Kaymicheal852:


So is there a redpill book or law or something else that says all those garbage ,the truth is most supposed redpiller on nairaland don't know anything about REDPIll and just hearing it on nairaland for the first time

Since like me ,you still want a child from a woman ,you will always be involved with them ,I think the wiser thing to do is to Bleep around until you find one that you think is good enough to be your baby mummy,and whether you want her around or not ,it's now depend on your choice


I have just found my baby mummy for now and I want my baby mummy to be around and I don't think anyone should have any problem with that

Whenever we have to do anything on our house electricity Meter ,all my flatmates are older woman but will still call me young man ,to come and fix it ,later they will be claiming equality bullshit ,but met it comes to any difficult or physically tough task or anyehere big guts is needed ,they will be looking for a man around or looking for their pussy to save them just because they are woman

If the man in their life is an emotional man is a coward and doesn't have guts and can't stand up for them or bully there way out of situations ( mostly nice guys who wants to please everybody ) they'll leave him for some jack of a man who will be beating them with blow ,slaps
and dick regularly and later claim all man are bad when their lives are almost ruined

Woman like to be with men who have edges over other men ,and can control and correct them anytime they want to Bleep up ,let me stop me ,most people won't even understand no matter how much I define it for them



Take your REDPIll regularly and don't ever let any woman ruin you

REDPILL don't say you should not have kids

You want to make a baby mama out of a woman, but you want other men to avoid a baby mama? Lol. Is a woman free to do all these too?

Nobody SHOULD have a problem with it, except you're having a problem with other women and what they do.

Kaymicheal852:


So is there a redpill book or law or something else that says all those garbage ,the truth is most supposed redpiller on nairaland don't know anything about REDPIll and just hearing it on nairaland for the first time

Since like me ,you still want a child from a woman ,you will always be involved with them ,I think the wiser thing to do is to Bleep around until you find one that you think is good enough to be your baby mummy,and whether you want her around or not ,it's now depend on your choice


I have just found my baby mummy for now and I want my baby mummy to be around and I don't think anyone should have any problem with that

Whenever we have to do anything on our house electricity Meter ,all my flatmates are older woman but will still call me young man ,to come and fix it ,later they will be claiming equality bullshit ,but met it comes to any difficult or physically tough task or anyehere big guts is needed ,they will be looking for a man around or looking for their pussy to save them just because they are woman

If the man in their life is an emotional man is a coward and doesn't have guts and can't stand up for them or bully there way out of situations ( mostly nice guys who wants to please everybody ) they'll leave him for some jack of a man who will be beating them with blow ,slaps
and dick regularly and later claim all man are bad when their lives are almost ruined

Woman like to be with men who have edges over other men ,and can control and correct them anytime they want to Bleep up ,let me stop me ,most people won't even understand no matter how much I define it for them



Take your REDPIll regularly and don't ever let any woman ruin you

REDPILL don't say you should not have kids

stanliwise:


There is something you're getting wrong.
you fail to not decode that gender wars are propagated by girls also, words like:
"are you not a man?"
"why are behaving like a woman?"
"Come and do this and that are you not man?"
"stop behaving like a woman"

Sexism can be propagated by anyone and even female are also among the biggest culprit, many female especially in the sub-saharan part of africa are major proponent of female as a second class citizen. some women would rather die in the hand of violent man than become independent.

So NO NO NO NO!!, Repill aren't the culprit alone, sexism is sexism and it has no gender, feminism is another giant participant of the segregation theory and games.

But just because I don't see women as second class citizen does not make me a push over or entertain the opposite view. Life is a spectrum of color but in a gender war there is no middle side, you either stay in the extreme sides, so I don't blame you when you try to go extra mile to give a women a bad name to hang her. It is only an act of war

But men like me don't play gender wars, I don't live by hard doctrine so that one crazy girl somewhere would see me as a real man neither do I bend to any crazy herder rules by some men who care not about me but are rather looking for pawn against women created thousands of years ago existing in billions.

Life is not a shade of black and white. it is a spectrum of color but how can i paint this picture when you're color blind?
You're a man of white and black, I wear the purple color but you may seem them as black. it's fine too

stanliwise:

Men are leaders of their home no doubt does not equal men supreme to women. That idea is only born out extremism.
There is no credible research to back that claim if there is reference me. Well redpill aren’t good with research

Magnoliaa:


Hmm. A redpiller in a relationship. Interesting. So you choose to give commitment to a woman? Why? What are the benefits in it for you? Or why really are you in a relationship as a redpiller? What's a relationship to you and what are the things you provide, if you don't mind me asking? Do you absolutely have to provide? Could you not just live perfectly okay as a single man? What I'm saying is, ... are you getting something from the relationship that you won't get being single?

