Bornsinner7:
Yes.. she was in master and I was still in professional..

And you know how slow the progress of professional is..

Funny dude... u still dey remember 2go.

BKsoul:
How many of her son did she name after you? And i hope you know that anyday your wife finds out that you named her daughter after an ex, is the day peace and love will leave your marriage? Think twice bro.

Relax buddy... there's nothing wrong with his decision.

GeneralPula:

Lord is your strength bro.. Keep pullin, one day your fish hook go grab fish..

I tell ya...Amen to that, Sir!

.

You say wahala be like watin oh?

[quote author=NnamdiN post=101322192]Medical doctor
Me : Corper shun
Truly loved me, was 2 years older
But I knew it wasn't gonna last, coz buhari was dealing with us then and life after service was highly uncertain.
She's happily married now with 2 healthy kids and living very very very very well.

Meanwhile buhari still has 2 years to finish me kpatakpa .Lol

obinna58:

I feel the pain, one of the reason I remained single and keep on chasing the money.

I got in love once, I had to struggling out to keep my head straight even though it's not my wish.


I feel the only reason I should fall in love is because I made money.

Money is important, I actually saw real love, but I can't suffer her because of love
She was raised comfortably
But we move

Depressed101:
your last statement is a bad move when your wife discovers you names your daughter after your ex

My wife, my daughter!
She shouldn't be angry even though she's understanding

Mariangeles:


Your wife?

Yes, we are very close
There is nothing to hide

Jomoinc:
As I write this, it’s happening right now. Met her a couple of months ago. It was love at 1st sight. It was all blissful until my “I just got back” friend arrived without cash and accommodation. So I housed him. Same guy I seek advice from every time I have relationships issues managed to get her online. I knew the moment they met that I ll have issues. I was officially thrown out blocked as well. Now, they always online video calling at night. Painful part is that he does this ON MY BED. How wicked can the world be?
Any advice plsssssssss? My heart is bleeding. The betrayal is so so much.

SIMP.... You were officially thrown out and blocked abi? Just continue to accommodate him till he kills you.

If it were to be a destiny breakthrough opportunity, that's how he would betray you as well and might kill you for him to selfishly live the kind of life he wants.

Yoighaman:


"...God bless you where ever you are.. I promised to name my first daughter after you..."

Wow...this is deep.

May you find a woman that would truly love you too.

The former truly loved me, but it was just a standard issue of which she wasn't faking .

The present one loves me like no man's business, things has improved and we are happy together.

loosecanon50:


You're a real man

Thanks man
Remain blessed.

Tboysalau:

I also promised to name my first daughter after Hadiza, the issue is Genotype. we're both AS

Ehya, it's well bro
We move!

acesboy:
awwwn....too emotional

Was so painful
But I have moved on

dave4rella:


My wife, my daughter!
She shouldn't be angry even though she's understanding

ok

LMS1:
No!
We Broke Up The Sixth Day Because I Played Bet9ja With Her Makeup Money.

Hahahaha

falcon01:
I dated a girl whose father was a very wealthy man, we broke after 3 month. It's not that she is materialistic ooh but it's that the way I view 10k is different from how she sees it, she'll call me and be like if you are coming please come with soso chocolate cause she thinks I can afford it and that chocolate is like 8k to her it's just a small something but to me that's a lot or maybe she'll be like she has run out of airtime and the lowest I can send is 3k so I decided to call it off before I embarrass myself.

Lol! I feel you

Yes, back in the day. Well, I knew her when we were both teenagers and were in the same social class at the time. We reconnected in our twenties...she had a job but I was still in school. We started dating, but I was always self conscious of the fact that I didn't have what it takes to be with her. I remember one wedding I took my mom to...I didn't know she would also be there. Her and her friends were dressed super elegant and fly, but me I was wearing Timbaland's, jeans, and shirt. Lol. Honestly, I thought I would just drop my mom off...didn't know I would wait.

I could see the disappointment in her eyes, but she loved me too much...so, she asked if there was a business I could do to make money. I was already looking for like 100k to start a CD writing/music collection/DVD sale business in school and in my area, so I told her about it. The next week, she called me over to her house to collect the money. This was 2003. But the business didn't work as planned, and I just wasn't taking the whole thing serious. She changed her number after a while, and the next thing I heard was she was married. I don't blame her sha...I just wasn't confident enough...she really tried to make it work.

dave4rella:


Dated one while in school

She was from a very wealthy family

But down to earth, she never collected transport money from me, she will always buy food stuffs for me with her money while visiting..
One day she came to my house with a 2008 model of Honda accord, her family car and asked me to sell it so that we can run away with the Money,i refused and talked sense into her and she returned the car, she loved me the more and we got closer to the extent of knowing her family house, sisters etc
I would have married her, but I had no job or business or anything to introduce myself as..
And I couldn't maintain her.. So I had to slow down.. She's married and we are still friends..
God bless you where ever you are.. I promised to name my first daughter after you.

