Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

Op what’s your problem? Don’t u appreciate her honesty?
If she loves you den what’s your problem? Ok u wan follow us dey date non virgin 9ja girls wey go tell u it’s my first time and letter it will be dia 58 time.
I believe honesty is very well important in relationships, had she lied I know u would be happy.
Ok den let her be. Na girl wey don run 6 abortions and have put to bed for 3 different guys ( 9ja girl, I don’t really mean to say that there isn’t any good 9ja girl oooh. Don’t miss understand me). And letter ur children no go be ur biological children.
Na dat one u dey find?
Guy use ur head. Every one don give u advice here but choose rightly.

crystalmoon:
man sorry for this but u are simp yes u are a bloody simp

Kids of now a days don't even know what SIMPING is all about!

You disguise your immaturity in the name of been an alpha male but deep down you know you're been myopically immature to handle certain truths, facts and realities.

You my friend are a bloody immature myopic Simp disguising as a wanna be alpha male.

Kids of now a days lack emotional intelligence and maturity!

I won't reply you no more, except you have something more sensible to say.

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

What she told you is the usual pattern in western countries. The girls on many occasions would have had multiple sexual partners even as teenagers. I know a girl with 5 children from 5 different fathers. You can’t find your match over there. Just don’t ask about their past if you don’t want to have a heart attack.

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

You should be thankful she's been truthful....ask any Nigerian girl that question, you'll be shocked if she would honest as this white babe. If a Nigerian girl said she has dated 10 guys in the, just include she has dated 30...

camri:
ukababy. how is your body count?

64, with 15 abortions

bros if you nor like her again cos of her past .abeg hook me up,cos m so interested.

Offpoint1:
Lol,

An average white/black American female start having sex at 11 and the guys by 13.

So you're lucky she only slept with 10 men, some of them can't count.

Sex is just like normal meal to white folks, they can have it with even a total stranger.

Was going through some YouTube videos where the YouTuber was asking random ladies and guys at what age they lost their virginity... 98% of the ladies lost it between age 11 and 14, only few lost it between 14 and 18.
And they guys lost theirs between 14 and 19.

Well said.

You better marry and go abroad, or u will live to regret the opportunity on a platter.
..
Truth is Oyinbo don't marry for long...there's high chance she will divorce you later...so enjoy yourself and get urself to America first. that's the most important. don't be dumb

Foodqueen:
Don't mind the girl jare.

She doesn't know you are a Nigerian and Nigerians don't like the truth.

That's mostly human nature. We would want to hear the truth when we could hardly deal with it.

Why ask a question when you know you’re likely not able to handle the answer?
Some things are best left unsaid.

olamide0147:

Future keee u dia, survival first nigga, if u know u know... My fiancé is 55 year old bro all that matters is the card after that u can free her and get the girl of your dream

This is why people like you end up miserable in life.Kwontinue

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

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What difference does it make?

She could easily had lied to you that she is a virgin until you learn the hard way.

Either way, you will still come here to b1tch and whine.

There are many fish in the ocean. Stop disturbing our lives
/

Jeon:


mtchwee

Lmao

Foodqueen:
Don't mind the girl jare.

She doesn't know you are a Nigerian and Nigerians don't like the truth.

You nailed it

Nairaland and bad mouthing... which one is Saint petersburg...LOLLLL

tolufase:
Since her past disgusts you, let her be now. If you're looking for saint, kindly go to saint petersburg.

These girls of today are noting but hos ....a girl of such age have such body count

Women ...una no be am after if person de curse una say una be hoe...una hi start to de vex

Xenry:
Any day I go see an opportunity like this, I won't look back, na one-way journey. It's like you ain't tried of being a Nigerian.

Who cares how many body counts she has all O want is green card to leave this country sharp sharp

All of Dem are all d same ...hoes but as for me I prefer Yankee gals because u will gain sometin in return somehow than our useless country gals who are pathetic tricksters and morons.

10 guys in the past is way too much if you ask me.but you said something that got my attention. You said you're a virgin,if truly you're a virgin then you deserve one.you can use her to pave your way through to the USA. But the fact that she has been with 10 guys before and this 10 guys have their way through on her is a total turn off for me. I don't know about you ..

Matheusmartin:
..
Ok.
She belong to the streets.

It's not your duty to try and clean her up.

Be wise.

She has green card anything to leave this country is a welcome idea me to I will get one even if she is 50years

brainmax2000:
This op you no get sense oyibo body count no matter to them but if dem love you dem go love you die, na why slawomir ppl dey take advantage of them..

I'll rather date and marry a non virgin american woman (white oh) than marry a non virgin Nigerian woman
Nigerian girls no just get anything to offer

Lol

Onyi22:
Stupid He -goat na him u be, you think say na only Nigeria girls dy sleep sleep around ko?
Oyibo girls na them worst pass..
Green card kill you there

It's better to marry oyinbo of 50years and get a green card than to marry ingrate Nigerian girl

ukaface:
I thought it's a normal thing to say ' Nigerian girls are useless'. You leave Naija girls go meet oyibo, now you are disgusted.

Think about the green card na

Guy, sex is nothing to those yankee babes. If you are using that as your key performance indicator (KPI). You're on the wrong pact.

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

Can you just pass this girl to me I'm also in my early 20s

Indispensable85:
It's called PAST don't you get it? My wife didn't have the best PAST when we met but she's the best wife I could ever have wished for. A woman with a heart of gold,kind to a fault, God fearing, totally submissive, absolutely compassionate,full of love..etc.... she's been an amazing woman. There are people with beautiful past but they end up as monsters in marriage. Your past doesn't define you.

Just say you are lucky and thank God

Hardgun:
Boss u get luck collect the green card and leave her

Oil dey yur head

camri:
about Nigerian girls. I don fork Janet pussy tire and am still the only one she has slept with.

Don't brag about that what of if she is given it to security man

You don't want her for genuine reasons, yet have the nerve to say she disgusts you?

Nawa o.... Even many of my naija exes don date or Bleep past 100 guys and all of Dem na under 25...

Wetin i dey talk sef ?

Even my recent ex don do 8 abortions... I dey scoop the truth from Dem Las las

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Love conquers all things.
You're lucky to have a woman who willingly said the truth about her past.

Would you have rather she told you she had only one like typical Nigerian girls?

For your tomorrow, either you love her genuinely or stop leading her on.
Be careful with things of the heart.