| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by deavicky(m): 10:02pm On May 01, 2021 |
OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:
I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)
Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.
I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?
A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).
Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!
MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.
Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k!  Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.
I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!
.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.
Able readers, is my final decision a good one? you don't believe in ifa and u also do not believe in God. What then do u believe. Because if u believe in God you would know that you and ur wife should be in agreement before taking some drastic decisions. From where I stand she has the ability to reason better than you, instead of u to listen to her, you are here forming man. Even if u run to Israel u will end up making all those silly mistakes you have been making. Try not to take that loan for the car if she does not agree with you because she may have a better analysis/reason than you as ur only need for the car is to avoid jumping into public vehicle. U just marry and u talking about divorce. I repeat listen to her. There is a reason why they say two head is better than one. |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Taiwojon(m): 10:02pm On May 01, 2021 |
well!!!!
this is the main reason why we need to pray before choosing a life partner in our life.
sir
stay with her and convert her to Christ but I am not sure if you are born again yourself so if not, Repent from your sins first and take the matter to God and not to nairaland
remember God hate divorce |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by FireKing: 10:03pm On May 01, 2021 |
OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:
I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)
Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.
I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?
A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).
Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!
MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.
Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.
I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!
.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.
Able readers, is my final decision a good one? My guy with all ur explanation na u be the spirit husband (ogbanje) wey dem send to spoil your wife life..... Men these days wey dey do guy don enter serious fasting and prayer for better woman like ur wife wey dey see road and future unlike those ones wey don throw away their future with bone straight... WARNING! WARNING!! WARNING!!! if you leave ur wife your life will never remain the same again..... Good luck 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Spin4: 10:03pm On May 01, 2021 |
HONESTFACT101:
Abeg you fit predict if naija go better ......signing out |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by malvisguy212: 10:06pm On May 01, 2021 |
OfeAchi:
The moment I prayed about her, I began to have doubts in me on why I shouldn't marry her. Besides a minister friend of mine told me that I'm not supposed to pray to God for a wife since I'm not a pastor/minister. He says we simply make our choice of wife and God blesses the marriage. wrong. you should have pray for sign... the sign is the good favor your wife carry. |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Nobody: 10:08pm On May 01, 2021 |
Follow Her Instruction(s), No Dey Do Strong Head. |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by michlins(m): 10:09pm On May 01, 2021 |
Some women are really suffering in this life oh. To think that someone's daughter is cohabitating with this one is scary.
God give me such woman please 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Mozino007(m): 10:12pm On May 01, 2021 |
Missyajoke:
What you're saying does not relate at all so a woman warning her husband means she's a witch abii Ok pls read it again but now slowly Oyaa!(grasscutter). |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Toks2008(m): 10:12pm On May 01, 2021 |
OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:
I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)
Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.
I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?
A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).
Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!
MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.
Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.
I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!
.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.
Able readers, is my final decision a good one? Guy you no get problem o.. Infact you have hit jackpot. All the advise she will give you will be in your favour.. Stick to her and love her with all your heart.. Laslas you will be glad you did. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by PrisonEscapee(m): 10:13pm On May 01, 2021 |
This type of mentality is part of the reasons why Nigeria is the way it is today. How can you be this uninformed in this internet age?
God forbid. You deserve like 50 hot slaps to reset your brain. 1 Like 
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| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by deavicky(m): 10:14pm On May 01, 2021 |
FireKing:
My guy with all ur explanation na u be the spirit husband (ogbanje) wey dem send to spoil your wife life..... Men these days wey dey do guy don enter serious fasting and prayer for better woman like ur wife wey dey see road and future unlike those ones wey don throw away their future with bone straight...
WARNING! WARNING!! WARNING!!!
if you leave ur wife your life will never remain the same again..... Good luck don't mind the baaga |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by deavicky(m): 10:17pm On May 01, 2021 |
FireKing:
My guy with all ur explanation na u be the spirit husband (ogbanje) wey dem send to spoil your wife life..... Men these days wey dey do guy don enter serious fasting and prayer for better woman like ur wife wey dey see road and future unlike those ones wey don throw away their future with bone straight...
WARNING! WARNING!! WARNING!!!
if you leave ur wife your life will never remain the same again..... Good luck don't mind the maad boy |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by smasher1(m): 10:17pm On May 01, 2021 |
OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:
I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)
Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.
I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?
A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).
Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!
MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.
Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.
I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!
.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.
Able readers, is my final decision a good one? Let me tell you. You are an olodo. Your wife is more brilliant than you Instead of you to take advantage of this great opportunity, you want to leave your diamond and go look for garbage, a wife with a lower IQ than you. Whatever decision you make, I beg, don't suffer the poor lady. She's completely innocent. You are the terrible person in that marriage. I don't know you. I don't support women than men, I only advised you based on your write-up I wish you the best 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by smasher1(m): 10:20pm On May 01, 2021 |
michlins:
Some women are really suffering in this life oh. To think that someone's daughter is cohabitating with this one is scary.
God give me such woman please I'm praying and begging Almighty God for a wise woman 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by wiloy2k8(m): 10:21pm On May 01, 2021 |
Baba you be goat . What’s so hard to listen to her and do what she says . You guys are married ..: this one na full pride . Get out joor OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:
I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)
Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.
I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?
A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).
Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!
MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.
Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.
I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!
.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.
Able readers, is my final decision a good one? |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Nnamaka1: 10:23pm On May 01, 2021 |
If you relocate to another country, they will use frustration to bring you back home. Your only bet right now is to give your life to Christ and let Christ be your lord and Master. There is no demilitarized zone in this world, you either automatically on the devil side or by choice you choose to be on Jesus Christ side. OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:
I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)
Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.
I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?
A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).
Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!
MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.
Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.
I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!
