Truth be told I see no fault of hers in your write up; infact she should be praised for continously helping you to stay clear of bad decisions.

Though a man is free to make any decision he seems fit even if it will lead to his end. And from your story you want to be in control.

If i may ask - how did she know most of these decisions you are about to take or why do you keep telling her about it?

Wayforward
Try to analyse and study the woman that you marry because i deduce you don't know her much. Take your time to study her.
That is:
- Does she pray?
- What is that thing she likes most or spend time on
- Does she seek any advice from you or she is the independent type
- how does she relate with people
-Does she have a secret or hide anything from you?
And so on.
Get results of these to determine if she is a good or bad person.


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@Mr Ortintin