Some of us actually cripple our children by giving in to all their demands when they are young.
These children grow up entitled and don't have the discipline to strive and fend for themselves later
They keep demanding and demanding and expect you to continue to maintain their life style when they are young adults.
We need to teach children that they can't always have what they wish for.
They have to learn to fend for themselves.
We have to draw a boundary at some point.
I look forward to your comments...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zV7J_dO90sI

I disagree with this mindset. I was spoilt as a kid, I got money when I wanted as soon kid. Sometimes I didn't even have to ask, I open my dad's wallet or moms purse and take the amount I need to buy what I want. Decades later, I'm doing good and fending for myself, sending my parents money and gifts whenever I feel like surprising them.

Look at all the slay queens, most come from homes where either the parents can't afford the things they want or the parents refuse to give them what they want. The boys on the other hand go into different crimes to get money.

Bottom line is if you do not earn a very sufficient amount of money, do not rush to have kids. Do not bring kids to the world to suffer.