I trust you won't get mad or take anything personal (with me), as you seem reasonable. You're not obligated to answer me, and I mean no harm.

FreeSpirited:

Bull-crap. How does this make sense to you. Well I no get ur time I've see your trail of poo all over the place. You are irredeemable actually. Brother Feminist

FreeSpirited:

You've been asking this foolish question from page one and u ain't tired. Even feminist with hatred for men still someway have relationship with same guys they bleat about, and I never read u ask why they got into relationship. While many more of them still seek marriage for reason best known to them with some sort of personal expectations. Stop asking stupid question.
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Marriage as we know it is an institution that is socially and culturally constructed as a truth and model for cohabitation at adulthood, even when u don't want anything to do with it, it's deeply institutionalised with social shame and ridicule for whoever is against it at adulthood.
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Is it that you don't know people get into marriage for various reasons that are not congruent with traditional reason for marriage?
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In Nigeria, a redpiller can get married as there are still incentive for marriage if we follow strictly traditional marital values and expectation. In the same vein, redpillers in Nigeria are warned and given the pros and cons for them when they marry in Nigerian context, so they are armed for the worst case scenario as well as being wary of those leeches and women unfit for marriage. getting into marriage blindly with mainstream expectations is a suicide mission.
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But in Western world their context is quite slopy and different from ours. Reason an average American are single mama and single dad who doesn't want to get married. In that case, redpill knowledge with respect to their crazy marriage culture is golden- for self preservation- for any sensible man nursing the idea of some fairytale marital bliss over there. Exceptions over there isn't the rule.
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..Hope u will save us of your cynical question this time
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Magnoliaa:
@FreeSpirited

Let's make this simpler again. Another way.

Are you a redpiller?

If you are a redpiller, do you want to get married?

If you want to get married, why would you? Can you tell me the reasons why you'll be interested in a marriage?

(US a marriage necessary for you achieving those reasons?)

FreeSpirited:

Do you have comprehension problem? Go back to my last mention of you....and read it gently, line by line. All questions are answered there

FreeSpirited:

Do you have comprehension problem? Go back to my last mention of you....and read it gently, line by line. All questions are answered there

Magnoliaa:


Are they getting married for social conformity?? ?? You can't answer it personally? Aren't you interested in marriage? What's in it for you? Are you following a traditional value and expectation so you can get the "incentive" for a marriage?

If you're going the traditional route, why then do you talk about untraditional reasons why people get married, as opposed to the mainstream reasons?? ?? ??

FreeSpirited:

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You are a typical woman in ur argumentative style and rationalizions that borders around gender, marriage and whatnot...
in Redpill parlance, hoping for an argument with clarity without back and forth rigmarole is almost impossible with most women...and you are exhibiting that trait to the fullest... ideally I shouldn't engage further..cos it's a rabbit hole
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But let me indulge you for your seemingly genuine concern to get into the psyche of a redpiller..lol..though I know it's Lori iro..na lie.
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The reason for marriage is wide and in a spectrum...I think that's a given that shouldn't be belaboured. And every individual is different, with varying worldviews.
To ur question:
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1. Yes people can get married for social conformity. That's simple to grasp considering social and family bond that exist in Nigeria where family and social influence have large say on you, plus it's attendant implications in many cases when u go against the norm.
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2. Redpillers may also want to marry cos this is Nigeria, not as westernized and feminised like Europe and America. And among the pool of ladies, a man can still be methodical and rigourous enough to get a woman with strong traditional values for marriage. A woman without that value will easily crumble a marriage and make it hell. Most feminist are bad for the stability of marriage.. it's simple.
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3 A redpiller with his knowledge of woman psychology and her hypergamous tendency can easily play to the rules and bail out before the woman make a mess of his life, it's like some informed gamble where you know the game before u are played . Unlike in Western world where a slut of a wife can call a police on you and destroy all you've worked for in a twinkle just for a capricious moment of emotional or hormonal imbalance.
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4. Redpillers may get married in Nigeria just for the marriage tag...and be not ready to take the usual bullshit women throw at their naive husband......
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5. Personally, I'm not convinced yet abt marriage, but I know one day I should marry, cos all my family and friend expect it. So I'm extremely picky, and sensitive with ladies I meet. I've not even met one single lady in my entire life that have made me fantasize marriage..not yet..I'm in my 30s notwithstanding and it doesn't bother me.
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.6...Some redpiller may also get married in Nigeria cos redpill also embody and teaches the act of masculinity which instill frame and makes a man more attractive and easier to submit to. But in the event when mutual respect is lost, or can't be sustained, redpill doesn't teach swallowing bullshit. Just bail out. That is easier in Nigeria as well and u can come out unscathed.
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I believe even a kindargaten pupil should understand this. Ire o. Tell me u wish to marry a redpiller. Lol

FreeSpirited:


The reason for marriage is wide and in a spectrum...I think that's a given that shouldn't be belaboured. And every individual is different, with varying worldviews and expectations.
To ur question:
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1. Yes people can get married for social conformity.

