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Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Kobicove(m): 11:57am On May 09, 2021
Whitecoal711:
If na dangote pikin him go relinquish am
Poverty na bastard, Heavy disease
But I ask is it possible to relinquish it,I ask for a brother,make my elder bro no do oo,the stress of umunna and meetings,eeh no be here oo

You sef dey fear responsibilities of first son grin
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by kingPhidel(m): 11:58am On May 09, 2021
See wetin desmond eliot cause! This life sha. SMH
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by ibinaboonline: 12:00pm On May 09, 2021
Hahahahahah. O gbala oso o.
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Rushna27(f): 12:01pm On May 09, 2021
problems everywhere..... birthright is not wot to play with sha
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by BlackFlamefromP: 12:02pm On May 09, 2021
Funny and sad at the same time.

How can you renounce your position as a first born when you are actually the first born of the family? Are you going to re-enter your mother's womb and be born last?

That kind of decision make you a disgrace both to your creator and your parents.

If family pressure is too much for you why not leave the family temporarily, go somewhere faraway and hustle, when you make it you can finally come back to help them. That's better than making yourself a laughing stock
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Righteousness2(m): 12:03pm On May 09, 2021
kunkelhanspeter:

Did Esau relinquished his Birthright or he was scammed by his beloved mother and brother??

Go read your Bible so you will be better informed
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Cutehector(m): 12:03pm On May 09, 2021
jawalis:
I am the first child and I can tell. It’s not easy. You gotta make sure your siblings are ok before you plan for your own life which is more reason why I am here today where I am.
what sort of useless law is that
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by kkins25(m): 12:05pm On May 09, 2021
Righteousness2:
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He must have seen terrible things for him to go this extent.
Nevertheless, there are certain decisions that we should be very careful before taking action.
Birthright is not what you toil with. The effect goes way beyond you. It could have consequences on coming generations.
The Reason we don't Hear GOD of Abramham, Isaac and Esau is because Esau relinquished his Birthright.

Esau seems to be the bad guy? The psychopath Jacob and his manipulative mother were angels right?
If you're brother ask you for food, would you tell him to sell his birthright? You Christians and your taqiya Islamic form of deception.

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Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Firstorderwizard(m): 12:05pm On May 09, 2021
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Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by ibinaboonline: 12:06pm On May 09, 2021
You know what you're talking about.
oluwaseyi0:


there will be no need to, as Dangote and Otedola is capable of taking care of their own children

been first child of poor/unplanned family is hard, imagine the parents still giving birth even when they can't take care of the ones on ground and expecting first born to suspend his life because of others
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by stanley000: 12:07pm On May 09, 2021
thats why i warn all my younger ones never to call me to talk about problem, send am as text message instead.

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Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by JohnSin97: 12:11pm On May 09, 2021
Funny thing is that if this guy drops dead leaving his wife and kids......those his same family members that's he's doing first son duties for would probably leave his wife and children to their fate....they might even come after his properties chasing the wife and children away..lol no be igbo people. Congrats to this man.....he has seen the light.

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Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Nobody: 12:18pm On May 09, 2021
koondog:
Before I even open the thread, I knew it must be Igbo. Igbo culture and tradition is very complicated and you won't understand unless you are Igbo. They have many rules like in the bible. The first son in Igboland comes with both benefits and responsibilities. You will inherit the family estate in the village and many others but comes with heavy responsibilities too, not for free! You can't even denounce it because the land will come after you wherever you run to.
Bro, I love ibos, but everything about them is force. They will force the first son do everything. First sons too behave like gods. Women are trashes in the culture. And if you point it to them, they even get more aggressive. I always stay away from engaging the core ibos. It is the truth. They are their own enemies. And I continue saying it, this same way they want to bully their way to Aso Rock will land them nothing. Lol. The bible is right. The first shall be last, while the last shall be first. Ibo produced the first president of Nigeria....lol. Imagine. They need to really talk to themselves.