I can relate with this...I have a similar story.

falcon01:
lols... sire those features are what Attracted her to me I ain't got that much then and she I literally have gotten more money from her than than I've ever spent but my point is I the emergency help she ask me which she sees as nothing is too bug for me. you can tell your guy "if you dey come buy sugar cane for me" to her own no be sugar cane. plus I can't Pay back the favour she does to me and that's embarrassing.

KingKingKing:
No girl has commented so far, cuz they have always been of lower status in their relationships.

Some of them looking for who to rip off.

Guys stay woke!

GeneralPula:
Yeah..

When I still dey school, I met this rich lady on mobofree. The lady spoilt me with both sex and money. if she touch down for ma school then, every gooddamnn bills are on her. She was always moving with cash in her bag 300k, 400k

She took a very good care of me then damn!! I never commot school but she don already plan my life after school for me - (a good job). I was really getting along with her until she wanted me to give her belle!

Ahh, belle bawo! Na wetin cause kasala between us be that..

She now lives in Uk ... for say I give her belle then, my first born go don be 8-9years now!

Chirowman:
Yes and it wasn't easy ,I had to back out though I was the one financially in charge . I was intimidated because she has car then and I don't have one ,most times I would be feeling like giving up. because she wants me to meet up with her status quo which means me living beyond my means.And I'm not the type that love showing off , well I ghosted her so I can have my peace .

Hahahaha! I feel you bro

Ugandatales:


Hahahaha! I feel you bro

no be small thing , dating a lady who has money more than you is not easy .and they mentality some has here is that it's a man right to spend .I couldn't benefit anything from it aside spending my little resources on someone who is a liability to me . Well I ran for my life ,if things where been shared both financially and otherwise and even advise . It would have lead to marriage but having a liability is the greatest of undoing of any man , and some push you to meet up with their needs . Which makes some men to involve in evil to satisfy a a woman wants which is insatiable . I didn't come this world to die Young and to achieve only woman .

pocohantas:


So who then are the girls in the male posters stories? Aliens? Think before you type.

Lol! Well they are very rare.

Ugandatales:


I can't relate with this...I have a similar story.

It's well brother

Deydontknow:




Nah so one old female lawyer on late 40's last year during lock down for Lag want make I de shine her kpontus with fresh blood come still stingy
As I scope scope am see say nothing come out I just jakpa.
I can't sell shame de waka with my mama age mate gaining nothing... It's not done anywhere ma'am. Gracias.

Hahahaha! So why do you get angry with females when they want something in return after sex? Lol. My own case worse pass your own...the woman (5 years older than me), wanted me to be shining her kongo nonstop, she still wanted me to be giving her money.

CHoccolaTE:
Just look at the selfishness and entitlement from males on this thread.

You people want women to spend on you but start shouting "liability" when women expect you to spend on them.

Hypocrites

From what I have read so far, no guy has really said a girl was spending on him...and even those that said it happened said they felt uncomfortable.

Oshokalo:
mine happen 2012 while working as a cleaner with Accessbank,there is this cash officer really in love with me,she advice me to further my education I took a partime course and she was paying my school fees,am don with school she's lucky we got married in 2019

Wow!!! This is a romantic story.

Engrgeneral:
I met one Florida lady older than me with like 2 years during the lockdown. She had an initial experience with a naija guy who wanted to extort money from her. So she had this mentality that we are scammers in Africa. For me, i didn't have any plans of ever asking her for money. But the big issue then was she was always wanting to make video calls to me minimum of like 5 times a day with a total cumulative of minimum of 5 hours per day. It was really draining me as i kept buying data at least every day. I got so almost broke and fortunately for me, i got an electrical design job as at that time and i just lost my laptop. She was aware of my job and my need at that moment. I just asked some day if she could do some small investment in me to get a laptop, she then told me that in their culture, male take care of females. I had exhausted several hundred of thousand naira buying data and all I could get was that. Thank God that situation came up, i would have been on a long thing with the anticipation that i was gonna get any benefit. I left her and face life squarely and i am proud today it was among the most prudent decision i made. She didn't add any value to my life. Thank God for my life anyway

Wow! I know how video call chops data so I have an idea how much you must have spent on data during that time.

Fantisha:
Where una dey see this type of love sef?

You get it when you least expect it

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