2. Redpillers may also want to marry cos this is Nigeria, not as westernized and feminised like Europe and America. And among the pool of ladies, a man can still be methodical and rigourous enough to get a woman with strong traditional values for marriage. A woman without that value will easily crumble a marriage and make it hell. Most feminists are bad for the stability of marriage. it's simple.

3 A redpiller with his knowledge of woman psychology and her hypergamous tendency can easily play to the rules and bail out before the woman makes a mess of his life, it's like some informed gamble where you know the game before u are played. Unlike in Western world where a slut of a wife can call a cop on you and destroy all you've worked for in a twinkle due to a capricious moment of emotional or hormonal imbalance.

4. Redpillers may get married in Nigeria just for the marriage tag...and be not ready to take the usual bullshit women throw at their naive husband......

5. Personally, I'm not convinced yet abt marriage, but I know one day I should marry, cos all my family and friend expect it. So I'm extremely picky, and sensitive with ladies I meet. I've not even met one single lady in my entire life that have made me fantasize marriage..not yet..I'm in my 30s notwithstanding and it doesn't bother me.
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.6...Some redpiller may also get married in Nigeria cos redpill also embody and teaches the act of masculinity which instills frame and makes a man more attractive and easier to submit to. But in the event when mutual respect is lost, or can't be sustained, redpill doesn't teach swallowing bullshit. Just bail out. That is easier in Nigeria as well and u can come out unscathed.
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I believe even a kindargaten pupil should understand this. Ire o. Tell me u wish to marry a redpiller. Lol

stanliwise:
Redpill is garbage theory.
A white knight seeking revenge.
Filled with negative vibes of the past.

If you want to teach boys how to be better in relationship. Redpill is not the way

stanliwise:
If you're a guy out there really confused about how socially awkward things are and need to get better at it. You most likely need the help of a counselor, if not there are a lot of book to read and here are things you need to concentration on, find books on

Social intelligence - This means how to read people behavior and make accurate inference, this would help you to understand how to react to event and how to interpret healthy and disrespectful social settings

self-appreciation and confidence - Most social problems happen because many people lack respect for themselves and likewise don't ask for same respect for people e.g way you dress, how you allow people address you, what you take from people and how you treat others

Communication: This topic is very complicated, most people face alot of problem in social settings since they lack the skill to communicate how they want to be perceived and also on the other end, some people can't easily understand common social signal. Its a complicated topic.

Self control and maturity: This is very important, many guys this days lack self control of how to act, speak or react to social situation, they either spoil the situation or delay things for too long.
On the maturity angle, alot of guys are just very immature, they lack proper timing and experience to handle common situation either by under reacting or over reacting.

The game: you need to understand common tricks people used in social settings to manipulate others. Unlike redpill you are not all out to play them but to understand them incase you're in a situation people try to use them on you. you can spot them and act appropratiely or play if you have to. But games remain games and if avoided you loose nothing. but a knowledge of them is not a bad idea

HighK:
Even the daughter is being abused by 15 she already has 3 sexual relationships... What a mess. Her mental issues are only hybernating.

IAmSkinny:

Like I said, the redpill does not condemn marriage blatantly like it's some sort of taboo. Just like there are single mothers, single daddies exists too.
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I might choose to get married, I might not. But one thing I know is that marriage allows 80% of promiscuous women to eat their cake and have it and still have it. This is exactly what redpill principle is trying to open our eyes to.
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Wanna get married? Then vet ruthlessly and discard as appropriate

Magnoliaa:
@FreeSpirited - you've even taken me far off my initial stand. And let me end with this, if you think those reasons you posted are reasons enough for a redpiller to get married, the you cannot claim marriage is all useless. Because you want something from it, you're getting something from marriage and women, for you to want to attract them and keep them and make them submissive and loyal in a traditional setting that benefit you (the way marriages have originally and initially been), then yo cannot say marriage is useless or that it doesn't benefit you.

It does. And it benefitted the men who came before the men who came before the men that came before you.

If equality and rights for women threaten you, if women being free and being autonomous threaten you... that you have to manipulate them... I don't know what to say to you.

Magnoliaa:


Spanking, ke? How many kids here that turned out to be bad and criminals and touts did they not correct with spanking? I even know of people who've beaten their kids, after pouring pepper on their backs yet the kids are nothing to write home about today.

emmanuel1277:

Are you in any way saying makes and females are equal ?

budaatum:
Magnoliaa, You are going to have to put this in a thread I can respond to. Though, know that I do not look favourable on unfounded conspiracies, as they can be weaved into a web even where there are no spiders.