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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by obicmag(m): 9:48am On Apr 26, 2021 |
That guy does not stay abroad. I will advise you as a sister, kindly avoid that guy and cut off the relationship. He is simply a gold digger. You may regret it if you continue with that guy. 3 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by harjay1986: 9:48am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Grace456: try to know if the man even have a Passport.... to me the guy is a fraudster okay he may have the opportunity to have travel abroad but the guy is on a mission to rob yu ...... it may takes him a year or two bfor he play his winning card on yu 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Originalsly: 9:48am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Grace456: Didn't you just like your baby father anyway? .... with a two year old child you shouldn't be on the way to make the same mistakes again. Times are hard ... you keep advertising you own a duplex and are financially independent... free to travel.... you will attract leeches. Just saying. 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Spidermon: 9:48am On Apr 26, 2021 |
What I could pick out of every thing is that the OP has been dickmatized. She dey feel the bad guy. |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by shiki(m): 9:49am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Grace456: Madam that guy/man is fake and don't let him deceive you in the name of marriage, and pls don't be desperate to get a husband to avoid making a big mistake. I think this relationship has hit the rock, but in your next relationship, don't let a man know that you have a house till two of you get married 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Prince4945(m): 9:49am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Y'all should try to reverse the gender and read this again |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Itznam(m): 9:49am On Apr 26, 2021 |
should I tell u d truth? run for ur life if not that ur duplex u go sell am within 2yrs of marriage 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by lastempero: 9:50am On Apr 26, 2021 |
I dont know your relationship with the yanky guy and how good he is but youbsaid he will still go back to the states, so i just feel it wouldn't be nice for him to rent an apartment if he is going to travel back . |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by SweetCunt97(f): 9:50am On Apr 26, 2021 |
morule20:Where have you seen a man going to stay with d woman? Is that how it's don in ur village? 3 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by mysteryman2014: 9:52am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Grace456: Gold diggers all, ....run |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by SweetCunt97(f): 9:52am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Prince4945:When reversed its norm. Thats how it should b. The lady goes to her husband house and submit to him. You cant come into my house and still expect me to submit. Taa 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Coldie(m): 9:52am On Apr 26, 2021 |
The guy is deceiving u. Just listen to your story, he lives in the USA, but doesn't have a house so he wants to move in with u. To make matters more funny, someone that lives in the usa that's supposed to have money you are the one supporting him financially. You need to be careful as you have a daughter, if u make that kind mistake it would be too late, no go marry man way go use your daughter shine o 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Nobody: 9:54am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Grace456:Don't Allow Him Stay In Ur Duplex. I Perceive There Things Abt Himself He Is Hiding 4rm U. Don't Be A Victim Of Ur Previous Of Relationship. Sister, Be Wise. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Nobody: 9:55am On Apr 26, 2021 |
While seeking love, Seek safety too. 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by KLMN: 9:55am On Apr 26, 2021 |
My sister, you have done very well by not allowing any of them to catch down on you. I will like to advise you to henceforth be disguising to the subsequent suitors, that you stay with someone (like friend or uncle or family friend), and do not make them to know that you live in your own apartment. Do also avoid showing of wealth in order to get the real love of your life and not the gold diggers. Another thing you can do is to rent out the apartment and take up a smaller apartment, so that you will be very free. More also, do not allow any man into your house until you people have gone very deep into the relationship. Since you would have told 'him' that that you live with someone may be in an uncle's place or friend's place, there will not be any pressure on you for such a visit in your house. Don't allow any one to live in your house and ended up selling your house on your head. Also, most time try and avoid driving out. Above all, you need to be very close to God and let him direct you in all your ways. You need to marry and you will marry, because "body no be firewood", as they use to say. If any advice comes to mind, will let you know. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by lastchild: 9:55am On Apr 26, 2021 |
