you didnt take your time to get to know her a bit and rush and jump into relationship with er?

now u are seeking advise on what to do, till you Bleep her raw and spend 70k treating disease thats when ur eyes go clear

Coolboy009:
There is this girl I just met recently (about 3 months ago). I like her very well and I talk to her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Along the line, I fall in love with her because she has a good personality and I don't mind settling down with her.

Last week she called me and said she wants to tell me something and I said she should go ahead and tell me. She said she is coming over to my place, that is not what she can discuss on the phone. She came over and she said to me that before we meet, she has been living a very rough life that she uses to follow men but now she has decided to stop. I felt very bad, inside me. But I keep it cool with her, and I told her since she has decided to change for good there will be no issues. Before then, when never she is with me she uses to receive multiple calls and I do ask her about it she will always have one or two excuses to give.

I told one of my friends about it and he said I should just forget about her, that she can never change. I seriously like this girl but am confused about what to do. I need your advice. This is my first time on naira land, pls take it easy with o.

She told you the truth about her past, she's a good woman and wants to change. Why not give her a chance rather than predict her future from her past? life doesn't work that way. Who we are today doesn't guarantee who we will be tomorrow. Marring a virgin doesn't mean she won't wore around, my neighbour married his wife a virgin and brags about it. What he doesn't know is his wife keeps chatting me up by 2am.

Coolboy009:
There is this girl I just met recently (about 3 months ago). I like her very well and I talk to her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Along the line, I fall in love with her because she has a good personality and I don't mind settling down with her.

Last week she called me and said she wants to tell me something and I said she should go ahead and tell me. She said she is coming over to my place, that is not what she can discuss on the phone. She came over and she said to me that before we meet, she has been living a very rough life that she uses to follow men but now she has decided to stop. I felt very bad, inside me. But I keep it cool with her, and I told her since she has decided to change for good there will be no issues. Before then, when never she is with me she uses to receive multiple calls and I do ask her about it she will always have one or two excuses to give.

I told one of my friends about it and he said I should just forget about her, that she can never change. I seriously like this girl but am confused about what to do. I need your advice. This is my first time on naira land, pls take it easy with o.

Yes, your friend is right. Furthermore, the key to attraction is to understand where feelings of lust, desire and attraction originate in a woman's brain.

She belongs to the streets

Even me na so my parents tell but thank God I come later follow up we go make baba

Despite the fact that she told you about her past and she is ready to change might be a good idea but mind you she never stick to you in the sense she might not be contended with what you do give to her so my advice is that you always be prepared for whatever that comes your way because she always tell you that she wants to change and your emotions might blind you to see the truth

The girl likes you I swear, some girls will run shit and wouldn't even let u know about it, some will let you know but feel you can't do nothing about it.

But you can stop those calls from coming if you are a strong and disciplined guy

Monitor her calls and movement but don't make it obvious like you are desperate

How this bullshit come concern me now

Freestainworld:
Babe wey take her mouth confess to you, my brother give her a chance in your life, she really likes you.

change no be by mouth bro.

I agree he should give her a chance but there must be a genuine act of change.

Here's what I'll advice you to do:

Get her to come over, tell her that you love her regardless of her past (which you do by your post) but you want her to genuinely take steps to move forward with you.

Tell her to make a note of her important contacts. This should include her female friends and family members only.

Ensure you do this with her.

Then tell her to uninstall her whatsapp and get her new sim cards.

Delete her old contacts, register a new whatsapp and actually buy her airtime to inform her family of the new numbers.

Now that's a clean beginning with you and her.

Any other multiple calls from guys means say the girl is for the street and you should do your do and move on.

If she no gree, free am go look for another shorty