
Proud to be a man, we muve...

BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

Damaged soul, go get help from a psychologist, or psychiatrist, and stop spoiling the institution marriage, lot of guys are enjoying their homes, if you are frustrated go get help, and see for help please .








quote author=Escabado post=101098824]A guy should. But unfortunately marriage doesn't benefit men . Is better u do baby mama things . Nigerian girls of today are so un-productive and very u.suuless. Marrying them is a waste of money because you will regret it at last . She will cheat on u and bring other men children for you to raise . So young men should be careful. [/quote]

ishowdotgmail:
God knows girls no dey use me play. I select who I Dey date sef and friend zone many.

Most time I just imagine some guys without a single girlfriend while I can count 8 to be the ones I’m dating.


Life no balance

The 8 girls don increase money for your account, buy you land or cars, nor improve your business, outside of the personal effort that has been bringing in money for you?

Make I burst your brain small, you and the guys wey no get girlfriends nor different, if u look am deeply. In fact, if those guys wey nor get girlfriend know d kain wahala wey dem escape when compared with the 8 wahalas wey u carry, dem go rush enter church go give testimony.

Man wey still dey celebrate women as im achievement for life no get purpose. No insult directed at you.

If one babe like make she get 10 boys as back up plans, her problem, my own na to keep improving on myself. If any girl want leave, her problem, I set so much standard that I can't condone shits more than once, you try it second time, you're dating yourself. Girls plenty. Time to even keep more than one girlfriend is enough to spend on meaningful engagement that would better one's life. No time to double date. One man one woman.

Karozy:


In my own opinion it’s not necessary, it’s insecurity that will make a guy wanna go such direction, it’s about meeting the right person and trusting God for things to work out, the truth is a girl most times will always have several admirers that’s the truth so guys have to live with that.

a guy will also have several admirers especially if he is rich, ladies should live with that

ImmaculateJOE:
I have 15 girls on the pipeline for marriage.

You are the realest G

Someone7:
Can you blame them? When many guys just want to 'date' for free sex and move on to the next lady. They need to sift through the many unserious ones to find the serious ones.

you meant sleep with many unserious ones?

babyfaceafrica:
you meant sleep with many unserious ones?

Use them to kill boredom

BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

1: You are only a Financial and Sperm backup for her life
2: If you are lucky, you will find one who does not have Babalawo or white candles from C&S or Cele. in that case you will just join the queue of her "helpers"
3: If she is employed and successful - then you know that you are a piece of furniture in her house

Many girls have the same plan and there are many mugu guys roaming the streets of lagos with their wallets open to spend and impress.

Came4amod:
Make money and let the jobless ones figure plan A to Z .. u will be everyone’s plan A )

If you use money to date or marry a lady especially Nigerian lady.the glue n togetherness only last as long as there is money which is not guaranteed in our today's society.

Skepticus:


The 8 girls don increase money for your account, buy you land or cars, nor improve your business, outside of the personal effort that has been bringing in money for you?

Make I burst your brain small, you and the guys wey no get girlfriends nor different, if u look am deeply. In fact, if those guys wey nor get girlfriend know d kain wahala wey dem escape when compared with the 8 wahalas wey u carry, dem go rush enter church go give testimony.

Man wey still dey celebrate women as im achievement for life no get purpose. No insult directed at you.

I’m doing fine in my business my brother. I date ladies with sense

Came4amod:
Make money and let the jobless ones figure plan A to Z .. u will be everyone’s plan A )

This is the best plan to attract mainly golddiggers... And don't forget that women are drama queens, they know how to act. It's basically in their genetics...

You make money and then you think you will attract only the good ones? As if she won't still cheat on you with the driver or gateman...

PrimadonnaO:
It doesn't work like that.

For me a girl should have back up plans to avoid ending up as a so called evening newspaper. I am not advocating for multiple sexual partners have one serious bobo you are planning future with buh don sha chase other guys away from you be on cool terms with them in case bobo disappoint tomorrow.
Nor because of boyfriend pursue husband same should apply for guys.

Na Igbo girls sabi this thing pass, money mongers, if a guy should have more than five girlfriends he may not cope because its difficult to maintain and satisfy their demands

BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

Edit your write-up and remove the marriage from it.

Boss life is tuff, but I believe we have past WAEC and JAMB once and for all

pauladonis:



This is the best plan to attract mainly golddiggers... And don't forget that women are drama queens, they know how to act. It's basically in their genetics...

You make money and then you think you will attract only the good ones? As if she won't still cheat on you with the driver or gateman...

Obviously u don’t understand what I said .. I said make money .. I didn’t say use money to find love .. 2 different things .. read carefully again