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Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by jawalis(m): 12:18pm On May 09, 2021
Cutehector:
what sort of useless law is that
You’d better be quite.
It is called a sense of responsibility. It’s never a law. But nature will instill it into you. Don’t you know the burden will be yours letter at the end if you did not do it now?
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by mechanics(m): 12:19pm On May 09, 2021
Hmmmmm, he's behaving like Esau who sold his birthright.
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by witworth(m): 12:19pm On May 09, 2021
Tough decision... Godspeed.
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by GodisFirst: 12:20pm On May 09, 2021
It is not easy to be first born Son. I am wearing same type of shoes with him but God that made you first son without consulting you will also give you the grace to manage whatever that comes your way if you key into His plan. So will never give up. You can imagine after graduation and working but have to wait for almost 10 years to train your younger siblings before getting married.
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by BbqTormentor: 12:23pm On May 09, 2021
Elonmuskfan:
Good decision

First sons dey suffer

Nigeria is hard gan

Then you try make your first wealth in your thirties after years of feeding hand to mouth, only for you to first for your parents and the immediate sibling down, ensure they’re stable in life, before you set off to enjoy your life and make your own family, just to ensure your own family stability devoid of their persistent financial harassments.

Don’t accept a burden you can not bear
walahi

No wonder vulture has resorted to sucking buhari's d'ck
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by MeghaneMorgane(f): 12:26pm On May 09, 2021
grin grin grin
This guy has seen sege. E be like say the family no get any property worth having grin grin. Na why him give Victor and Ikenna the properties.

May God help all first borns in Jesus name, Amen
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by danngnews: 12:27pm On May 09, 2021
I can relate as an Igbo, but as per our culture, he can't undo his position in the family, in fact this might be seen as taboo.
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by bigfish3k: 12:27pm On May 09, 2021
First daughters should start renouncing too
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by lollybee15(m): 12:28pm On May 09, 2021
I just can't stop laughing, this is so funny. grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by TheGiftedOne(m): 12:31pm On May 09, 2021
unity004:
A Nigerian man identified as Ifeanyi ESAU Onukwubiri has publicly denounced his position as the first son of his family.
According to Ifeanyi, in a letter dated May 7th, revealed he is willing to be the last born of the family as being the first son of the family is a thorn in his flesh, adding that his immediate younger brother should take the position.

In his words: "The position is a total liability to me, a setback and a thorn in my flesh. Hence I am writing to formally inform you that I have renounced my position as your first son, and I am willing to allow my immediate younger brother, Ikenna, to take over the position if he so desires". “By this letter, I am also relinquishing all my entitlements and heritage as your first son to Ikenna and Victor, and they are free to treat these entitlements as they wish. “I will therefore plead that from now on I should no longer be addressed as the first son of your family, I am willing to become the last born if possible.”

https://www./2021/05/08/nigerian-man-renounces-his-position-as-first-son-in-the-family-gives-reasons/

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Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by olmoRoc: 12:35pm On May 09, 2021
Good riddance. However, that is not going to happen in the old Bendel State where most first sons just sit and wait to solely inherit upon the death of their parents everything that was acquired during their lifetime.
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by ubev01(m): 12:38pm On May 09, 2021
This one na learner sha, first born or last born, as long as you get dough pass the others, dem go disturb you

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Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Connected1: 12:39pm On May 09, 2021
The Igbo Tradition is not for the faint-hearted.
Sometimes I spark follow them, you have to oppose some decisions else they will rule you and even involve themselves in your family business.
Nevertheless you shouldn't make enemies from your family, it's deadly.
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Djamel(m): 12:42pm On May 09, 2021
Twelfthman:
God don't create what he doest like



......Jacobs I like Esau I hate

Thats the Bible
Romans 9vs 13
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Bhol28: 12:43pm On May 09, 2021
Imagine
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by Emyogalanya: 12:46pm On May 09, 2021
Whitecoal711:
If na dangote pikin him go relinquish am
Poverty na bastard, Heavy disease
But I ask is it possible to relinquish it,I ask for a brother,make my elder bro no do oo,the stress of umunna and meetings,eeh no be here oo
this one Na lazy Nigerian first born o.
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by bigpicture001: 12:48pm On May 09, 2021
Prenonjebose:
And if his siblings also reject the position.

Hahahahaha.... Na u funny pass.. Lwkm
Re: Nigerian Man Renounces His Position As First Son In The Family, Gives Reasons by vioment: 12:48pm On May 09, 2021
Lol.


We dey craze for this country.



Some family can frustrate you sha.

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