it doesn't necessarily mean that he's playing games (he could be) but I think he's broke 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by NobodyHoly: 9:56am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Here is my take. That guy is an unserious fellow. Jilt him and move on before falling into eternal trap. On your baby daddy, move closer to him get on or two more children from him and seal up. Since you are okay you can always enjoy your life without emotional attachement. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by NiRfreak(m): 9:57am On Apr 26, 2021 |
They are fake if they try to ghost you, form quarell, or manipulate you even when they were wrong...... You should not bother. Your priority if you are interested in relationship is to use every means possible to screen off fake people. And your strategy so far is working. Stay with your gut. Don't bulge. . If you allow their manipulation get you that u go apologizing or excusing their behavior. U will regret it. Yes. . Face your life. If u are lonely or sex starved....u can date for sex and afterwards..ghost the flings before they become problem. .. Get busy. The right person won't fail to answer with proof simple questions like: "what do you do?..where do u work...where is your house? where are ur family?". if those simple questions become too difficult to answer...Run..Run..don't look back. He's a daylight player. . This is an advice from a red-piller. 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by thinkmoney(m): 9:57am On Apr 26, 2021 |
squash47:Tell the man the truth to his face one day...please do it. Beasts everywhere 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by MarvelousMe: 9:57am On Apr 26, 2021 |
So what exactly do you know for sure about this man outside the things he has told you about himself? You met him online, do you know where he is from, any of his family members, where they stay? Can’t show you any proof to back up his claim on where he works, maybe he probably hopes what you saw on social media is enough to convince you How long have you known him that he wants to marry you? Maybe he comes around and sees you are comfortable and wants to use the marriage proposal route to leech off you. He sees you are being careful and starts acting up most definitely to force your hand. Maybe you let slip you were a little desperate for a man in your life? My advice... Thank God you have your senses intact, please discontinue immediately whatever it is you have with this man. He is clearly not who or what he claims. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by onyenatruchi: 9:57am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Nkea di kwa very risky, but na for people wey get time sha ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by ugbanante: 9:58am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Put ur eyes and heart on hold, open up ur Brain... The outcome will pacify your anxiety. |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by EagleSquare1(m): 9:59am On Apr 26, 2021 |
There are lots of good men out there also looking out for who to settle with. Stay patient and very observant, and he will walk into your life, by God's grace. Don't fall for the trappings of flashy guys. Some have packaged themselves in order to target single (and probably successful) ladies like you. There may be a good guy somewhere trying to stay low key so as to be natural, and watching out for a good woman. I hope you are truly ready to settle down to what marriage entails. In all of these, however, your 2-year-old us a jet factor in whatever decision you take. You need a man who will live our child like his. And don't be too quick to be captured by a man who pretends to live your child. He may be trying to use that as a window to your heart. Watch out for true love. Shine your eyes, as people will say. And put God first in this quest or decision making time. Wishing you all the best! PLEASE GIVE US REGULAR UPDATE Grace456: 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by MrCover: 10:00am On Apr 26, 2021 |
NengiWIDEtoto: God Bless You for this Question |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by ImaIma1(f): 10:01am On Apr 26, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: Yes o. After the wedding, they escort the groom to the wife's house. That's how they do in his village. 6 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Azuriver: 10:02am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Just be careful of the wolves in sheep clothing 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Nobody: 10:02am On Apr 26, 2021 |
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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by tonyashburton: 10:04am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Dump his sorry ass.He's a scrub and a freeloader. He probably lives in Agboyi-Ketu and is forming Yankee returnee. Focus on your daughter and your mental health and leave men alone for now please. 3 Likes |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by michlins(m): 10:05am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Midas01:that's why it's difficult to be a woman. The game is rigged in favor of a man from day one |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by kurlz(f): 10:07am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Grace456: See don't try it. Besides you are single mum. That secure your child's future o. Some men are just there to drain you and take what belongs to you under the guise of love. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Muslimsworldng: 10:07am On Apr 26, 2021 |
Grace456:You made the right decision to be careful, if he can prove that he is who he said he is then be extra careful 1 Like |
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