.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.
Able readers, is my final decision a good one? |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by veekid(m): 10:23pm On May 01, 2021 |
Who go come marry her after you jonze her? Who? |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by udoka55555: 10:24pm On May 01, 2021 |
Oga we are having the same problem ..
My wife gives me nice advice and anytime I chose to behave like a man of my own and go ahead with my decisions, things go badly for me.
I consult in all I do and listens to her advice, but most times it's not easy .....sometimes if feels as if she doesn't understand what I need before rejecting my decisions...ít makes me mad and I always feel like strangling her....but I have learn to keep my cool and love her for who she is....
I don't believe she is an ogbanje....I just believe she is wiser than me and have better decision making skills ...... So I àccept her decisions most time.. éven if I reject it in her presence, I will still pick it up at her back.... And if I don't, it won't even take up to two weeks and the bad result will tell....
Your true woman should be wiser than you.... remember eve became wise before adam. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Jimraz4: 10:26pm On May 01, 2021 |
You should be happy. That woman is your guardian angel. Take care of her and follow her advices she's only gifted not an ogbanje as u claim. |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by wiloy2k8(m): 10:27pm On May 01, 2021 |
angelfallz:
Lol. But he had a good financial sense before he met her na. Didn't you read that part? But he was not a millionaire |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by omoyeni37: 10:30pm On May 01, 2021 |
Oga, you are the ogbanje here sir |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by tunnex190: 10:31pm On May 01, 2021 |
This OP no get sense, no offense. I wish I had someone in my life to tell me what the outcome would be if I didn't heed the advice, maybe our life would have been better than this. You have this type of person in your life and you are posting rubbish here.
Bro, wake up. Consult her for any decision you want to make before you finally ruin your own life. She is your wife for crying out loud. My little cent. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Omoluabiii(m): 10:32pm On May 01, 2021 |
You are married, Carry your cross,
carry your ogbanje like that,
when she dey wine am for you, who you tell?
When she give you that style, no be ogbanje that time bah?
Now she z ogbanje bah?
Carry you cross, |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by asapants: 10:32pm On May 01, 2021 |
If you need a permanent solution to the issues you’re having now please Send me a message. I believe you’re a Christian. |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by smasher1(m): 10:33pm On May 01, 2021 |
OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:
I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)
Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.
I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?
A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).
Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!
MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.
Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.
I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!
.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.
Able readers, is my final decision a good one? This is one of the most stupid person I have seen on planet earth. He has a partner that gives him free advice that people pay millions for and he rejects the advice, see how it turned out badly and turns to blame the advisor for his misfortune because he took the wrong course. God help me to get a sound person like this as a wife. I promise to treat her right always. Amen 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Dreyton36: 10:33pm On May 01, 2021 |
I don see men wey they mumu but your own mumu get Weight
Ur mumu long like Wizkid account balance
How God go give you wetin many men they pray for
You they there with your dry yansh like baboon own they talk nonsense
If na me get that your woman I swear God me and Jeff bezos no go be mate for money
I go always they put her along my bombing job
I'll help like:
Me: babe do you think this client has a good account balance?
Her: yes babe u think so , enter her, get her Hot and she'll pay you well
Me: okay baby,
I go drive enter lungu, tidy one or two kpoli , buy monster energy drink, carry my oraimo mp3
Pack all of them go beach where better breeze go they blow my blokos
I go enter the client , give am better fmt make she take hold body , bill her in weeks and she must pay bc queen mother says so
Lights up my kpoli in peace 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by webm: 10:33pm On May 01, 2021 |
OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:
I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)
Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.
I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?
A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).
Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!
MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.
Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.
I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!
.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.
Able readers, is my final decision a good one? Even me would advise against those nonsense decisions of yours. It seems you lack common sense. You have a woman that's giving you good advice and yours is to always be thinking up bad advises. Crypto is risky. Car loan is risky. You have a woman that's not pushing you to buy a car and advising you to save a save your head, you turn around to call her ogbanje. You my friend is heading to wretchedness without that woman. You no get common sense and should depend on her advice else see you see poverty 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Irene222(f): 10:34pm On May 01, 2021 |
Full grown man indeed
U are not ready for marriage
Coz if u re ready u will know that sharing Ideas with ur wife is not about being a full grown man! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by miltonchux(m): 10:34pm On May 01, 2021 |
I pity you, when you are supposed to take advantage of her Gift of Intuition. Don't worry, divorce her at your Peril. Women sees things you don't see, I am talking from same experience. Goodluck keep been recalcitrant, and pray is too late to take advantage of the fortunes before you. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by bamidex28282: 10:38pm On May 01, 2021 |
The major reason behind your confusion is that you have a nagative mindset, this woman came into your life to prosper you, people will travel miles to consult a fortune teller, you have one in your house and you are complaining. Oga, tell her to cook better soup for you and fufu, eat, and call her to sit by your computer while you make financial decisions. Ask her ' honey, should I invest in business (B) or (A)?' if she replied (A) invest and see your money grow. If you like run to Japan, you will still come back oooo OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:
I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)
Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.
I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?
A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).
Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!
MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.
Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.
I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!
.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.
Able readers, is my final decision a good one? 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Emma1Oj(m): 10:40pm On May 01, 2021 |
Lol... laugh wan kill me here o... Bros pls be calming down!!! kai, Nairaland eh... |
| Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by acevic: 10:42pm On May 01, 2021 |
This is quite funny and straightforward.
Have you for once thought that you should speak with your wife before taking some steps as a family?
Think more positively. To me, your wife seems like a smart person. You write up clearly shows that she’s tried to offer you alternative ideas every time she opposed yours.
Forget ogbanje level and listen to your wife. Work with her and your life will become easier.
E be like say you like suffer. |
