My last 3 relatnships crashd due to d fact dt d girls didn't ve any real feelngs for me,dey were jst forcng it,n i adored them to a fault, on the other hand,girls i don't care about or ve any love for re always d ones madly in luv wt me,presently ve got 2 of them on me n they won't let go despite my cold atitude 2wards dem.i realy nd som1 i wld luv in return cos am nt getng younger,wat do i do?pls i nd ur advise,

190:

Hug a transformer so your problems would be over quicker than expected

You're a cargo! But you know that already.
@Op,
Life ain't fair. You either lose or win.

Keep falling in luv.

You may hit your target soon.

u love the wrong once and hate the right once.
if i may ask on what do u base ur love on?

Beync:

u love the wrong once and hate the right[b] once[/b].
if i may ask on what do u base your love on?

Na real ONCE

Beync:

u love the wrong once and hate the right once.
if i may ask on what do u base your love on?

Yes. What really do u base your love on? Looks like physical appearance & 'seemingly' good qualities always attract you. Don't fall in love so easily. Try to take your time no matter de attraction. By doing so, u will be able to know if the other person feels de same way you do.

You could try associating yourself with their friends that you have nothing for and you'll see that they'll naturally come to you. Have you tried being the mr nice jerk? Really works for me but don't overdo it. Being a jerk,teasing girls is a good way to attract them more and also depending on the level of your intelligence. These two methods really work for me sha

poster next time you gotta watch out first b4 falling in love.

I think you are reaching for more than you can handle at the moment, you either upgrade yourself then go for it or stay where you are and reach within your means.
Birds of a feather flock together !

Op, are u 4 real? Open u eyes and look 4 real things in ladies(Good character, neatness, good cook, good on bed) apart frm that wat else do u want? 2 hell with beauty and no good character.

Perhaps you have been expressing yourself too early in the relationship. Take your time with them, even the ones you are attracted to. Let them want your love before giving it to them, else you'll give it too soon and they'll certainly reject it. . .

I realy appreciate this.i think u re very right.tnx

Wislet:

Yes. What really do u base your love on? Looks like physical appearance & 'seemingly' good qualities always attract you. Don't fall in love so easily. Try to take your time no matter de attraction. By doing so, u will be able to know if the other person feels de same way you do.

@OP

PUNK!!

MAN THE FV<K UP!! Don't listen to any of the females in this thread. Be that a-hole that you truly are inside and they'll keep coming back.

Wislet:

Yes. What really do u base your love on? Looks like physical appearance & 'seemingly' good qualities always attract you. Don't fall in love so easily. Try to take your time no matter de attraction. By doing so, u will be able to know if the other person feels de same way you do.

dats exactly wat i mean

@190 all erros and ommisions accepted by me

Freiburger:

poster next time you gotta watch out first b4 falling in love.

Well said

you are not the only one my dear don't feel bad we always love the ones who leave us and leave the ones who love us but at the end you will find your missing rib that is a fact

190:

Hug a transformer so your problems would be over quicker than expected

190,u just they make me laught

Natasha,,:

you are not the only one my dear don't feel bad we always love the ones who leave us and leave the ones who love us    but at the end you will find your missing rib that is a fact 

@natasha,but y shd that always be the case,tnx 4 ur concern al d same,am gr8tful.

intelligen:

@natasha,but y shd that always be the case,tnx 4 your concern al d same,am gr8tful.

awwwwwwwww baby this is not the end you shouldn't give up okay I want to believe you are still young and still have time to locate the right girl, look all of us want thesame thing the only difference is we take different roads which leads us to our different problem I want you to remember this ''life never leaves us empty if it ask us to put something down then its because it wants us to pick up something better. Now baby wipe your tears if there is any I think it is better that they revealed to you they don't love you as for me one of my fears Is to be in love with someone who doesn't love me but acts like he does. You should be happy that those girls have gone away in other to create space for they right girl just think of it this way okay I know its not easy even I am going through problems like this

honey such is life and nature as a whole
the fact that you are falling in love with the wrong types now doesn't mean no one is gonna be capable of sharing mutual feeling with you
its all about time, for some the love feeling sets in once, for some it takes time to build in that feeling into love, for others it takes time for another's feeling to be mutual
you will get her, am not gonna tell you it will be easy for you to find but trust me if she is right it will be the easiest choice to make

@OP

"Meow", that's all I gotta say.

Dude

oya dey find one wey loff you na. .

bayor48:

190,u just they make me laught

merry christmas dude

merry xmas

@ OP: you can't be nice to women. They must remember you for something or else vamoos.

y me:

honey such is life and nature as a whole
the fact that you are falling in love with the wrong types now doesn't mean no one is gonna be capable of sharing mutual feeling with you
its all about time, for some the love feeling sets in once, for some it takes time to build in that feeling into love, for others it takes time for another's feeling to be mutual
you will get her, am not gonna tell you it will be easy for you to find but trust me if she is right it will be the easiest choice to make

thanks dear for ur concern,i wld kp my fingers crossd 4 nw while waitng for "mrs right"

Natasha,,:

awwwwwwwww baby this is not the end you shouldn't give up okay I want to believe you are still young and still have time to locate the right girl, look all of us want thesame thing the only difference is we take different roads which leads us to our different problem I want you to remember this ''life never leaves us empty if it ask us to put something down then its because it wants us to pick up something better. Now baby wipe your tears if there is any I think it is better that they revealed to you they don't love you as for me one of my fears Is to be in love with someone who doesn't love me but acts like he does. You should be happy that those girls have gone away in other to create space for they right girl just think of it this way okay I know its not easy even I am going through problems like this

"tnx a million"u ve been an angel,wel, i wld jst take my time n wait for the"right one"u wld surely ovacome urs n smile.tnx

Phate07:


Falling in love is quite easy.
It is falling out of love that is the hard part.

Phate07:


Wachu squeezing your mouth for?

your reply.